Boyfriend wants me to fart??? WTF??
 

This is going to sound really strange and stupid, but my boyfriend told me he has a fetish about women farting, and he wants me to fart for him. I'm not comfortable doing that at all, and the thought of farting in front of him does nothing but turn me off. And him asking me to do this, makes me really wonder about him. What to you other girls think?

I think I've heard a lot of things but never that one. I'd wonder too. That would make me distinctly uncomfortable.

On the other hand, what does it hurt? At least he's not saying he wants to do something more extreme and unsanitary.

Though it's a weird request, I don't see a problem with farting in front of your boyfriend. Granted, if you're still in the initial stages of a relationship, it might be weird, but if you're further on, it should no longer be an issue. If you want to be comfortable with each other that is...

I don't see any harm in his request, though you could ask him why he likes the idea of it.

I actually discovered some japanese fetish site about this. I was searching for extreme japanese television shows, when i found a site that had samples of famous actresses from japan farting for men. I forget the name of the fetish, it's obviously a Japanese word.

Maybe your BF got hooked on it via the web. This interweb sure has a way of diseminating differents cultural mores around the world!

My fiance also wants me to fart in front of him, but only for the sheer fact that I never have.

you shouldn't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. second of all, though, maybe you should examine the reasons behind your discomfort with farting in front of him (casually, that is).

My fiance bugged me for the longest time to fart in front of him. Not because he has a farting fetish, but because he knew that when I finally farted in front of him that would mean that I was comfortable around him.

Finally I just did, and it was a relief. Sounds a little gross and silly, but now we fart at each other to make each other laugh.

Maybe your boyfriend just gets turned on by you being so comfortable that you would fart.

I've never heard of this one. I know people would do it in front of eachother when they are comfortable and that way, it's okay, because it's nature, but as a fetish? I'd worry!

It definitely makes me feel better hearing that there are others out there that have had a boyfriend request this...it still doesn't make me think he is not strange for asking, but at least I know that I'm not the first girl in the world that has had a boyfriend ask such a question. We've been together about 3 months, and for the most part he seems quite normal...maybe i should ask him if he is into Japanese culture...I never heard of this fetish before in my life. And I can understand what you mean that farting means you feel comfortable about each other, but quite frankly I find it a turn-off regardless. I don't get turned on when he farts, quite the opposite.

does it at least make you laugh? come on, you gotta laugh! :p

what a shame, farting is just a natural bodily function...no harm in it

Just looking back at this thread...
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=80135

maybe cowgirl could give you some tips :D

This is where my 12 year old boy sense of humor comes out... Farting is funny... It makes me laugh...

The grown up in me doesn't quite understand the turn on to whyfarting is supposed to be sexy... what the turn on is, but there are a bunch of things that I don't get the turn on it... Is it appropriate to ask him why it is a turn on?

There's always whoopie cushions under the pillow...

my boyfriend and I fart around eachother all the time.
it's not a fetish, it's just being comfortable around eachother. i've never heard of a fart fetish though... that seems a bit weird. If someone forces me to fart or puts me under pressure, I'd be more uncomfortable doing it.

We've had fart contests. It's just a childish fun and gross thing. I don't see how it could/would be anything sexual. :shrug:

[QUOTE=la petite moi] Finally I just did, and it was a relief. Sounds a little gross and silly, but now we fart at each other to make each other laugh.
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Hopefully you two are now married because this is certainly the next step of true love Hah!! Oh, young love... Heh! Just don't let him hold you under the bed covers and asphixiate (sp?) you with his lethal gas! They'll do it, too - I know...and it won't be pretty.

on cue? thats difficult. i dunno, i think thats weird, but thats just me. do what you want hun, and if that includes standing behind the belief that my guy friends have that "girls dont fart" then stick with it =) its what i like to make them think.

