Ok, please help me

[Starlene]

I know im new, and this was one of the reasons that I joined this board, was to come to a better understanding of me and my sexuality. Sorry if I misspell, im kinda ditzy .

I was raised to believe that sex was something that should be done between a girl and a guy or a man and a woman. Whichever you choose to call yourself. Yet I am feeling really conflicted of late when Im with my bf (bestfriend) Kristin. We were at a friends house swimming the other day and I couldnt stop thinking about her, the way she looked and the way I felt when she would touch me, rather by accident or just in jest. It would send sparks through my body. I also found that I when I look at porn on the net, that Im not really interested in looking at guys as much as i used to, and find myself looking more at girl on girl or just girls in general.

Is this wrong, am I ok.
Can someone please


Thx
~Star~

[Sugarmouse]

i agree!! enjoy your feelings and fantasies.i am assuming you presumed you were straight before this happened?sexuality and getting to know your own are both amazing things abd nothign to be ashamed of -one of the best parts of being human IMO!!!!
only thing i wuold say is be careful of other peopel and their reactions, it doesnt cost anythign to have an open mind, but unfortunatly some ppl are just too judgemental

I can sorta relate to you-i see myself as straight up to a point-i have sexual desire for women on occasion and i was also brought up by parents who see anythign but heterosexuality as 'wrong'..even tho apart from on this, my mom particularly is very open minded.but i just think sexuality is there to be explored and used to give and receive pleasure and i am not ashamed! its not as if i hurt any9one or have fantasies which can be seen as morally wrong really!
do you think yuo could seeyourself ever sleeping with a woman?or is it somethin yuo will keep as fantasy?

[shesus]

Starlene, I agree with Daoust. I went through the same thing in my late teens. I had a close girl friend who I had thoughts about. I was scared and thought that maybe I was a lesbian and would have to tell my family yada yada. Anyway, I explored myself and found that I just enjoy the beauty of humans. Women are beautiful that is a histroical fact. I am married and my husband and I will sometimes watch porn (him more than me). Anyway, I don't like the guy porn either, don't know why. It just doesn't turn me on. It doesn't mean I am a lesbian. So, I would just relax, think, and take what comes as it is. I mean you may be just going through a growth or you may have a different sexual preference than you hold as 'normal'. Either way you need to be happy with what you decide.

[M&Ms]

I know EXCATLY what you mean. I will sometimes be sitting next to my best friend, and she'll look over at me and I'll have a strange desire to want to kiss her. And I think about her all the time and somedays I wonder. I dont want to be in a relationship with her that just doenst feel right to me. I KNOW im straight. Its part of being a teen. You jsut gotta go with it and know that it will soon pass and youll come out of this totally fine and whatever happens happens dont be scared or ashamed of it.

[analog]

So I guess you're wondering what went wrong here.... one person banned, one losered? All in one small thread?

Well... on an unrelated note, we found out that M&Ms is 13. That's what happens when you post like a 13-year-old. We find out. Soooooo she is gone... then we backtracked her 3 posts and came across this little gem. The thread starter rubbed a few of us the wrong way... so we looked into it. The thread starter is actually a man... posing as a woman... so he's gone as well.

So... we've got a pervert/bored asshole out of the way and a very curious, but very illegal little girl sent back to the playground (and not the one for our members).

Take care.