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Brooke · 01-30-2005, 10:29 AM

This just occoured to me as I was reading the thread in Comming Together on "love" and "inlove"
Pigglet quoted a friendof his as saying:

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Making love is when you stare into each others eyes, and sometimes you forget to actually move your hips. You're completely stark naked

If this statement is true, then it is the intimacy that makes "making love" the act it is. It also mentions that forgetting to move is part of the expirence. If moving is an essential part to sex - then can one "make love" with out having sex. - do you even have to be naked?

One of the most intimate expirences - one that I will never forget - was starting a guy in the eyes for about 20 minutes. The only things that came off were our glasses

ling ling · 01-30-2005, 01:20 PM

I definitely believe that people can have intensely intimate experiences without having sex - sometimes it's actually easier that way. Good point!

amonkie · 01-30-2005, 03:08 PM

Before I dated one guy, I hugged him one evening. To this day, I still don't know how long we stood there - it felt like hours but could have maybe been only a few seconds, but we were just wrapped up in each other. It still remains one of the most intimate moments I shared with this guy over the course of dating for three years.

Sweetpea · 01-30-2005, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by amonkie

Before I dated one guy, I hugged him one evening. To this day, I still don't know how long we stood there - it felt like hours but could have maybe been only a few seconds, but we were just wrapped up in each other. It still remains one of the most intimate moments I shared with this guy over the course of dating for three years.

Wow . . .

See, it's moments like those that stick with you, not you're last orgasm sometimes . . .

It all depends how you define "lovemaking" . . . it could be anything by anyone's definition . . .

thanks!

ironmaiden7o7 · 01-30-2005, 09:21 PM

Brooke · 01-30-2005, 10:11 PM

I think I am going to throw this out to TS - see what the men think.

01-30-2005, 01:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
ling ling Upright	I definitely believe that people can have intensely intimate experiences without having sex - sometimes it's actually easier that way. Good point! __________________ For your sake I hope heaven and hell are really there but I wouldn't hold my breath Modest Mouse

01-30-2005, 03:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
amonkie Drifting Administrator Location: Windy City	Before I dated one guy, I hugged him one evening. To this day, I still don't know how long we stood there - it felt like hours but could have maybe been only a few seconds, but we were just wrapped up in each other. It still remains one of the most intimate moments I shared with this guy over the course of dating for three years. __________________ Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna

01-30-2005, 09:21 PM	#5 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	Last edited by ironmaiden7o7; 04-14-2008 at 10:06 AM..

01-30-2005, 10:11 PM	#6 (permalink)
Brooke Crazy	I think I am going to throw this out to TS - see what the men think. __________________ And so its over Your fantasy life is finally at an end And the world above is still a brutal place And the story will start again