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Plan9 01-12-2008 06:16 PM

Slummin' It
 
Oh, you all know exactly what I mean by the title alone. Don't even play, people. I can see the baggy sweatpants and XL T-shirts from here.

Slummin' It


I know some of you do it all the time based on your clothing choices and lifestyle, thus it is the rule instead of the exception and nothing "Ooo-aaah!" exciting.

I also know some of you high class style-freak types do it occasionally in those rare "Awwh, fuck it!" moments of weakness when you're in a real funk.

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Background:

I just went out to the grocery store for a few impulse items on this fine Saturday night... dressed in holey faded jeans with no belt, unbuckled and very-ate-the-fuck-up "Jesus Cruiser" sandals, a patch-laden army jacket, a fuzz-covered karate T-shirt, and a black fleece cap. I haven't shaved since January 1st and I don't think comb has gone anywhere near my skull in 72 hours.

Disclaimer: I'm not dirty. There has been no skipping showers, the use of Old Spice stick, face and hand washing, my rigorous 4-part oral hygiene regimen or toilet paper, but outwardly I look a lot like a stereotypical homeless veteran except for the clean skin and lack of Boone's Farm breath and urine-stench cologne.

I think it's because I'm a single guy and not currently looking for a relationship, an older guy "balls deep" in college, formerly GI Joe, formerly ring-anchored, and have my life priorities pretty damn straight.

I'm not much of a pretty boy, either.

...

Note to self: There will be a lot of grooming in my near future, though. Got a lady to impress.

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Questions:


When do you "slum it" in your life? Times of the year, moods, relationship status, activities, etc.

To what degree do you go?

What do you think about the occasional neglect of superficial self-grooming / attention to style?

Ustwo 01-12-2008 06:19 PM

By posting this you show you care too much.

Might as well start spray tan and use 'product'.

Plan9 01-12-2008 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ustwo
By posting this you show you care too much.

Might as well start spray tan and use 'product'.

Can you do my tooth whitening?

Ustwo 01-12-2008 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin
Can you do my tooth whitening?

You bet, bring money.

World's King 01-12-2008 06:33 PM

The only way I'll leave the house in disarray is if I'm just goin' to my Mom's house to do laundry.


Oh and on Christmas Day my family usually wears pajamas all day.

Push-Pull 01-12-2008 08:20 PM

Shit, everyday when I get home from work. Baggy sweats and a T-shirt man.

On occasion, the baggy sweats and T-shirt hit the grocery store with me, but more often than that, I'm going after work, so dirty jeans, something one step up from a T-shirt, and steel-toed work boots. Definitely not GQ, but I'd not say slobbish either.

I don't really ever dress up except for job interviews, holidays, funerals, and weddings. Oh, and when I'm taking the wife out for a nice dinner.

ngdawg 01-12-2008 08:33 PM

I never leave the house in sweats, but around the house, I'm pretty slovenly on days I haven't gone to work. And if I'm home feeling sick, don't come to the door-the sight of me would scare away cops....

PonyPotato 01-12-2008 08:44 PM

I take off my jeans as soon as I get home for the evening. Trade 'em for just hanging out in my underwear or some pj pants. I do it primarily for comfort, but also because if I get started painting, things don't usually end well for my jeans.

As for going out.. sometimes if I feel crappy I'll go to class in sweatpants, but not often at all. Soccer shorts and a t-shirt is standard for class when it's warm, though.

I only really "let myself go" when I'm sick. I think that's understandable. But otherwise, I like to dress up and make some sort of attempt to look pretty. Especially if I have a man to impress.. then I make sure shave my legs every day, even if I'm not planning on wearing a skirt in the winter. ;)

RangerJoe 01-12-2008 08:45 PM

I have a pet peeve about seeing girls/women out grocery shopping in their Care Bears or flannel pajama bottoms. Seriously, how hard is it to put on a pair of jeans before you walk out the door?

The only time I'll really slum it is at home when I know no one is going to be coming over. Like right now.

Fotzlid 01-12-2008 08:47 PM

my normal everyday wardrobe (jeans and t-shirt or sweatshirt) would be considered "slumming it" by quite a few people.
about the only way i can dress down is to go out wearing sweatpants instead of jeans.
as far as the neglect of self-grooming, it doesnt bother me to miss a shower here and there. especially if i know i'm not going anywhere that day.