Do what you are comfortable with . . . end of story :)

Sweetpea

I just farted.. wooo~

and I have to agree with sweetpea

[QUOTE=hunnychile]
Trust me, he's done it. He LOVES farting and once, while I was in the shower, he decided to take a big poop.

hunnychile~ my honey did that last night, i was already in a bad mood and that made it worse, but after it was all over, i rolled over and kind of laughed, but i didnt let him hear me, then we would think that he won

If it's a fetish and it creeps you out, lay down your boundaries.
If it's just that he wants to be at that level of comfort with you, well you'll get there when you get there, if and when you do...like it or lump it.

Now it doesn't turn me or my boyfriend on, but it can be a source of great amusement!
(hunnychile, that asphixiation game is NO laughing matter, it can be...deadly! :eek: )

la petite moi, please tell me he shat in toilet, not in the shower!

i found the reference to the japanese fetish: http://www3.tky.3web.ne.jp/~edjacob/tv.html

this is a page of some wacky Japanese tv shows, one of them is "Fart Womean" about... well I guess you can figure that out. The fetish is called Onara, and has its own video marketing page: http://www.bekkoame.ne.jp/ha/dins/on...sh3english.htm

now that's really funny!

FART WOMAN! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Oh my Janey, that is some really crazy shit. I should just order one of those videos for my boyfriend as a gag birthday gift! lol It's amazing what you can find on the internet. I wonder if it is something in the Japanese culture, or is this fetish common here in the US too?

who knows? maybe there's a certain cachet to japanese girl farts as opposed to North americans to make it catch fire over there. Something diet related?

I guess we'll never know!

i'd be uncomfy with this one as well. i don't fart in front of people, not even my bf. for me it isn't about comfort but manners. i don't let him fart in front of me either. why? cause it STINKS and i don't wanna smell it!

i know it's natural and all, but i still don't like it. imo, all natural doesn't always mean all good! sweat and body odor may be natural but you can bet i make him take showers and wear deodorant! lol

:lol: Don't ask me why, bad jane, but I just had the words, "New Idea/Invention: Butt Deoderant." :lol: For those whose life's a GAS....or something. ;)

Meanwhile, I must also say that I admire your ability to not allow your boyfriend to fart in front of you. It took me a few months, but I'm just happy I finally got mine to say "excuse me" after rippin' one! :lol:

lmao, if they made it i would so buy it for him!

and it took me a long time to get him to stop! like most boys (and all males are boys when it comes to bodily functions!) he just found it hilarious. it's not the sound or thought of it that bothers me, it's the smell. so since he wouldn't leave to do it, i would leave as soon as he did. a few weeks of that and he started excusing himself to the bathroom. once in a while he may have one sorta slip out and i'm pretty forgiving. at least he's not leaning over and lifting his leg anymore!

My bf suggested that someone should invent underwear with a carbon or charcoal filter so you slip "SBD's" out without being caught. My friends and I discussed this and came up with the name "Ass-Wick". Whaddya think?

HAHAHAHA...my best friend could soooo use one of those. His farts are downright nasty.

well i once had sex with a guy that had a hand and foot fetish i dont get them i really dont it so wierd, me and my boyfriebd have been together 3 1/2 months and we feel really comfortable with each other like burping farting etc... and it was only last night we were crying with laughter about him manically farting

my advice is just ask him about it, like why do u have this fetish, etc...

I think I'd be comfortable with burping around a guy I'm in a relationship with, but not farting, lol.

Sorry. I don't fart. Nope. Doesn't happen. Ever. unless I'm alone. *coughs and looks around*

If you're comfortable with it, go for it. If you're not, don't. If you're undecided, give it a try and decide afterwards

I joke about farting with Tex. It's entertaining! I totally understand why it would make you feel uncomfortable though. Also, depending on how long you've been together it would definately make me wonder...(did that make any sense?) If he's a really great guy and he treats you well, talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him if it's ok that you don't until you're ready or willing. Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to relationships. Good luck.

Have never been asked to fart but dated a guy who wanted to be with me while I went to the bathroom. In time and after alot of harrassment on his part I said ok, you want to be in here to, be my guest. My poo doesn't stink anyways