Fetishes and Fantasies
 

Okay ladies, let's not be shy! Ever the curious kitten I am interested in hearing some of the fetishes and/or fantasies other ladies have.

I have to say that I am extremely turned on by the thought of leather - especially leather gloves. I would absolutely love to do it with a guy who is wearing black leather gloves! I go to football games on a regular basis and the cops that are scattered about on the sidelines are always wearing some ... it just makes me want to jump on them! Hmmm...maybe there is something about the uniform also that gets the ol' juices flowing!!!!

I think I would be into bondage as well but to be honest I have never experimented with it.

I have many fantasies but the most prominent one is the desire I have to get down and dirty with another lady one day. I would love to try it with the right person.

One of my major fantasies is a threesome with two guys. They wouldn't have sex with each other, they would both concentrate on me :) Having sex at work would come in at close second. There are plenty of places at work that don't have cameras and the such, so I think i'll start planning on how to pull it off....

I really am going to have to come up with a new fantasy....the few that I had left to experience before I met Dave have been taken care of :lol:

I have one great wish...to have sex in a field of heather in scotland....or in a castle in scotland, or in a dungeon in a castle that I have bought and outfitted in scotland.

this is sad....I thought I was happy Dave took care of mine....now I feel left out cause I dont have any anymore :lol:

Sex at work is great. Maybe that's just the thrill-seeker in me speaking but I think it's fun! You should try it sometime!

My threesome fantasy would involve myself, a girl and a guy to sit back and enjoy! Actually - forget the sit back and enjoy part - I think it would be sweet to get a girl off while your guy is doing you from behind enjoying the view!

/me bad

no wait..../me just bad enough to be very very good! heh heh

I had a fantasy about two guys and myself once... then I actually tried it. I'm sure this depends on the guys, but they spent so much time trying to "out-man" one another that in the end it was only frustrating and no fun.

I would get two guys that are friends and make it perfectly clear that I'm easy to please, and there would be no competition needed :)

foot massages. that's my fetish.

hey, c'mon, it's been a long day ;)

the whole two guys thing would backfire on me, i'm sure. the whole "out-manning" each other gets to me.

I agree fredweena....I think I would prefer a ratio of two ladies to one guy when involved in a threesome! That's just me, though! :p

I can honestly say in the MMF trysts I've been in there was absolutely no machoism :lol: and I like them much better than a FFM

Well, there's the obvious bondage ones. I'm always game for trying out a new form.

I've always thought a threesome would be interesting. The solution to having the guys try to outdo each other seems obvious. Don't have any guys involved; a FFF would be perfect.

My big one is being tied up and forced to watch as Grace and another woman have sex, while of course constantly teasing me but not letting me get off.

see, but that's still distracting, minx. even worse than the "out-manning" is the girls competing with each other or the guy for the attention. we get vicious.

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i love being dominated. Specifically tied up. im a fighter and the flexing of the muscles helps me orgasm become much larger.

i once had my hands tied to my lower thighs so if i tried to clamp them together i'd either lose circulation or rip my shoulder out of their sockets. well, lets just say, HUGE orgasm and i have rope burns on my wrists for two days. and it took a while before all the color came back to my mangled hands.

itts been so long since ive been able to do that. hopefully here pretty soon that will be changed.

I'm with minyn. I like to be dominated as usually I'm the dominant one. Really I'd like my current lover to tie me up and just...take me. He's extremely shy so it would be even more extraordinary.

:)

...fantasy... someone to love and appreciate me for who I am... (of the opposite gender)

/me sighs...

/me realizes that somethings are best left to fantasies...

rocking onesnowy. My rule in regards to that level of submission is three months with somene and yea, altho i was recently to that mark with someone, i just didnt trust them the right way. its dangerous but its shouldnt seem dangerous in 'That' kind of way, if you know hwat i mean.

However, i have my hopes up that in the next two months, that shall be changed with a potential loving dominator in the works. ting!

Try this: leave a couple of scarves and some domination toys on his pillow.
Scarves can be used for tying wrists,ankles, blindfolding, etc. A little discussion of what you'd like and then it should be quite a trip..... ;)
( you could even leave a razor and some shaving gel for him to use on you to get started).

As for my own fantasies, at some point or another, they've all come to pass, except one. I will say the one foursome I was in was a total disaster, so won't be doing that again in this lifetime.