Shauk 01-12-2008 10:20 PM

I slum it on weekends...

I really only stop shaving. I still keep showering and keeping um the hygene but I just let my testosterone prove itself a bit and turn me into a temporary bushman for a few days.


I never go out in a slummy state unless I'm going straight for a drive thru. But since I stopped doing that last october, it doesn't happen.

I'm too afraid I'll miss the chance to make a good impression on someone important to me (who I haven't met yet) if I'm lacking the confidence to just be myself if I'm all nasty and poorly dressed/groomed.

Willravel 01-12-2008 10:36 PM

I "slum it" when I do yard work. Old, thick jeans, old boots, old torn t-shirts, old-ass hat. Same when I do anything like that. Mortar work, automotive work, woodwork, etc. If I'm doing a dirty job, I'm not sporting Kenneth Cole.

World's King 01-12-2008 10:40 PM

I always pictured you working on your car in a three piece suit...

Willravel 01-12-2008 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by World's King
I always pictured you working on your car in a three piece suit...

If it's something simple like a plug/wire change, then sure. But if I'm slapping on new headers and a turbo, no way, Jose.

Grasshopper Green 01-12-2008 10:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RangerJoe
I have a pet peeve about seeing girls/women out grocery shopping in their Care Bears or flannel pajama bottoms. Seriously, how hard is it to put on a pair of jeans before you walk out the door?

The only time I'll really slum it is at home when I know no one is going to be coming over. Like right now.

Hear, hear. I truly don't understand the phenomenon of going out in your pajamas. Or sweats. If I'm just running to the store, I at least put on some jeans. I may not have makeup on, but damn it, I have clothes on. I think the last time I ran out in my pajamas was 7 years ago when my cockatiel injured her eye and I had to get some saline solution from the store.

Elphaba 01-12-2008 11:45 PM

I have a home/office and I live in my jammies. Slumming it only starts when I get dressed.

dlish 01-13-2008 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by World's King
The only way I'll leave the house in disarray is if I'm just goin' to my Mom's house to do laundry.


you mean when ure at your moms and your mom does the laundry?

abaya 01-13-2008 04:21 AM

There is no such thing as "slumming it" in Iceland. I mean, ktspktsp and I do our best to hang out half-naked or in our PJ's on most weekend days when we're at home, but the second we leave the front door, we have to be decently dressed. NO ONE goes to the store in PJ pants or sweats (I don't think Icelanders even own sweats, lol). I don't know if it's a European thing or what, but whenever I am in Iceland I feel a lot more pressure to dress nicely for even short trips to the store.

I had the same issue in Lebanon, actually. It was over 70 degs F and I was SO excited about the idea of wearing khaki capri pants and flip flops (for the first time in over a year) down to the corner grocery store... but no, that idea got nixed by ktspktsp's female family. "In case we meet someone we know," they said. I didn't think capri pants and flip flops were exactly slumming it, but apparently in high-society Beirut they are. :P Apparently I'm a slovenly American in any other country but my own.

Shaindra 01-13-2008 06:18 AM

Mostly at home in cleaning clothes or lounging around in flannel PJs and wool socks. For me, slumming it means going out to the store with only a coat of mascara for make-up.

The flip-side of that is the hyper-grooming I do when I am dressing to impress. I'll start with the bathing, shampooing, conditioning, exfoliating, epilating, shaving, lotioning, hair-drying, straightening, teeth whitening, make-up, eyebrow shaping, perfume on all 13 pulse-points...and that's before I've even put on a stitch of clothing.

Now ask me how long I go in between shaves when a man is not involved. :orly:

PonyPotato 01-13-2008 07:41 AM

Does going to the grocery store in my boots and breeches/jeans from the barn count as slumming it?

It usually gets me some interesting looks.

Ustwo 01-13-2008 08:35 AM

Who are you trying to impress?

Can't say I care what the check out girl thinks or the guy at Best Buy.

There are times when 'looking nice' applies, but as long as the hygiene is good I really don't see the point of worrying what some random person thinks.

Baraka_Guru 01-13-2008 08:44 AM

I don't shave on weekends. My "dress code" at work can include cargo shorts, sandals, and Hawaiian shirts. You can imagine what goes on weekends.

