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Supple Cow · 07-07-2004, 06:51 PM

I've been trying to get back in touch with an old elementary/high school friend whom I haven't seen in a few years and who has since joined a branch of the military. I've exhausted all of my personal-connection avenues and I don't really know where to start when it comes to the internet or public agencies that may have information on her. Any advice?

saltfish · 07-07-2004, 08:36 PM

1-800-US-SEARCH.com

They can find ANYONE.

-SF

iamnormal · 07-07-2004, 09:29 PM

Should find something here.
http://www.searchsystems.net/

Peetster · 07-08-2004, 05:10 AM

Also http://people.yahoo.com

Yahoo bought the old four11.com site

THGL · 07-08-2004, 07:14 AM

Stalker, eh? j/k

Most of the free search sites are just from phone records i think, you'll have to pay for a more thorough search.

Supple Cow · 07-08-2004, 07:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by THGL
Most of the free search sites are just from phone records i think, you'll have to pay for a more thorough search.

so I'm discovering... but thanks for all the tips, everyone!

KMA-628 · 07-08-2004, 04:09 PM

Contact that particular branch that was joined.

Several of them have locator services.

You can write a letter and ask for it to be delivered to so-and-so. Just say that you lost their address, were concerned, etc. Try it once, wait and see if you get a response. If you don't, try again the first person coulda been a putz.

Remember, it's a "kinder-gentler" Army/Navy/etc.

wonderwench · 07-08-2004, 04:22 PM

The people who coordinate your class' high school reunion activities may also be able to help you out.

echo5delta · 07-08-2004, 05:04 PM

Locating people in general, I'm not an expert at.

But if it's someone in the military, I'm your guy, hands down.

You can talk to me (even though I am newbie as hell) in PM or email if you'd like, but here's some general thoughts I have:

If (s)he joined the Marines, just give me a name. The Outlook global address list on USMC.MIL domain workstations lists everyone in the Corps with an email account. I can track down base, unit, phone number, and quite possibly even the barracks where a Marine lives within about 5 minutes of getting the name.

Yeah, I'm scary sometimes.

As far as any other branch of service, use army.mil, af.mil, or navy.mil websites. Use the search function to look for "worldwide locator". That will generally give you either an official address or phone number where you can call or write to ask for infor about your friends whereabouts and contact info. Usually, they'll only give you the current mailing address of someone who's on active duty.

Alternately, if you know someone military, they can usually call up the locator and get more than just an address. Better still, if you know what base the person is at, you can go to the base website (goodfellow.af.mil for Goodfellow AFB TX, sill.army.mil, for FT. Sill, OK, etc) and use the main switchboard/base operator number to call the base locator. 99% of the time base locator will cough up a unit & phone number for ya.

Again, I'm more than willing to help, so long as this is as innocuous as it seems.

Speaking of which, I really hope none of you bastards reading this are little al Qaeda fuckers...

poof · 07-10-2004, 06:57 PM

I can look at the Air Force Global for you.

I need last, first, MI.

maleficent · 07-10-2004, 07:14 PM

Check out Classmates.com

maybe they've registered themselves from one of your former schools, or one of your other classmates who is registered may have knowledge of where they are.

07-07-2004, 06:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
Supple Cow Americow, the Beautiful Location: Washington, D.C.	Finding Someone I've been trying to get back in touch with an old elementary/high school friend whom I haven't seen in a few years and who has since joined a branch of the military. I've exhausted all of my personal-connection avenues and I don't really know where to start when it comes to the internet or public agencies that may have information on her. Any advice? __________________ "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." (Michael Jordan)

07-08-2004, 07:14 AM	#5 (permalink)
THGL Psycho Location: Louisville, KY	Stalker, eh? j/k Most of the free search sites are just from phone records i think, you'll have to pay for a more thorough search. __________________ "The truth is merely an excuse for lack of imagination." - Garak

07-08-2004, 04:09 PM	#7 (permalink)
KMA-628 ....is off his meds...you were warned. Location: The Wild Wild West	Contact that particular branch that was joined. Several of them have locator services. You can write a letter and ask for it to be delivered to so-and-so. Just say that you lost their address, were concerned, etc. Try it once, wait and see if you get a response. If you don't, try again the first person coulda been a putz. Remember, it's a "kinder-gentler" Army/Navy/etc. __________________ Before you criticize someone, you need to walk a mile in their shoes. That way, if they get angry at you.......you're a mile away.......and they're barefoot.

07-08-2004, 05:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
echo5delta Crazy Location: Swamp Lagoon, North Cackalacky	Locating people in general, I'm not an expert at. But if it's someone in the military, I'm your guy, hands down. You can talk to me (even though I am newbie as hell) in PM or email if you'd like, but here's some general thoughts I have: If (s)he joined the Marines, just give me a name. The Outlook global address list on USMC.MIL domain workstations lists everyone in the Corps with an email account. I can track down base, unit, phone number, and quite possibly even the barracks where a Marine lives within about 5 minutes of getting the name. Yeah, I'm scary sometimes. As far as any other branch of service, use army.mil, af.mil, or navy.mil websites. Use the search function to look for "worldwide locator". That will generally give you either an official address or phone number where you can call or write to ask for infor about your friends whereabouts and contact info. Usually, they'll only give you the current mailing address of someone who's on active duty. Alternately, if you know someone military, they can usually call up the locator and get more than just an address. Better still, if you know what base the person is at, you can go to the base website (goodfellow.af.mil for Goodfellow AFB TX, sill.army.mil, for FT. Sill, OK, etc) and use the main switchboard/base operator number to call the base locator. 99% of the time base locator will cough up a unit & phone number for ya. Again, I'm more than willing to help, so long as this is as innocuous as it seems. Speaking of which, I really hope none of you bastards reading this are little al Qaeda fuckers... __________________ "Peace" is when nobody's shooting. A "Just Peace" is when we get what we want. - Bill Mauldin

07-10-2004, 07:14 PM	#11 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Check out Classmates.com maybe they've registered themselves from one of your former schools, or one of your other classmates who is registered may have knowledge of where they are. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

07-07-2004, 08:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
saltfish !?!No hay pantalones!?! Location: Indian-no-place	1-800-US-SEARCH.com They can find ANYONE. -SF

07-07-2004, 09:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
iamnormal Addict Location: In the id	Should find something here. http://www.searchsystems.net/

07-08-2004, 05:10 AM	#4 (permalink)
Peetster Right Now Location: Home	Also http://people.yahoo.com Yahoo bought the old four11.com site

07-08-2004, 04:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
wonderwench Banned	The people who coordinate your class' high school reunion activities may also be able to help you out.

07-10-2004, 06:57 PM	#10 (permalink)
poof Psycho	I can look at the Air Force Global for you. I need last, first, MI.