Thoughts on threesomes?
 

Okay ladies what are everyone's thoughts on threesomes? Would you be involved in one? What would it take to get you in one? Things like that..

I've never thought about being involved in one. But now... the thought of two guys in me? *shiver*

Too self-conscious.

I've done both MMF and FFM many times and loved them both...they are completley different experiences. Definately willing to do either again if the right situation presents its self again.

I'm not sure how I feel about MMF.. but I the thought of FFM intrigues me. I think I'd like to try one.

Thresomes are.. mindblowing! :crazy:

I had one some time ago with Loverboy and his best friend. It was..breathtaking... hot..it was perfect!

I highly recommend it but only if you and your SO are 100% settled with it

For those of you that have tried it.. do you prefer MMF or FFM?

I haven't tried a FFM yet so I guess I prefer a MMF so far :crazy:

thats hard to say...but if I HAD to pick...it would be FFM

I'm not into gay sex, so it would have to be MMF. (unless my definition of gay is off base?)

I've had several FFM ones and love them....assuming everyone is comfortable with everyone else. I've never had a MMF one, but I'm dying too. Just haven't found the right guys who are comfortable to do it. Where did you ladies find the guys? None of the guys I have been involved would even talk about the idea (though they were all about banging two chicks, go figure) and I dunno about picking up two guys at a bar and bringing them home.....what a dilemma!

Yeah.. I'd love to do a MMF threesome.. but my bf isn't having it at all. Sorta sad, really. :|

I've tried a FFM .. it sucks, IMO. Not for me at all.

I cant stand guys that are so immature they cant handle being around another "dick" they expect two girls to be comfortable together (AND to do things to each other too) while most women I know that want to do a MMF dont expect the guys to do anything but them!!! I am SO glad Im with a guy that is so comfortable with every aspect of sex that he'd do a MMF if I wanted one

/sorry for the mini rant....its one of my HUGE pet peeves

ive had FFMs and FFFs if thats still a 3some...i'm not sure if i would be up to a MMF...i think it would weird my bf out wayyy too much..altho that does piss me off...altho i havent given him and FFMs and it doesnt look like hes getting a FFM anytime soon anyway...I kinda do get the whole issue with beig weirded out by teh whole seeing another guy naked and like doing your girl..if i was a guy i wouldnt be into it ether..unless i was bi or gay

I've never tried either. I have thought about having a MMF threesome in the past, but now if my boyfriend agreed to it (i'm sure he wouldn't) I'd give to have a FFM for him and I'm not comfortable with that. I think I'll just stick to one man.

I've never had an opportunity, but I'd probably try either if I was drunk enough!

Exactly! :mad: It's damn egoistic for a guy to demand a FFM when he's not even willing to go through a MMF ...

If he's not willing to do a MMF with you why should you grant him a FFM then? That just doesn't seem fair you know? :hmm:

I have a feeling that FFM won't be very exciting for me either but I'm willing to do it anyway since I know that it'll be very hot for loverboy :)

Nancy can I volunteer to be the other F?

LOL! I was actually sitting here thinking to myself "I wonder if ShaniFaye or FallenAngel are gonna comment on my remarks about a FFM" :crazy: :p

Anyway!! Of course you may Faye! ;)

well we could get FA and have a FFFM lol your poor guy would die a happy man....and I've never done one of those :lol:

are you kidding me? Watching 3 women together would make loverboy cum in less than 5 minutes and be of no further use. Oh well - I'm sure us girls can entertain ourselves :p

While the idea of a threesome is still extremely attractive, I wouldn't have another anytime soon.

The last, (me, another girl, and her guy), didn't exactly turn out well. My friend asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. She wasn't into anything I did, their relationship was falling apart and they were using this as a way to save it, and he and I fell for each other. Definately very complicated.

Having said that, if I could get a little girl action while I was with my boyfriend, while not having to deal with anything afterwards, I definately do it.

:lol: Oh im sure you could. :)

I sure am leading a boring life here...I've never even been offered the chance to try a threesome...and just reading through this thread I feel like I'm spectating one between Nancy and ShaniFaye!!!

ive had several ffm threesomes and i took turns with 2 guys once before but i wouldnt call that a threesome.. i still waiting on a real mmf dp threesome

I would love to be involved in a threesome, either FFM or MMF. The opportunity just hasn't presented itself yet for me. But the first chance it does, I know that Secret is more than willing! :) So anytime any of you ladies want to visit Chicago...;) :p

Eh.. I don't really have opinions for or against them. I will never do it again or think about it again unless brought up in random conversation... but I was drunk and it was just an odd situation, didn't do a damn thing for me though.

I might be sorry asking this, but what is a mmf dp threesome?

I know the Male - Male - Female part... but the dp part?

I've since been clued in, double penetration. That's what I figured ;) I suppose what kind of double penetration you'd prefer is up to you! :lol:

Double penetration.

