nipple rings
 

why ruin the innocent beauty of a perfect female breast with a nipple ring??

...especially when your she knows you'll hate it!

it just boggles my mind

with you there fmf, i have no idea. Just one of those things i suppose... if we were all the same we'd be bored shitless

Speaking solely for myself

It's a kink thing
It's a pain thing
It's a fetish thing
It's a sex thing
It's a mod thing
It's a beauty thing


and as the old saying goes



You wouldn't Understand

It boggles my mind as well...

They are preety on some people and some nipples/breasts.

Do you honestly think women do everything just to please men? Most of the time men don't pay attention enough to notice if their gf has put an effort to look good today or not. Make-up, jewelry and beauty are based on larger social behaviour and also individual's identity. Someone who pierces her nipples must feel sexier or more beautiful with them and that they express what she wants to be and not what her boyfriend wants.

Ear, nipple, noise, bellybutton.....
Its up to the person who's getting a hole punched into whatever to decide.
I think they look great, but I know that I wouldn't have the guts to go through the pain, but I like the girls who do.

i'm not most men and she's not most women.

but i understand the point you are trying to make.

Oh so this isn't a blanket statement you made above. <b>YOUR</b> girlfriend pierced her nipples even though you don't like em.

See I thought you were saying in general "why do it"... well actually you were but you are upset about two nipples in particular.

Maybe shes trying to tell you something? Serious.

yeah, it's a bit of both. i was basically getting at the fact that, yes, my girlfriend specifically had it done....but also wondering what others' opinions were on the subject.

when i mentioned before that "i am not most men and she is not most women", i am referring to many things.
for example, i have an extremely low sex drive, but she has an extremely high one.
she knows i find nipple rings and that sort of thing a major turn-off. she is always commenting on my low sex drive.
why....WHY would she have these done then?
it just makes no sense to me...even if she DID really want to have the piercings done, wouldn't she consider that this would have a negative affect on me? why would she want me to find her less attractive??

i don't want people to think i am some sort of a control freak or something. i'm so far from that. i am very tolerant of the few differences we DO have. in fact, her and i are very similar when it comes to style (fashion likes and dislikes), music, world issues, lifestyle, many of the typical "man VS woman" things that couples constantly disagree on.
it's just these trivial "preference-clash" things that i wonder about. they're not killing me, i just simply wonder about them.

i mean, obvisouly i'll accept these things because we are far too connected and involved with one another to have a silly relationship-shattering grudge about things like this. they're just not important.
...but i still question her motives, you know? what if it all actually DOES mean something?

in a long-lasting, loving, hopeful relationship, what makes a person want you to be constantly thinking negative things (asthetically) about them? what's the point?
is she trying to test if my love is true or something? to see how far she can go until i can longer take it? she already knows that time will never come. i love her to death.

yes, that's right. i'm asking for advice in the Nonsense forum!

maybe she wants to have this piercing [i want a nipple ring myself] and thinks or knows that because your love is true and this wont eat you up...that although you find it less attractive, you'll get over it and forget about it. Unless you dont...which would be a major bummer for the both of you...

I'm not one for nipple peircings but I do think belly button rings look nice.

I guess it depends on where your relationship is at. As far as I'm concerned, what a person does with their body is their own business. If she likes it, thinks it looks good, wants it for herself, then it's for sure her right. That being said, I can't imagine doing something to me body that my wife would hate. It's important to me that she find me attractive. But I have a lifelong commitment with her, and you probably don't with your girlfriend.

i think it's kinda sexy
it's something different

all of those things can be said about any piercing

if the person likes it, theres no reason to say otherwise

IMHO Unless my enemies catch up with me I will die with the same amount of holes in me as I was born with....... As, far as why women do it???? I wouldnt even chance a guess at that! Too many women waiting to FLAME a guy for trying to think why women do stuff!

Sounds kinda like she found a way to express that high sex drive, maybe with someone who DOES like nipple rings.

Maybe she's found someone else who likes pierced nipples and has a higher sex drive. This seems like a woman's idea of subtle. Just one of the possibilities you might want to consider.