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Okay - I hate to sound obsessive but this is related to my last thread.
Masturbation till late has always been good, (and I wonder sometimes why women are not going to admit they do it *puzzeled look*) but direct clitoral stimulation has never been a major buzzer. As I alwasy wonder about various parts of my body - I think...is it broke?

I imagine - although for all intents and purposes am still a virgin - that orgasims will prolly come only through actual intercourse.

Is that nromal too? or odd? what do others expirence with this?

Come to think if it - I have been buzzed - but am not quite sure I ever have had the full blown orgasim. And men wonder weather women cum all the time - dont ask me buddy I will be as clueless as you!

trust me..when you have an orgasm youll know it! and no its not weird at all and your not obsessive...my first serious BF couldnt get me off for 8 months..and trust me he was trying...i know women who are well into their 30's and havent had a "big O". this made me smile sooo much "dont ask me buddy i will be just as clueless as you!" so here..i found this..

"Orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus (some women do experience orgasms without contractions).


The orgasm happens when excitement seems to go over the edge -- a climax or crescendo is reached which may last several seconds or longer. During orgasm the body stiffens and the muscles contract. Involuntary muscle contractions and spasms may occur in various parts of the body, including your legs, stomach, arms, and back. The muscles of the vagina relax and contract rapidly, as do the muscles of the uterus. The glands of the vagina (Bartholin's glands) discharge a watery secretion, which acts to lubricate the vagina. It is often said to be the equivalent to the male ejaculation."

oh and that was on here http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm

:)wish you luck :)

You'll know when you have one. When I first started having sex, I didn't have one via intercourse for several months....and I felt clueless as well, not knowing whether I'd have one or not, because it felt good, just not *great* like everyone said it was. Also, direct clitoral stimulation can be too ....stimulating ( I can't think of a better word) and even painful for some women. Have you tried putting a soft cloth barrier, like silky panties, between yourself and your hand/vibrator? Or try touching the area around it, just not directly.

I'm way too sensitive there to the point that it hurts. but anywhere around there or, as Medusa said, having some kind of 'barrier' there certainly feels wonderful.

im very sensitive too... i usually have to "work " the area around it before i can touch it with anything untill i get warmed up.. then its a matter of a couple of little flicks of a finger tongue or toy then KABOOM!!!!!!!!