[edit] oops, you figured it out.

somehow when I'm with someone I don't want to be with someone else, even if they are present. It puts me off in fact. MMF, I don't want some other guy, he'd be in the way. FFM, I'd just be jealous and try and rip her hair out...plus I'm not into sex with another woman.

threesomes are GREAT, I did one with my ex bf and his ex gf, one rule he couldnt poke her.. it was grand.. other thing she did start alittle pre-period bleeding which was gross. but the whole big O at the same time was the best thing ever! i wanna do it again. but cant find anyone and i dont think the current bf would go for it :(

Totally up for group sex!

At this point in time I havent had the opportunity but I would be up for either ffm or mmf. I think it would be great.

I would. It just seem's to hard to get it going. I would not know what to do, or how to do it. I think about it a lot, I'm really shy.

I've done a MMF once. It was quite interesting. I honestly don't know if I would do it again. It was great once.

I think that I would have to have some sort of unsatisfaction in my relationship to want a threesome. I *always* wanted to be in a threesome with my ex, but more importantly, always wanted out in many ways. Threesomes were an excuse to get that other person without having to break up because I wasn't ready to or too dependent at the time, etc. Normally, I'm not really into the idea of threesomes. I think i'm much more oldfashioned. :-x

I would only do it if the opportunity came to me now. I'm not in a relationship but I do have lovers. If one of them came to me with the opportunity I would do it. But then I'm young, single and more than likely foolish ;) But I enjoy myself.

I've had both and they are enjoyable. My husband and I have been "swinging" for about 3 years now. The most important thing is being completely up front and honest. We put all the cards on the table. I enjoy MMF better. Just cuz I feel that that is a way for me to be extremely selfish. :-) My husband doesn't have a problem with seeing me with another guy or being naked in front of another man. He gets off on seeing me have sex. Whether it's with him or him and a "guest." I do think that it really depends on your relationship with you SO. The threesome thing, for us, is fun. If anything or anyone feels uncomfortable then it doesn't happen.

Wouldn't try a threesome, most likely, because I have an extremely low self esteem.

I don't know. I used to really want to try one but then I guess I started thinking about how I would feel seeing my husband doing things I love him doing to me, with another woman, and I know I wouldn't like it. In the heat of the moment, I would probably be very in to it, but I know I might not be able to handle it the following morning. I wonder what the reasoning is for most women prefering FFM than MMF? Don't you think most women would love that sort of attention?

my ex wasn't interested in a threesome. i thought it would be fun, mmf or ffm. i had a friend that really wanted a ffm with us, but he turned it down. the whole girl on girl thing didn't do anything for him. if i kissed a girl at a party or something, every guy in the place would be staring and my ex was like, "what? what is so interesting?" lol

current bf isn't interested either. he had a ffm with his ex and her friend when their relationship was falling apart and he'd prefer threesomes to stay in fantasy land. while our relationship is solid enough that i think we could handle it (provided he had a different mindset about it of course) his first experience sorta ruined any possibility for another.

sooo, no threesomes for me despite desires and opportunities *sigh*

I know that with my current boyfriend I would be EXTREMELY jealous if another girl even TOUCHED him. And I'm not really interested in MMF (and I know he isn't) I dunno...some random part of me would like to make out with a girl..just once...to see what it's like. But I guess beyond that I'm quite happy with just one guy :)

If I was not in a serious relationship maybe, but not when I'm with someone I love.

Yeah... you haven't had a proper MMF before you've tried DP :thumbsup:

Three girls? Yes, bring it on...

That too, but I passionately lust after women... I *love* and lust after my hubby.

I'll join you in the fff 3 some pinkie... gladly.

I think I would enjoy a ffm threesome. I think my SO would go for it...eventually. His best friend is a lesbian, but I'm not sure if that would really work out. Might have to bring it up in conversation with him.

:icare: Okay.... :crazy:

I just tried my first threesome with my bf of 2 years (MMF) and I'm so excited. He has kinda been a bit conservative with the idea for a long time but he was all for it and he really got off on it. It was a bit awkward for me this time, but I really want to do it more and I want to try FFM but I have a feeling I'll like MMF better.

I really want to try swinging but it seems like such a closed group especially in conservative west texas... I'm interested in hearing from some swingers about how they got into it and some tips.

I'm too jealous of a person...cant imagine my bf having sex with me and another girl
as for 2 guys and i girl...that just repulses me
i aint knockin anyone for doing it but that just isnt for me!!!!

I like the idea of a MMF but am totally turned off by other women so I couldn't do a FFM. I tend toward jealousy and an FFM would be a very bad idea since I don't fight like a girl. However, I could only do an MMF if I wasn't serious about the men involved. I'm very traditional and being married to someone who I did a threesome with would just ruin my vision of what marriage is supposed to be.

Now that I've "tried" a MMF, I wouldn't do it again. The other guy became my best friend here in this city, and nwlinkvxd is jealous that I spend a lot of my time with him.