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Donna Bella · 07-10-2004, 05:52 PM

I am about to have my second child and of course I need to start thinking about birth control.

I had DEPO after my first child, I gained so much weight and I would sometimes not get a period, or I would have it last forever.

After that I tried Otho-tryciclein, then the generic version for money issues. That just like the depo killed me and my husband because of emotional change.

I was thinking about IUD, has anyone had this or now more about it.

I don't need to worry about STD's only getting pregnant again.

Please help with information.......

brianna · 07-10-2004, 06:26 PM

seems like an IUD would be a great option -- the're incredibly effective and very safe -- i believe they are one of the primary birth control methods in europe, americans have been scared of them because in the 70s there was a defective iud associated with women getting pregnant and the children being born with considerable birth defects -- i'm under the impression that this would be VERY unlikely today and that the IUD is sadly underused in the USA due to unfounded fears.

qtpye4u84 · 07-11-2004, 02:45 AM

Well, I would go for the IUD also because then you dont have to worry about taking a pill every day or getting a shot every 3 months or what not.
When they put it in, they also take some of the fat away too hehehe so thats always a good thing.
But it hurts for like 4 days and you walk a little funny. The pain thing, I bet it depends on, how you handle pain though. They give you pain killers which is a plus.

raeanna74 · 07-11-2004, 08:21 AM

To begin with after the birth of my daughter I wanted to nurse. BC can SOMETIMES interfer with establishing a good milk supply so my Dr prescribed me a Progesterone Only Pill (POP). I've tried more than one kind (moved, changed Drs, Drs change prescription) and neither one lowered my libido or caused me to gain weight. In fact while on the POP's I lost 60lbs after delivery within about 9 mo. POP's are nothing like Ortho. I'm currently on Seasonale which I love. I have a period only 4 times a year and it's such a low estrogen dose that it does not lower my libido, give me migranes (I always used to get migranes when I hit the placebo pills), nor does it make me gain weight. I've heard quite a few complaints about Ortho and Depo. I have yet to hear a complaint from someone on Seasonale.

As far as I know with IUD's they can be particularly uncomfortable to have inserted. "You can also have an IUD inserted in the hospital right after having a baby, if the delivery was normal and the uterus is shrinking normally. There is a higher risk of expulsion if an IUD is inserted right after delivery." WebMD

IUD's can increase the intensity of mentral cramping so consider ir carefully if you have a history of mentral cramping.

sexymama · 07-11-2004, 03:10 PM

If this is your last child, have him get tied! It is wonderful, relatively low pain and consistent bc with no side effects.

Jennteel · 08-10-2004, 04:20 AM

I was on Depo for 9 years and gained a ton of weight from it. So about 5 months ago I switched to Ortho Patch. I love it. Only downfall is I have to have the periods now. But I would suggest the patch.

la petite moi · 08-10-2004, 10:51 AM

My mother said that while she had the IUD, it frequently fell out and once punctured her insides (causing her to bleed profusely).

sexymama · 08-10-2004, 12:26 PM

One of our men pmed me this -- it may be helpful.

The original poster is interested in some info about birth control and I think one of our products may be just the ticket.

Specifically, I am talking about Mirena.

http://www.mirena-us.com/

Not saying Mirena is the perfect hing for her, as that's something only she and her doctor can decide, but I wanted her to be aware that there is an option in the market.

Good luck!

RainbowBright · 08-10-2004, 04:08 PM

I had bad results with Depo too - bled forever and actually had to take some other hormones to get the beeding to stop. But I'm not Norinyl (sp?) and things have been going well for over a year. Ortho makes basically the same thing as well, it's not a trycyclic. I've heard good things about IUD's, and progesterone only pills. Also there are more external things to consider like diaphragms. Your best bet would probably be to find a good medical professional who will take the time to discuss the options with you. I find that Nurse Practioners usually have more time to spend with their patients than MD's do. They can do exams, and write prescriptions but the work under the supervision of a doc.

Cedar · 08-10-2004, 05:01 PM

Here's another vote for the IUD. I want one so badly, but my doctor won't give me one because I'm childfree. (He also won't tie my tubes, but that's another story altogether.) Do you want a third child? If not, consider the Essure process or a tubal. Both are safe and effective. There's also the patch, Ortho Evra.

I know exactly how you feel about Ortho Tri Cyclen. It damn near sent me to the funny farm. I had all the nasty side effects. I am, however, doing quite well now on Yasmin, which is closer to the monophasic pills of yore. You could also check out Seasonale, which I'm trying to convince my doctor to put me on.

nzv · 08-24-2004, 04:58 PM

I've been on pills for over 10 years now and did not gain a pound, maybe even lost some. I did switched around the different types and now I'm on Loestrin 1/20 for 3.5 years -- works great, no nausea, periods are very light and no cramps, etc. If $$$ are a concern, search for Planned parenhood clinic: they are very cheap and also they have this "Take charge" plan depending on income. Otherwise their pills are all $15 a pack.

combatmedicjen · 08-27-2004, 08:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jennteel

I was on Depo for 9 years and gained a ton of weight from it. So about 5 months ago I switched to Ortho Patch. I love it. Only downfall is I have to have the periods now. But I would suggest the patch.

I'm also on Ortho Evra ("the patch") and I am so completely satisfied with it! You only have to remember to stick a patch on once a week, and you can stick it on your arms, shoulder, buttocks, or lower abdomen. It's over 99% effective and it seems to have few, if any, side effects.

I was on Depo Provera for three years. I bled inconsistently for up to months at a time, gained weight, and became depressed. After I got fed up with that crap I switched to Seasonale, which also messed me up. I continued to spot and have mood swings, and it was expensive.