Ever since I started masturbating (a looooong time ago), I've had dreams about suspended sex. The style would vary, but my feet never touched the ground. One dream involved a wooden wall that served as a gallows, where there was only a hole for your legs to come through and two small arm holds to hang on; then a man would fuck me from the other side, but I couldn't see or touch him any other way than through that leg hole. In another one, I would be strapped to a big board that was suspended from the ceiling with chains in a really tall room so that I would be a good 10 or 20 feet off the ground. A man would hang opposite from me by a harness and he would be able to move, but I'd be strapped down to the board pretty tightly. The last one is where I'm hanging from my knees (with my legs over a bar) on monkey bars or a jungle gym or something like that, and I'm giving a blowjob upside down. I think I need to invest in one of those sex swings someday.

I also like stealth blowjobs and handjobs. All the friends are over for a party and everyone is in the living room? Time to sneak off to the pantry or the closet for a quick somethin' somethin'. Nobody's in the math library at 10pm? Time to duck behind the stacks.

An MMF threesome sounds worthwhile, if only for one specific position I have in mind. M#1 is sitting in a reclining chair, cradling me with his dick rubbing against my back and holding me down with his hands in the chest area. M#2 is kneeling in front of the chair doing the fucking. I suppose this would be equally hot if I were facing the other way with my breasts rubbing on the cock and the other one banging me doggy-style. Other than that, I don't really think I'd want two men around because all the other stuff I like is just as good with a man and a woman or just one man. How's that for specific?

I want to have sex with someone I don't know. I want to go out and find someone I find attractive, talk a little, but not tell eachother our names, have sex then leave in the morning without saying goodbye.

I like the idea of sex with a woman in an artists studio.

Right now though, I really would just like to give a deserving woman oral sex.

As I said earlier, I'm always game for trying out a new form. I couldn't quite picture how this could work, so I asked Grace, and she said she could think of two good ways for this to work.

So I guess thanks are in order here :).

All of the above are right down my alley. I have had fantacies about forced sex or bondage since I hit puberty. I'm always pretty strong willed and to have that turned around to submission is a huge turnon.

This describes myself exactly.

I'm curious ngdawg what type of foursome it was - two couples?

I have ALWAYS wanted to try one of those fucking machines and also a MMF would be nice. The men would not touch each other, just please me.

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During a light rain in the woods.

Or in some sort of public place.

Or while wearing stillettos.

Or silent sex- no words at all.

lately i have had several forced/raped sex fantasies... would love to have a couple well endowed young men abduct me a use me for their every desire...... tieing me up at first... taking turns grabbing poking licking sucking biting... the take turns fucking me... telling them to stop.. and god no turn into moans of pleasure... they untie me because im no longer fighting them..i go form there victim to there willing sex slave...





now i feel dirty for sharing that

^no reason to feel dirty -- fantasies are just that, fantasies! I'm sure if something like that happened in reality (without it being planed out by you and your lover) you would feel differently.

As for me -- just six weeks after 100% natural birth and HUGE baby so lots of scar tissue -- my fantasy is to want sex again. Once I get the desire back, I'm looking forward to exploring my limits with the best lover ever.

I have to share this with ze ladies here. As mentioned in my original post here, I have a serious thing for guys with leather gloves on.....and the entire little fetish originated with watching the cops at the football games I go to.

So on Wednesday our offices got evacuated due to a train derailment and when I leave there is this absolutely hunky young cop in the middle of the intersection directing traffic....yes...wearing his sweet little leather gloves. I swear to God I just about came right there and then in my car!!!!!!! First time ever I have never been pissed off at getting stuck in traffic! :p Too bad he wasn't just getting off......duty, that is. ;)

I couldn't have said this any better. I like the idea of bing with another woman, and the art studio sounds like a good place. Anything public, I used to lifeguard during HS and still think about doing things in the locker-room of the pool I worked at.

this thread is realy interesting!im not posting any of mine though lol...i have too many!

i'd like to not have to do anything besides breathe and enjoy the whole experience. i want to be carried to a bed [preferrably... but subject to change], slowly stripped, gentley have oral performed on me... and perhaps tied up too. but not really in a dominating way, but a relaxing one.

haha, its a really selfish fantasy, and ive just recently come up with it. i think it's because lately i've been doing most of the work and not getting anything in return.

lovely birth control and its "spotting" side effects. i don't understand why now, all of a sudden?

Hmmm...