If I'm going to a store, I don't care what I wear. It's a store. It's a place for getting crap. I usually clean up a bit if I'm meeting someone for coffee or a meal, but Ustwo's right: Who cares what the Best Buy cashier thinks? Look at what they're wearing.

snowy 01-13-2008 09:13 AM

I don't wear nice clothes to work--I work with small children, and we get dirty. Nice clothes are best left at home. So I have been known to show up at work in yoga pants.

I only go to the store in my PJs if I'm sick. I will go into the store in my yoga pants on my way to and from work or to and from, well, yoga. But my yoga pants are pretty nice. As for hairy situations, I grow back my eyebrows twice a year and repluck their shape. Usually what makes me look as if I were slumming it is my twice-yearly unibrow and my wild hair. If I've gone a while without a haircut, I turn into Hermione Granger. No joke.

shesus 01-13-2008 09:17 AM

I don't think I'm able to slum it. It's not in my genes or something. I do lay around the apartment in pj pants and a tank in the evening, but rarely all day. There is no way I could walk out the door in sweats to go somewhere, unless it's the gym. I even had trouble with pajama days at school. So going out in sweats has been a problem with me since my teenage years.

It's different in Arizona than it was in Chicago. I do wear more of my t-shirts out here. In Chicago, there was rarely a time I went out in jeans, t-shirt, and sneakers (and that's not really slumming it :lol:). It was quite a shock to move out here. I'd wear my everyday clothes and realize that I was *very* overdressed. I miss the catwalk of Chicago. I do believe I verged on strutting, but that's fun for me. I'm a slave to fashion. But as Abaya pointed out, you kind of have to go with the flow sometimes.

ngdawg 01-13-2008 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ustwo
Who are you trying to impress?

Can't say I care what the check out girl thinks or the guy at Best Buy.

There are times when 'looking nice' applies, but as long as the hygiene is good I really don't see the point of worrying what some random person thinks.

Years ago, I was working in my garden during the summer. Old t-shirt, raggy shorts, barefoot, not a lick of make-up. I needed something from the local 7-11, so I just threw on some flipflops and headed over....and ran into a woman I worked with. It was a weekend and she was immaculate as usual and I was covered in soil in those ratty clothes. Never again. I don't dress for the check-out people, I dress in case I run into someone I know.
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Originally Posted by willravel
I "slum it" when I do yard work. Old, thick jeans, old boots, old torn t-shirts, old-ass hat.

Aww, sweetie, you're not an old ass-hat!

Ustwo 01-13-2008 10:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ngdawg
Years ago, I was working in my garden during the summer. Old t-shirt, raggy shorts, barefoot, not a lick of make-up. I needed something from the local 7-11, so I just threw on some flipflops and headed over....and ran into a woman I worked with. It was a weekend and she was immaculate as usual and I was covered in soil in those ratty clothes. Never again. I don't dress for the check-out people, I dress in case I run into someone I know.

Ok maybe its a woman thing there, but why would a guy care?

We are suppose to get dirty now and then.

Willravel 01-13-2008 10:44 AM

I take pride in the way I present myself. I'm comfortable in nice clothes, and I recognize that in addition to that fact we live in a society that places at least some importance on dress. All "metrosexual" razzing aside, I dress the way I dress and present the image I present because I want to. My normal state of being and comfort isn't in old sweats and a hockey jersey. This isn't a judgment of how poorly you may or may not dress, it's simply who I am.

Hain 01-13-2008 11:59 AM

If it is going to be an introverted day (studying, TV, programming, music, laundry, groceries, no expectations of hanging out with friends, etc), then I leave it at sweats (possible ratty jeans) and flip-flops- I still shower and do the normal routine... I just don't care if I run into anyone I know. I usually present myself in a manner more appropriate... however, I just need my off days.

surferlove007 01-14-2008 12:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RangerJoe
I have a pet peeve about seeing girls/women out grocery shopping in their Care Bears or flannel pajama bottoms. Seriously, how hard is it to put on a pair of jeans before you walk out the door?

The only time I'll really slum it is at home when I know no one is going to be coming over. Like right now.

