Apples and oranges man. I've been using pot for just over a year now to control some health problems I have. It's really turned my life around, I actually started to gain weight and have more energy and has also helped me to come to terms with some things that happened to me in my youth. Now, I can see how it could definately come between some people. But it hasnt come between ,me and my significant other, in fact, the only time it is an issue is when I dont have it, I get cranky, not because of any addiction, because the symptoms I use it to control come back.

For a very long time I was very much against it, but i kept running into professional successful people who enjoyed it.

As for pro-gun, you know the answer. But honestly I can say I am in favor of all those things listed.

A friend of mine just got out of a relationship with an ex-smoker. Who demanded she stop smoking on the grounds that, "It took me so long to stop doing that" Thats when I think pot creates a problem. When one half was into it and stops for whatever reason and is simply jealous of the other halfs ability to indulge without creating a huge problem. It's not crack tho people, its just some green.

Now I always throw up a post at the end of these type threads and dont' usually get responses but I'll throw my two sense in anyways. In my experience it's not the weed most have a problem with, its the way the person handles it and/or the person themselves.

I can smoke pot and go dancing at a club, go play rugby and def hold an intelligent conversation.

This being said every single person handles any drug differently then the person next to them. If my eyes didn't get bloodshot you wouldn't' know that I had smoked.

It's almost fair to say that your relationship was ruined by pot. I would say that your relationship was ruined by your boyfriend, how he chose to pursue that habit and how he personally handled smoking pot.

Actually, to comment on the pro-everything comment.

Most pro-druggers are anti-gun. Personally, I'm pro-drug, pro-choice, and anti-homosexual marriage. There is no correlation whatsoever to your political views.