Doesnt anyone else have the simple desire (fantasy) to just have a romantic evening ending with loving/sensual sex? I DREAM of my husband taking the initiative to set up a romantic sceen and playing it out!!!

Seems like I do most of the "work" with my husband so would be nice for him to take a turn and pay back a little :)~ I love the guy very much but find that I am beginning to develop romance novel fantasys...(thats a REAL fantasy huh??? LMAO). Whew, tell you what...if the right no-name came along with the intent of sweeping me off of my feet and spending a few hours just making me feel like a woman...God knows what I would do!!!

Should I feel guilty??

Chelsea has the IDEA!!!
 

YEPPERS!!! I forgot to quote you in my prev... You seem to UNDERSTAND me dearie!!

Well I had some MMMF action one time, one of them is my boyfriend, and the two other guys were friends, and bi. It was amazing how they were all treating me like a goddess. No showing off, just everyone enjoying each other, but most of all me!

Hmm, I like the idea of stealth sex. My bf and I have snuck off to make out at parties, but not actually had sex at any parties. That would be fun. We do enjoy finding random places to fuck in the car, though. :D

Also, a big fantasy these days would be to have a woman kissing me and allowing me to fondle her while my man is fucking me or going down on me... something like that. Hell I could even imagine a second woman maybe rimming me while he's inside, if that's possible... mmm I like that.

Well, my husband always asks for fantasies and I have a really difficult time thinking them up.
I know that I wouldn't like dominatrix because I was almost raped when I was 14 and that ruined any fantasy like that for me.
I do like gentle bondage and haven't done that since we got rid of the futon with bars.
I have already had sex in a public place, although I wouldn't mind doing that again.
A MMF would be nice, but I think I would attach too many emotions to it.
I think I have a cheesy fantasy, but it has already happened once so why can't I want it again:
I would love to have an night dedicated to me (sounds selfish, but oh well). A nice, hot candlelit bubblebath with wine. A romantic meal shared on a blanket on the floor. A body massage with oils. The reading out-loud of some Anais Nin Erotica. And just the enjoying of each other's bodies.
Damn, now I got myself all worked up...

Hmmmmmm....

I have so many!

Right now, I'm indulging in a bit of a teacher/student Catholic schoolgirl fantasy (me as the schoolgirl!). I prefer male teachers for that one... yum, authority figures.

I'd also like to have another attempt at a MFF threesome, with more FF action.

I'd also just like some nice romantic gentle sex with another woman...

Alex, you know who to call... ;)

*giggles* :icare:

I don't know how I missed this thread for so long. :p

I'd say I have two really major fantasies. One, I'd really like to try some bondage type activity beyond just spanking. Being tied down so I couldn't move at all and being completely dominated over in a rough way. Not so far as to cause any real permanent kind of pain, but a few resulting bruises wouldn't be so bad! :) Also, I really want to experience being fucked by another woman with a strap on, that's very high on the list.

And then one minor one I have would be to see what it was like to kiss or have oral sex with someone who had a tongue piercing.

A fantasy I have is a 3some with another girl. and a guy......or just plain sex with another girl. :) I wouldnt say anything though, my friends get turned off by that. lol. well my girl friends anyways, my male friends wouldnt mind. hehee.
:crazy:

*cough* in the biology lab at a university, he was wearing a lab coat.. couldn't help myself ;)

I have always wanted to make love on the beach/in the ocean.. dunno why. Or even in the rain in a field somewhere... the rain kinda does it for me though, kinda get all sorts of "aggitated" during storms.

But I think my favorite would definently involved a beach/storm somewhere.... with someone I was comfortable with.

And that's about it.

Oh, I totally forgot about this, yeah, I would *love* to have sex in the rain! :D I like storms in just about every way myself. ;)

Nice!

Last time I posted, I simply wanted my sexuality back. It's here and getting stronger every day! With our weight loss, love making is better and better.

My current fantasy is for him to dominate me once again. I want him to dress me up (maybe even take me shopping now that I'm so much smaller) and take pictures of me. I love it when he poses me or requires me touch myself in certain ways. I'd love for him to tie me up and have his way with me.

(Ohh, yummy, he just read over my shoulder and we are off to bed!)

ok, well I too have had the two guy fantasy, I think two of whatever you're into is a common one for everyone, genrally.
I would also love to have a go on a boat, in an elevator and in a hot tub.
Mostly though my big fantasy is to be courted fervently of an evening, having all the stops pulled for me, and then being ravished without hesitation!!!!

