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lurkette · 07-18-2004, 06:51 AM

So ratbastid bet me that like 90% of of women are at least bi-curious. I think this is just his (and every other man's) fantasy. But I told him I'd post a poll just to see. Not that we're a terribly representative sample around here, but here goes...

la petite moi · 07-18-2004, 07:01 AM

I'm not to fond of labels since love has no gender, but as my boyfriend said: If you used to look at both guys and girls when you were single, but you have done stuff with guys and not with girls, then you're bi-curious.

maleficent · 07-18-2004, 07:14 AM

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Originally posted by lurkette
So ratbastid bet me that like 90% of of women are at least bi-curious. I think this is just his (and every other man's) fantasy.

He's delusional...

You're really not even going to get a realistic sampling as TFP is hardly representative of the real world. Maybe 90 percent of the TFP falls into his delusion.

(I'm firming in the Strictly Dickly category -- women? Not in a bazillion years)

Redgirl · 07-18-2004, 08:20 AM

I'm definitely bisexual. I passed the bi-curious stage years ago!

I think women are more beautiful to look at and touch, but I love dick too much to give up men. Plus there are a bunch of other things I love about being around a big strong guy, like feeling protected and safe, that I just don't feel with women.

So women fall in a strictly sexual category for me. Not a relationship I would seriously enter.

onodrim · 07-18-2004, 09:23 AM

Bi-curious here. In fact I spent most of Friday night making out with girls, good times.

I feel a lot like Redgirl, I am definently attracted to women on a physical level, but I doubt that I could ever have a serious relationship with one. But hey, never say never.

xxSquirtxx · 07-18-2004, 10:22 AM

I could not vote. My curiosity was taken care of - twice, but I don't consider myself bisexual. I am straight.

Rubyee · 07-18-2004, 11:31 AM

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Originally posted by maleficent
He's delusional...

You're really not even going to get a realistic sampling as TFP is hardly representative of the real world. Maybe 90 percent of the TFP falls into his delusion.

(I'm firming in the Strictly Dickly category -- women? Not in a bazillion years)

Oh come on baby, you are telling me that I don't make you horny? Not just a little? A teensy bit? Oh well, then. I will just return the naked pictures of myself that I was going to send to you.

I am of the school of belief that goes something like this: "Don't knock it until you've tried it."

I would love to try, and then make my decision.

Sugar&Spice · 07-18-2004, 11:33 AM

I chose bi-curious. I don't ever want to make out with girls, but I guess a small part of me wonders about it. I don't think I could ever bring myself to do it. I know girls who have experimented with other girls and liked it a lot. As for me, I'll stick to the boys.

maleficent · 07-18-2004, 11:57 AM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
Oh come on baby, you are telling me that I don't make you horny? Not just a little? A teensy bit? Oh well, then. I will just return the naked pictures of myself that I was going to send to you.

I'm old. I'm a stick in the mud. I'm a prude. Women do absolutely nothing for me, except maybe, ooh pretty, but woudl I want to fuck it? No thank you.

xxSquirtxx · 07-18-2004, 12:34 PM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
I am of the school of belief that goes something like this: "Don't knock it until you've tried it."

I would love to try, and then make my decision.

You should try it...soon!!! It's an awesome experience. But, I am married now, so that is just one reason I "abstain."

SixEdxMia · 07-18-2004, 12:45 PM

Strictly Peetster.

lurkette · 07-18-2004, 03:00 PM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
I would love to try, and then make my decision.

Honey, don't taunt me like that

RainbowBright · 07-18-2004, 03:56 PM

I put straight cuz I only want to be with a man in real life. But I guess I should have put bi-curious cuz I do fantasize about women and think they are beautiful.

pinkie · 07-18-2004, 04:24 PM

I'm definitely bisexual, but I'm just with one man now.

twotimesadingo · 07-18-2004, 06:43 PM

just want to apologize, actually. i am quite male, and thought that i was in the Tilted Sexuality forum, and thus voted. but, now that i scroll up to the top, i realize i am not, and have definitely broken the rules of this area. again, apologies all around.