I totally disagree. Apparently none of you people have lived in college towns. When midterms and finals roll around I tend to wear nothing but sweat pants and shirts and have my hair in a crappy bun with a baseball hat on while I'm slaving away in the studio or the library. If I'm paying a couple grand to go to school...I'm not going to care what people think of my attire while I'm studying for tests. Also you reach a point where you just don't care anymore about how your classmates see you as long as you make the grades.

I slum it at my 8:00 am classes..yes I wear my PJs and have been known to go barefoot with my t-shirt on. Then I promptly go back to bed.

Whenever I wash my care or do yard work for my parents I don't care how I look.
I also tend to be lazy when it comes to going to the store or getting gas. I just don't see the reason to dress up for strangers. I've already met my wonderful man, not looking for anyone else.

I suppose it's a college thing. I do however maintain the hygiene. 4-Cycle teeth-cleaning and showers. I wear my makeup also. I just don't like going out without it on. So if anything else I'll spend my time on my face.

Seer666 01-15-2008 12:14 AM

I slum it a lot. I base my clothing on comfort, not looks. Some days I REALLY slum it though. Went to the store the other day to grab some sodas in my jeans, slippers, and no shirt on under my coat. Right now I'm still in that "just got out of the navy and can do whatever the fuck I want" phase though, so I'm a bit worse then I normally am.

abaya 01-15-2008 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
I suppose it's a college thing.

It's an undergrad thing, to be honest. Yes, I lived in a college town, big time... but as a grad student/TA, we had to dress semi-professionally every day. So I noticed the undergrads dressing in PJ's and sweats a lot more, and remembered nostalgically back to my days on the undergrad rowing team (waking up at 4:30am, you can bet I was going to 8am class in my sweats!!!). But yeah, can't really get away with slumming that much as a grad student.

ENolaReve 01-15-2008 02:50 AM

I don't actually wear anything but boxers unless I have to go somewhere (rare) and then I just wear a plain black T-shirt and jeans along with my boots. So I guess I'm always slumming it?

Plan9 01-15-2008 05:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
I totally disagree. Apparently none of you people have lived in college towns.

You didn't really just say that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seer666
Right now I'm still in that "just got out of the navy and can do whatever the fuck I want" phase though, so I'm a bit worse then I normally am.

Since when do they let squids out of the Uncle Sam tank? :D

filtherton 01-15-2008 05:56 AM

Shit, i guess i've been slumming for most of the last 5 or 6 years. I shower about once a week or two, haven't shaved in several and wear the same clothes (aside from the undies) for usually a week.

I know there's people i need to dress to impress, but i haven't really met them yet. I guess that's a perk of college?

Ustwo 01-15-2008 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
I totally disagree. Apparently none of you people have lived in college towns. When midterms and finals roll around I tend to wear nothing but sweat pants and shirts and have my hair in a crappy bun with a baseball hat on while I'm slaving away in the studio or the library. If I'm paying a couple grand to go to school...I'm not going to care what people think of my attire while I'm studying for tests. Also you reach a point where you just don't care anymore about how your classmates see you as long as you make the grades.

I think for many college students, the reason to look like shit is to they can tell everyone how hard they are studying.

I was lucky to have clean clothes in college and for the life of me I can't recall if anything was ever ironed, but that was because I was lazy.

shesus 01-15-2008 07:15 AM

The college thing is a cop out in my opinion. It's an 'image' like ustwo said. I partied/studied soooo hard, I couldn't even get dressed. That's my observation anyway.

I always found my clothes when I was in college. The slummiest I got were jeans and t-shirts. I had a full load, got a 3.0, and worked 30-40 hours a week. I had every excuse not to prepare myself for the outside world between studying, working, and partying, but it's against my nature.

It's a matter of personal taste for me. Tomato, tomahto.

ShaniFaye 01-15-2008 07:31 AM

Since its winter and I do my grocery shopping around 6 am....I go in my sweats....its warmer than jeans and I really dont care if people like it or not, I got to shop not impress whomever may be there at that time of the morning

fresnelly 01-15-2008 07:58 AM

I don't really slum it other than not shaving occasionally. That doesn't say too much because I dress neatly but in an all purpose manner. My work clothes and home clothes are mostly the same.