:icare:

sexymama, I understand... very similar fantasies for me. I always feel so hot and wanted when ktspktsp just gets carnal on me and goes crazy... when I feel that he really loves my body, takes pictures, gives me direct orders, and wants to own and master every inch of me. God that is hot...

He got an under-the-bed handcuff system recently, so we had a great time using that (and I had a blindfold on, in addition to being immobilized and stretched out by my wrists and ankles). We are enjoying the light bondage stuff!

In less kinky moments, I dream of making love outdoors in various settings... in the middle of a big field, far away from everyone and everything; next to a pretty stream with autumn leaves around us; or maybe in a hot-air balloon or something crazy like that. Probably not very practical! But sounds like fun. :)

Oh, let me add that today I fantasized about ktspktsp doing a sexy photo shoot of me (naked) in pretty, isolated outdoor places... just me baring it all for him, with no one else around for miles. And then us having very hot sex right afterwards, with a video camera to witness all the angles... that would be dreamy. :D

Naked massage and then total submission. For some reason, being commanded to do stuff is really sexy. Plus, I know he's getting what he wants. On the other hand, I do love to blindfold him and surprise him hehe.

Ever since I tried a MMF it's been my favourite fantasy ever since..

but apart from that there are two that I hope to outlive very soon.
1) I'd love to be at home one day, working, and suddenly Loverboy would show up (on his way over to one of his costumers) for a quicky on the kitchen table and then leave me without a kiss or a goodbye..

2) Giving Loverboy a BJ along with another woman... us both beeing forced on our knees where we'll take turns at sucking his cock until he'll finally blow his load all over us :crazy:

They all sound great to me! Lately I have been having this fantasy about a man with long red hair, who takes me for a walk in the woods...
We stop and have a pic nic, then he tells me that he would just love to see me naked, just to look at me. After that he proceeds to make requests one at a time, all the while intently watching my reaction... It's such an intense fantasy and definitely involves that total surrender to passion and sensation that so many of you have mentioned here.

I'm infatuated with the idea of a pirate fantasy.

My boyfriend as a rough, sexy pirate captain, and me as the helpless captive wench. He rips off my bodice, ravishes me, nearly making me come, but never letting me, until we both orgasm.

A bit of domination, a bit of teasing.

domination, total worship of another persons body..i like that when i love them!

I have this terrible dick fetish so my ultimative dream come true would be to have 50 guys (preferebly more) lined up, naked, all with a giant erection. Then I'd get on my knees and suck their cock one by one :crazy:

Whoa, Nancy. That sounds pretty awesome. It's probably something I'd like to watch rather than do, however. I guess that means I should add that I'm into voyeurism too.

^^Hmm .. being watched?! That sounds naughty :suave:

Anytime you feel like indulging me, Nancy, I'd be more than happy to watch. =P

I have a few...

This one is kind of lame so don't laugh, but I've always been aroused by winter. I don't know what it is, but I swear I actually get more horny once snow falls and the temperature drops. Ice, is an aphrodisac. Anyway, I've always wanted to have sex outside, in the snow. I know it's not practical, but I guess that's why it's a fantasy.

I've also had this thing about being watched. I don't know where it came from, but the idea of being at like a party or something and just going to town on my man in front of everyone is a big turn on. Probablly someting I'd never do though, but you never know.

Also, I kind of like the idea of going down on a priest. As a good Catholic I should be condemed to Hell for that one, but you asked and I answered.

I also have a few. First I would like to do a threesome either MMF or FFM or maybe even both. I've always been curious what it would be like to have sex with a woman and I think a threesome would be an easy way to start. I'd also like to have two men just focused on me.

My second fantasy would be to have sex in a tropical setting like a beach or secluded island, where we were the only two people. There's something about the beach and the ocean that is very erotic to me.

And lastly I would like to have sex in a public place where you have the possibility of being caught. Like a movie theatre or on an airplane.

Hi all, I just joined and look what an interesting thread this is! Since there is next to zilch chance the object of my desire will read this, here it is. It's very simple, but also very specific (as it is this combination alone that has been making me crazy):

- in the middle of a green, grassy clearing surrounded by forest
- on a hot summer afternoon
- heavy, heavy rain with big fat drops splashing in the grass
- lying in the grass, with my colleague "R" in my arms
- "R" wearing her "Tightrope" blue jeans she bought for less than 40 bucks which fit her like a dream
- "R" and me making out like crazy.