/flustered

honest mistake......adequately submissive in his kneeling apology to our beautiful ladies

Rubyee · 07-18-2004, 07:15 PM

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Originally posted by lurkette
Honey, don't taunt me like that

Where do you live again?

jRuntlets · 07-18-2004, 08:13 PM

Definately straight. Why? I have no desire to play with parts like mine. Women are pretty but I've never gotten along with them.

Trisk · 07-18-2004, 11:38 PM

bi-curious.
I've only dated and had serious crushes on men...but I do admire the female body and I would definately experiment with women sexually if they wanted me to. However, I think that sexual flings are as far as I would go with a woman. I've never had romantic feelings for a woman and I doubt I'm going to start getting them any time soon.

Ella · 07-19-2004, 01:52 AM

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Originally posted by onodrim
I am definintly attracted to women on a physical level, but I doubt that I could ever have a serious relationship with one. But hey, never say never.

Same. I've had several lickety split fun times, and man, were they fun! I still love the female form, and am aroused by it, but the dick's where it's at for me right now.

Nancy · 07-19-2004, 05:50 AM

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Originally posted by lurkette
So ratbastid bet me that like 90% of of women are at least bi-curious.

I agree with Ratbastid on this one. I have never met a woman who hasn't fantasized about being with another women so that would make them bi-curious.

I myself am very bi-curious but I haven't had the chance to actually have sex with one yet...

maleficent · 07-19-2004, 06:08 AM

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Originally posted by Nancy
I agree with Ratbastid on this one. I have never met a woman who hasn't fantasized about being with another women so that would make them bi-curious.

Hey, I'm Maleficent, damn glad to meet you.

You now can say you have met one...

lurkette · 07-19-2004, 06:31 AM

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Where do you live again?

Durham, NC. And I think you're absolutely adorable.

Rubyee · 07-19-2004, 06:55 AM

So, if I am ever in NC, I have a date!

lurkette · 07-19-2004, 07:04 AM

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So, if I am ever in NC, I have a date!

You can count on it

*Nikki* · 07-19-2004, 04:09 PM

This thread is turning into a good place to get a date!

Ella · 07-19-2004, 10:25 PM

I think you're all out of my reach, dammit!

thubpt · 07-20-2004, 12:15 PM

I choose bi-curious. I wish I could say I was bi-sexual, but . . . . I just haven't had the chance yet

Lot's of lovely ladies in this world, though!

fallenangel · 07-20-2004, 12:58 PM

I'm bi-curious. Always wondered about that about myself. I agree with Redgirl and Ono, it's more a sexual thing, I mean there are some women i'm physically attracted to, and some men as well. No be all and end all by any stretch. However, i don't think i'd ever want a relationship beyond sexual with another woman.

I just love sexual things too much to restrict myself to one gender. I'll try anything once... or twice *wink*

Rubyee · 07-20-2004, 05:39 PM

Maybe instead of planning get togethers, we should plan a bi-curious orgy. We can all get together and play!

shannon · 07-20-2004, 07:05 PM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
Maybe instead of planning get togethers, we should plan a bi-curious orgy. We can all get together and play!

that is a fantastic idea. meet in canada?

Hash_Browns · 07-20-2004, 07:53 PM

I voted Bi-curious. I have had experiences with women, but not a blown out sexual experience, just played around a bit...

I would love to actually get comfy enough with another girlfriend of mine to be able to explore a little more. Not for a relationship...but it would have to be someone I knew and could trust...

guinnessgurl · 07-21-2004, 12:20 AM

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Originally posted by Hash_Browns

I would love to actually get comfy enough with another girlfriend of mine to be able to explore a little more. Not for a relationship...but it would have to be someone I knew and could trust...

I found that, and the experience was amazing. I definitely put myself down as bi-curious (although I should say the majority of my curiosity has been taken care of). I've been harboring a desire to want to do it again.....any takers?

lurkette · 07-21-2004, 06:25 AM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
Maybe instead of planning get togethers, we should plan a bi-curious orgy. We can all get together and play!

I like the way you think!!

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Originally posted by guinnessgurlI found that, and the experience was amazing. I definitely put myself down as bi-curious (although I should say the majority of my curiosity has been taken care of). I've been harboring a desire to want to do it again.....any takers?

You are all a bunch of teases!!!!

Plus you're (god I'm old) about 12 years younger than I am.