That's the result of my wife's influence but also basic practicality and trying to set an example for my kids. Watching "What Not To Wear" on TLC has also scared me straight.

blktour 01-15-2008 09:03 AM

I love to stay clean and have ironed shirts. like Willravel said, I also get "slummin" if I need to work on something or do some sweating.

Every other time I get ready and put myself in my attire that I work with whenever I am out and about.

the reason? Because I have the time, and I feel comfortable in my "out" attire. Also I do it for me! not for the strangers on the street, or the people that I know that I may run into. just for ME.

also I am a full time college student and I have finals and still work full time, and do my part National Guard time, and see my mother every week.

I never understood why college kids felt the need to just go to college and then be lazy everywhere else in their lives.


I keep busy, busy, busy.

Plan9 01-15-2008 09:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shesus
I always found my clothes when I was in college. The slummiest I got were jeans and t-shirts. I had a full load, got a 3.0, ...

Well, maybe if you slinked around in some skuzzy sweatpants and fuzzy bunny slippers like a piece of trailer trash lost on campus (as your peers did)... just maybe you would have achieved that better grade! YA THINK ABOUT THAT ONE!? :D

Martian 01-15-2008 09:29 AM

I also don't really do the whole 'slummin' it' thing (I think jobs where you expect to get dirty can be assumed as the exception). Or rather, I do but to a much lesser degree. Slumming for me is not bothering to put my contacts in, or just throwing a sweater on so I don't have to break out the iron, and the cases where I go out like that are the situations where I'm just going to the store around the corner to get some item or another. Most other times if I'm going anywhere I make sure my hair is combed, my shoes/boots are clean and polished (if applicable) and etc.

When I'm home alone I'm nearly always shirtless, but that's a comfort issue more than anything else. I don't really think of the way you're dressed when you're at home and not expecting company qualifies.

surferlove007 01-15-2008 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ustwo
I think for many college students, the reason to look like shit is to they can tell everyone how hard they are studying.

I was lucky to have clean clothes in college and for the life of me I can't recall if anything was ever ironed, but that was because I was lazy.

Yea because that's totally the facade everyone wants...:rolleyes: Theres no point to go out of your way to dress nicely to sit in the studio or several hours and work, especially when no one else cares.

hambone 01-15-2008 09:49 AM

I am not a snappy dresser in the least, but a generally try to look acceptable...except when I work from home...then all bets are off.

Ustwo 01-15-2008 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
Yea because that's totally the facade everyone wants...:rolleyes: Theres no point to go out of your way to dress nicely to sit in the studio or several hours and work, especially when no one else cares.

Been there done that and got several frat t-shirts before you were born, literally.

College students spend a lot more time complaining about being busy then really being busy. If you are like most though, including myself, you won't realize this until after you graduate.

Glory's Sun 01-15-2008 09:56 AM

I used to be a label whore and wouldn't even go to the gas station unless I looked decent.. now I really just don't give a shit. While I don't do the sweats thing, a pair of jeans with the knees blown out and a 10 year old t-shirt doesn't bother me at all. Maybe it's because I really don't have anyone to impress anymore, or I really learned to not give a shit what people thought. It's funny how I used to always say I didn't care what people thought about what I wore (especially in HS) yet I would spend all that money on the right clothes etc.

abaya 01-15-2008 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo
College students spend a lot more time complaining about being busy then really being busy. If you are like most though, including myself, you won't realize this until after you graduate.

Or until you become a graduate student, like myself, and actually confess to being a perpetual slacker (who happens to have spent all of today in my pajamas, working from home). :D Oh, how I wish I could still convince myself that I'm really busy... :p

dlish 01-15-2008 10:07 AM

my uni days were great.. no study and plenty of procrastination s the order of the day.

mind you when exam time came, i would grow a 'study beard' fo a month as id call it cos i really didnt

a) have much time to shave cos i was cramming
b) care what i looked like cos i wasnt interested in women during that month of study

i scraped through uni by the skin of my gonads

snowy 01-15-2008 10:18 AM

I've sort of been slumming it lately. Given the weather here lately, it feels almost pointless to put on anything that isn't comfortable or warm, because it's going under my rain suit anyways. I get a lot of odd looks cruising around campus, but when your bike is your main mode of transportation in a state with a lot of rain, a rain suit is a must. I don't care if I look totally ridiculous; unlike some of the fashion-plate sorostitutes that attend my classes, I stay warm and dry. I will not suffer cold or wet for the sake of fashion. That is patently ridiculous.