Ahhhh. Done. Now I can get on with my life! :)

ok, I'm offically horny after reading all the replies

i'd love to try a threesome FFM and I would love to
have an endless line of horny men waiting their turn
to enter me once each and move on. It would
make me feel like a total sex goddess :D

FFM threesome... ;) that's where i'm at right now... biggest fantasy.

or rather... i'd just love some girly action.

sweetpea

I fantasized recently about being fucked with a woman wearing a strap-on. Man, that did wonders for me... :)

I've had some personal experience with this, but I'd hate to burst your bubble, so I'll put it in a spoiler box. It's

Spoiler: EVERY BIT AS GREAT AS YOU'D EXPECT IT TO BE!

Gilda

^^ this is what i love so much about her... see.. see? :)

sweetpea

I watched Sex and the City and she was sore and said it wasn't so great. So in my fantasy world, that lost stock because you know tv always tells the truth. :lol: :hmm:

lol shesus ;)

Although... that was Samantha who was sore and she was the one wearing it right? i think her partner liked it ;)
always better to be the reciever i suppose :thumbsup:

sweetpea

Grace says the harness chafes a little bit, but that's about it. I've only ever been on the recieving end because we both find the idea of doing it the other way does nothing for us.

Gilda

I can't believe I'm actually posting about this.

First of all, thank you for posting about this. It is hot. :) Secondly, yeah, when I wear the harness for ktspktsp, it does chafe a little. Maybe that's because we have a "bend-over beginner's" harness and it's not professional with leather and padding, etc... but it's not as comfy as a rock-climbing harness, I can tell you that.

/ponders modifying rock-climbing harness to fit a dildo..

Thirdly, if anyone in the last 5 posts wants to step into my fantasy, feel free. :crazy: :D

I am glad you posted it :icare: :) :suave:. gets me to thinking naughty thoughts... ;)

Abaya: i'll step right into that fantasy for you ;) :D

sweetpea

Rock on... :D

Edit: Any of the ladies here who want to climb on . . . er, into the fantasy as a pitcher are welcome there, keeping in mind I'm a strict catcher.

Gilda

PS. Sissy was reading over my shoulder. Her comment regarding the "strict catcher" part: "It runs in the family."

gotta love sissy :D :icare:


And you know Gilda... i'll be your 'pitcher' anytime ;) ;) :icare:

sweetpea

I hate to interrupt the flow of this adorable conversation, but I've been really slack with my posting lately so I would like to give my input.

First I'd like to say how cool it is that we're all comfortable enough to share these hot, kinky, fantasies. So thank you all for being so non-judgemental.

I thought my fantasy was dumb however specific it might be, then I found someone more or less shared it with me.

I want to make love on a beach too. Not on the sand or in the water; I want to do it on a blanket to minimize sand irritation. It can't just be any old beach either. I want it to be on white sand with palm trees and clear water. There wouldn't be anyone around but Tex and I and we could just relax and listen to the water after an amazing, earth-shattering orgasm.

I know, I'm picky. That's why it's a fantasy. Maybe we could work on a reality during spring break. ( I think he'll be ok with it ;))

After reading the post about the sybian and looking at a few clips....I have to say thats my fantasy right now. Riding the sybian with a woman at my side :)

I've done FFM and MMF too (plus another one with more than just two M...), and enjoyed them immensely. The FFM was very intense emotionally and sensually, there is just something about another woman... on the other hand, having three men going at it as hard as they can into every orifice carries a different, helpless kind of appeal.

Unfulfilled fantasies... still so many. Here's a slightly kinky one - I want to tie a guy up, then surprise him (ha!) by pulling out a strap-on and totally nailing him in the ass.

And then of course, I'll let him have his revenge on me.

that felt way too personal

I could never decide what I wanted to write in this thread. Originally, I wanted to be tied up... check, that was lots of fun, now what? :) Lately, I've been having conversations with the boyfriend about how I want to make out with another girl. Innocent, possibly, but it's something I've never done and it's something he'd be okay with me doing. And it's something I thought I wouldn't ever have the desire to do, but every once in awhile I just find myself attracted to certain girls and the thought pops back into my head. Now, having the opportunity to do so is an entirely different story. Thus, it's my current fantasy.

God! I was getting hot just reading that!! I've had a lot of fantasies liek that too, but I am still unsure of how to safley make them a reality.