Xapphire · 07-21-2004, 08:04 AM

voted bi curious because while I've been between a woman's legs, it was too short for me to know if I really enjoyed it as we had an audience, I want one on one time with a girl which is something my husband and I are still haggling over *laughs* He wouldn't mind it after the first few times (assuming we found that unicorn, the single female to be our girlfriend) if he was there for the first few, while I wouldn't mind him being there after the first few times, but let me find out if it's for me or not first without having to worry about someone watching me *laughs*
~Xap

fallenangel · 07-21-2004, 09:30 AM

guinnessgurl - sign me up! lol

Lurkette - You're never too old, lol

Rubyee - genius!

lurkette · 07-21-2004, 10:42 AM

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Originally posted by Rubyee
Maybe instead of planning get togethers, we should plan a bi-curious orgy. We can all get together and play!

I'm SO there! But one rule: just like the LL, no boys allowed.

Nyah ratbastid

Redgirl · 07-21-2004, 07:39 PM

Xapphire that is exactly the argument my husband and I have! I want the alone time with the girl and he doesn't like that idea. Good luck haggling with yours, I'm not getting anywhere with mine! Drop me a line when you figure out the perfect argument.

Oh, and count me in for the girly orgy!

Doesn't even one of you hot ladies live in Oklahoma?!

Helloooo?

*crickets chirping*

guinnessgurl · 07-21-2004, 08:06 PM

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Originally posted by fallenangel
guinnessgurl - sign me up! lol

we'll talk details, lol

lady · 07-22-2004, 12:34 AM

Straight chicka here... Girls turn me on in porn, but not in real life.

Sorry ratbastid

Xapphire · 07-22-2004, 05:59 AM

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Originally posted by Redgirl
Doesn't even one of you hot ladies live in Oklahoma?!

We were just there this weekend for my husband's family reunion (Choctaw Nation) does that count? *laughs* It only takes us an hour to cross the Red River since we live north of Dallas

Jaid understands the reasons I want it, he just wants to be there for my first few times, which I can understand wanting to share that with me, but it makes it harder for me, it's a big circle. Blah *wrinkles her nose*

~Xap

View Poll Results: I consider myself...
definitely straight	136	41.46%
bi-curious	125	38.11%
definitely bisexual	46	14.02%
definitely lesbian	21	6.40%
Voters: 328. You may not vote on this poll

07-18-2004, 06:51 AM	#1 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Sexual preference So ratbastid bet me that like 90% of of women are at least bi-curious. I think this is just his (and every other man's) fantasy. But I told him I'd post a poll just to see. Not that we're a terribly representative sample around here, but here goes... __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

07-18-2004, 08:20 AM	#4 (permalink)
Redgirl Addict Location: Native America	I'm definitely bisexual. I passed the bi-curious stage years ago! I think women are more beautiful to look at and touch, but I love dick too much to give up men. Plus there are a bunch of other things I love about being around a big strong guy, like feeling protected and safe, that I just don't feel with women. So women fall in a strictly sexual category for me. Not a relationship I would seriously enter. __________________ Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

07-18-2004, 09:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
onodrim Cosmically Curious Location: Chicago, IL	Bi-curious here. In fact I spent most of Friday night making out with girls, good times. I feel a lot like Redgirl, I am definently attracted to women on a physical level, but I doubt that I could ever have a serious relationship with one. But hey, never say never. __________________ "The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides" -Carl Sagan

07-18-2004, 11:33 AM	#8 (permalink)
Sugar&Spice Psycho	I chose bi-curious. I don't ever want to make out with girls, but I guess a small part of me wonders about it. I don't think I could ever bring myself to do it. I know girls who have experimented with other girls and liked it a lot. As for me, I'll stick to the boys. __________________ -Speak your mind even if your voice shakes

07-18-2004, 07:01 AM	#2 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	I'm not to fond of labels since love has no gender, but as my boyfriend said: If you used to look at both guys and girls when you were single, but you have done stuff with guys and not with girls, then you're bi-curious.

07-18-2004, 10:22 AM	#6 (permalink)
xxSquirtxx More anal, less shenanigans Location: Always lurking	I could not vote. My curiosity was taken care of - twice, but I don't consider myself bisexual. I am straight.