I should note that I occasionally get checked out in my rain suit by guys around campus. I guess a girl who is willing to dress appropriately for the weather is attractive.

abaya 01-15-2008 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
I will not suffer cold or wet for the sake of fashion. That is patently ridiculous.

Word. But don't come to Iceland, because then you'll see that EVERYONE is patently ridiculous. :lol: Seriously, it's often below freezing here in the winter, with a wind-chill factor taking the temps even lower... but walk around downtown at 2am on Fri or Sat night, and you'd think we were in Cabo San Lucas or something. Freakin' crazy women, I say.

savmesom11 01-15-2008 10:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RangerJoe
I have a pet peeve about seeing girls/women out grocery shopping in their Care Bears or flannel pajama bottoms. Seriously, how hard is it to put on a pair of jeans before you walk out the door?

The only time I'll really slum it is at home when I know no one is going to be coming over. Like right now.


Unfortunately in my professional job I have to wear a suit/dress everyday. The fact I can annoy someone who judges me by my SpongeBob sweats and house shoes in the grocery store really makes me smile. How hard is it to put on pants??? How hard is it to understand that people are not on display for your happiness, and in dealing with a very busy work, school, and home schedule it just doesn't seem that huge to me. After all I work with those in crisis everyday, real crisis like loss of home, family, work, ya know the real stuff. It always fascinates me when people seem so annoyed at absolute ludicrous issues. :shakehead:

ShaniFaye 01-15-2008 11:25 AM

hahahaha savmesom I totally agree, I never really thought of the grocery store as a place I need to worry about how I dressed...and I dont...and I wont

jorgelito 01-15-2008 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
I don't shave on weekends. My "dress code" at work can include cargo shorts, sandals, and Hawaiian shirts. You can imagine what goes on weekends.

Dude, do you work at Trader Joe's? That sounds like an awesome dress code.

Baraka_Guru 01-15-2008 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by jorgelito
Dude, do you work at Trader Joe's? That sounds like an awesome dress code.

No, I work in the publishing industry. It's kinda like working at Trader Joe's except the benefits aren't as good and I never have to talk to customers.

ItWasMe 01-15-2008 08:04 PM

I wear grungies when doing chores that I expect will make me dirty. If I am doing home improvement things, I will run an errand to Home Depot or Lowe's (right next to each other here, yay!) with a bit of paint/mud/sawdust/grout on my clothes/face/hands/hair.

On my weekends, like today, sometimes I won't wear makeup or my contact lenses. Unless I'm going out in public.

Late at night I'll lounge around in my pink plaid flannel jammies. They are more comfy than anything else I own. Except for my bubble bath.

roachboy 01-15-2008 08:33 PM

generally, i am of the least-possible-effort school of fashion.
there's no particular difference between me working and me sitting around--i try to tuck my shirt in for work, but i forget most of the time.
i dont do yards.
i dont go near lawns. they scare me. so uniform.

when i've lived in paris, i noticed that everyone--and i mean everyone (except for americans)----i saw was dressed better than i was.
i remember passing a bus stop and seeing a guy passed out on a bench who had pissed himself and who appeared to have spent ALOT of time outside.

this made me think: "homeless people here dress better than i do."

it was just another step in my recognition that no matter what i did, and no matter how long i tried, i would still not be french. i hadn't been terribly occupied with the idea of becoming french, so this did not upset me. it just confirmed that there was no point in trying. which i wasn't. i even found a way to be happy about not feeling like i had to expend the effort to do something i wasn't expending the effort to do.

Dtamr 01-15-2008 10:02 PM

At school, I usually dress in shirt (with punny logo or something) and khaki pants (I hate jeans). When I get back from work I usually just unbutton my work shirt and hang out that way for the rest of the day unless I have plans. If I have something to do then I'll usually dress nice, button up shirt, decent pants. Usually my pants are camoflauge patterned, not because I have any attachment to the military, I just like how they feel. If I am really slumming it (i.e. not leaving the house) I'll wear sweats and an old ratty shirt.