Finally, I tried the patch. Easiest damn thing in the world! Slap that puppy on once a week and you're good to go! I've NEVER had one fall off, and I've been using it for about a year and a half now. I don't get the psycho mood swings any more, and I've lost a ton of weight since I switched to it. I honestly have NO negative side effects from using the patch. A majority of my friends use it, too, and they all seem quite satisfied. And none of them are pregnant

And you can start using it the day after you give birth

07-10-2004, 05:52 PM	#1 (permalink)
Donna Bella Loser Location: Denver, CO USA	Birth Control???? HELP!!!! I am about to have my second child and of course I need to start thinking about birth control. I had DEPO after my first child, I gained so much weight and I would sometimes not get a period, or I would have it last forever. After that I tried Otho-tryciclein, then the generic version for money issues. That just like the depo killed me and my husband because of emotional change. I was thinking about IUD, has anyone had this or now more about it. I don't need to worry about STD's only getting pregnant again. Please help with information.......

07-11-2004, 02:45 AM	#3 (permalink)
qtpye4u84 Flavor+noodles Location: oregon	Well, I would go for the IUD also because then you dont have to worry about taking a pill every day or getting a shot every 3 months or what not. When they put it in, they also take some of the fat away too hehehe so thats always a good thing. But it hurts for like 4 days and you walk a little funny. The pain thing, I bet it depends on, how you handle pain though. They give you pain killers which is a plus. __________________ The QTpie

07-11-2004, 08:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	To begin with after the birth of my daughter I wanted to nurse. BC can SOMETIMES interfer with establishing a good milk supply so my Dr prescribed me a Progesterone Only Pill (POP). I've tried more than one kind (moved, changed Drs, Drs change prescription) and neither one lowered my libido or caused me to gain weight. In fact while on the POP's I lost 60lbs after delivery within about 9 mo. POP's are nothing like Ortho. I'm currently on Seasonale which I love. I have a period only 4 times a year and it's such a low estrogen dose that it does not lower my libido, give me migranes (I always used to get migranes when I hit the placebo pills), nor does it make me gain weight. I've heard quite a few complaints about Ortho and Depo. I have yet to hear a complaint from someone on Seasonale. As far as I know with IUD's they can be particularly uncomfortable to have inserted. "You can also have an IUD inserted in the hospital right after having a baby, if the delivery was normal and the uterus is shrinking normally. There is a higher risk of expulsion if an IUD is inserted right after delivery." WebMD IUD's can increase the intensity of mentral cramping so consider ir carefully if you have a history of mentral cramping. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

07-11-2004, 03:10 PM	#5 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	If this is your last child, have him get tied! It is wonderful, relatively low pain and consistent bc with no side effects. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

08-10-2004, 12:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	One of our men pmed me this -- it may be helpful. The original poster is interested in some info about birth control and I think one of our products may be just the ticket. Specifically, I am talking about Mirena. http://www.mirena-us.com/ Not saying Mirena is the perfect hing for her, as that's something only she and her doctor can decide, but I wanted her to be aware that there is an option in the market. Good luck! __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

07-10-2004, 06:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
brianna Addict Location: nyc	seems like an IUD would be a great option -- the're incredibly effective and very safe -- i believe they are one of the primary birth control methods in europe, americans have been scared of them because in the 70s there was a defective iud associated with women getting pregnant and the children being born with considerable birth defects -- i'm under the impression that this would be VERY unlikely today and that the IUD is sadly underused in the USA due to unfounded fears.

08-10-2004, 04:20 AM	#6 (permalink)
Jennteel Tilted	I was on Depo for 9 years and gained a ton of weight from it. So about 5 months ago I switched to Ortho Patch. I love it. Only downfall is I have to have the periods now. But I would suggest the patch.

08-10-2004, 10:51 AM	#7 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	My mother said that while she had the IUD, it frequently fell out and once punctured her insides (causing her to bleed profusely).

08-10-2004, 04:08 PM	#9 (permalink)
RainbowBright Crazy	I had bad results with Depo too - bled forever and actually had to take some other hormones to get the beeding to stop. But I'm not Norinyl (sp?) and things have been going well for over a year. Ortho makes basically the same thing as well, it's not a trycyclic. I've heard good things about IUD's, and progesterone only pills. Also there are more external things to consider like diaphragms. Your best bet would probably be to find a good medical professional who will take the time to discuss the options with you. I find that Nurse Practioners usually have more time to spend with their patients than MD's do. They can do exams, and write prescriptions but the work under the supervision of a doc.

08-10-2004, 05:01 PM	#10 (permalink)
Cedar Crazy Location: Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry	Here's another vote for the IUD. I want one so badly, but my doctor won't give me one because I'm childfree. (He also won't tie my tubes, but that's another story altogether.) Do you want a third child? If not, consider the Essure process or a tubal. Both are safe and effective. There's also the patch, Ortho Evra. I know exactly how you feel about Ortho Tri Cyclen. It damn near sent me to the funny farm. I had all the nasty side effects. I am, however, doing quite well now on Yasmin, which is closer to the monophasic pills of yore. You could also check out Seasonale, which I'm trying to convince my doctor to put me on. __________________ Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, I am large. I contain multitudes. -Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

08-24-2004, 04:58 PM	#11 (permalink)
nzv Upright	Ask doctor for different pills I've been on pills for over 10 years now and did not gain a pound, maybe even lost some. I did switched around the different types and now I'm on Loestrin 1/20 for 3.5 years -- works great, no nausea, periods are very light and no cramps, etc. If $$$ are a concern, search for Planned parenhood clinic: they are very cheap and also they have this "Take charge" plan depending on income. Otherwise their pills are all $15 a pack.