Walking to the store brings to mind an interesting question though. I live in a very small town and going to the store is a common affair. Whenever I go I dont care about how I look. My neighbors also share that sentiment and more often than not they just go in whatever is clean. I usually shower every day or so, but other than going to work, I dont really care about how I look. I have a girlfriend, I have friends, who do I have to impress?

Anyone I want to make a good impression on will hopefully be impressed by my professional and friendly manner, not my clothes.

TotalMILF 01-15-2008 10:21 PM

The whole time I was a stay-at-home-mom I rarely wore anything that didn't have an elastic waist, or that wasn't 2 sizes too big. I figured, if all I'm doing is chillin' with a 2-year-old and my husband's not even on the same continent, why the fuck shouldn't I be comfortable? I'm certainly not trying to impress anybody. HOWEVER, I have never skipped personal hygiene. I shower every day, brush my teeth, do my hair, etc. (I don't wear makeup because I'm damn lazy and I think it's a waste of time and money).

Now that I'm in school, however, I wear my nicer clothes. I don't understand the girls that go in their pajamas and then wonder why nobody (esp. professors) will take them seriously. Personally, I think it's quite disrespectful to your professor and to your classmates to show up to a class dressed like you just rolled out of bed. I think that kinda sends the message that you just don't care enough about their class to even get dressed. If you're holed up in the library studying, however, that's different.

Meh, that's just my opinion.

little_tippler 01-16-2008 01:18 AM

I don't usually go out in "slummin' it" get-up. If I'm walking out the door, I am dressed in minimally decent clothes. That means shoes, jeans, etc. And I went to Art school. I never saw any of my classmates in uni in pyjamas either. Maybe it's just Portugal lol.

I cringe at the thought of being in public in anything pyjama-like. It just wouldn't cross my mind.

I do have phases in my life where I slum it a little, my clothes aren't well thought out, or I didn't make my hair look so nice. Generally I try to make an effort because when I look like shit, I feel like shit.

Generally cleanliness is important and I don't skip that ever.

abaya 01-16-2008 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by little_tippler
Maybe it's just Portugal lol.

Nope, it's a European thing. I always have a bit of reverse culture-shock when I've been away in Europe for a while, and then re-enter the US and see way too many people (even at the airport!) in baggy sweatpants and especially sweatshirts (hoodies, anyone?). You never see that in Europe, ever. Okay, maybe the UK?... but I am not as familiar with those natives. :)

Of course, sometimes I just WANT to run to the store in a sweatshirt, but no... that would be really freaky in Iceland. If I'm wearing one, I usually throw on my dressy wool coat over it, so no one will see the sweatshirt. :lol:

Plan9 01-16-2008 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by roachboy
this made me think: "homeless people here dress better than i do."

Your response in this thread is absolutely the best. :lol:

Ustwo 01-16-2008 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by roachboy
this made me think: "homeless people here dress better than i do."

it was just another step in my recognition that no matter what i did, and no matter how long i tried, i would still not be french. i hadn't been terribly occupied with the idea of becoming french, so this did not upset me. it just confirmed that there was no point in trying. which i wasn't. i even found a way to be happy about not feeling like i had to expend the effort to do something i wasn't expending the effort to do.

Well you could have stopped bathing, that would have been a first step to being French.

While your line about the French bum is hilarious its a good reminder to not take style of substance.

fatmanforprez 01-16-2008 10:42 PM

When I think of slumming it the first thing I think of is that someone bribed me with cash monies to wear a tie again.

I wore one every day at one job. You better believe I wore the "uniform" with pride and wore it better than anyone there. Do not mistake that to mean that I think it is anything but slumming it up to put image above comfort.

The only things that make me slum it up and wear a tie and comb my hair properly (not just remove the tangles, but a DA or something) is cold hard cash and sex, just not cash for sex or visa versa. While we are at it no cold hard sex, wait a minute that is starting to sound hot, OK I will wear a tie for cold hard sex.

I spend all my free time at home wearing at best a pair of boxers.

xepherys 01-17-2008 12:25 PM

Man, I "slum it" every day. In fact, I've worn the exact same outfit for about 10 months. Beat that!

Plan9 01-22-2008 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by xepherys
Man, I "slum it" every day. In fact, I've worn the exact same outfit for about 10 months. Beat that!

Does your IBA smell like my IBA? Who's got the funk!?


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