07-18-2004, 12:45 PM	#11 (permalink)
SixEdxMia <3 Peetster Location: Peetster's house.	Strictly Peetster. __________________ Honey,We're home.

07-18-2004, 03:56 PM	#13 (permalink)
RainbowBright Crazy	I put straight cuz I only want to be with a man in real life. But I guess I should have put bi-curious cuz I do fantasize about women and think they are beautiful.

07-18-2004, 04:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
pinkie Helplessly hoping Location: Above the stars	I'm definitely bisexual, but I'm just with one man now.

07-18-2004, 06:43 PM	#15 (permalink)
twotimesadingo Psycho Location: that place with the thing	It happens just want to apologize, actually. i am quite male, and thought that i was in the Tilted Sexuality forum, and thus voted. but, now that i scroll up to the top, i realize i am not, and have definitely broken the rules of this area. again, apologies all around. /flustered honest mistake......adequately submissive in his kneeling apology to our beautiful ladies __________________ I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and all your demons. I'll be the one to protect you from a will to survive and voice of reason. I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and your choices, son. They're one and the same I must isolate you, isolate and save you from yourself." - A Perfect Circle Last edited by tecoyah; 12-16-2004 at 03:18 AM.. Reason: Example

07-18-2004, 08:13 PM	#17 (permalink)
jRuntlets Crazy	Definately straight. Why? I have no desire to play with parts like mine. Women are pretty but I've never gotten along with them. __________________ Horses come and go, but some leave permanent hoof prints on your life.

07-18-2004, 11:38 PM	#18 (permalink)
Trisk Insane	bi-curious. I've only dated and had serious crushes on men...but I do admire the female body and I would definately experiment with women sexually if they wanted me to. However, I think that sexual flings are as far as I would go with a woman. I've never had romantic feelings for a woman and I doubt I'm going to start getting them any time soon.

07-19-2004, 06:55 AM	#23 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	So, if I am ever in NC, I have a date! __________________ You don't know from fun.

07-19-2004, 04:09 PM	#25 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	This thread is turning into a good place to get a date!

07-19-2004, 10:25 PM	#26 (permalink)
Ella Ella Bo Bella Location: Australia	I think you're all out of my reach, dammit! __________________ "Afterwards, the universe will explode for your pleasure."

07-20-2004, 12:15 PM	#27 (permalink)
thubpt Tilted Location: Chapel Thrill	I choose bi-curious. I wish I could say I was bi-sexual, but . . . . I just haven't had the chance yet Lot's of lovely ladies in this world, though! __________________ The knack of flying is learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss. --Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy

07-20-2004, 12:58 PM	#28 (permalink)
fallenangel soaring Location: near the water	I'm bi-curious. Always wondered about that about myself. I agree with Redgirl and Ono, it's more a sexual thing, I mean there are some women i'm physically attracted to, and some men as well. No be all and end all by any stretch. However, i don't think i'd ever want a relationship beyond sexual with another woman. I just love sexual things too much to restrict myself to one gender. I'll try anything once... or twice wink __________________ all I wanna do is - give the best of me to you

07-20-2004, 05:39 PM	#29 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Maybe instead of planning get togethers, we should plan a bi-curious orgy. We can all get together and play! __________________ You don't know from fun.

07-20-2004, 07:53 PM	#31 (permalink)
Hash_Browns Psycho Location: Right behind you...BOO!	I voted Bi-curious. I have had experiences with women, but not a blown out sexual experience, just played around a bit... I would love to actually get comfy enough with another girlfriend of mine to be able to explore a little more. Not for a relationship...but it would have to be someone I knew and could trust... __________________ Smile It makes people wonder what you're up too!

07-21-2004, 08:04 AM	#34 (permalink)
Xapphire Crazy Location: Dallas TX (close enough)	voted bi curious because while I've been between a woman's legs, it was too short for me to know if I really enjoyed it as we had an audience, I want one on one time with a girl which is something my husband and I are still haggling over laughs He wouldn't mind it after the first few times (assuming we found that unicorn, the single female to be our girlfriend) if he was there for the first few, while I wouldn't mind him being there after the first few times, but let me find out if it's for me or not first without having to worry about someone watching me laughs ~Xap

07-21-2004, 09:30 AM	#35 (permalink)
fallenangel soaring Location: near the water	guinnessgurl - sign me up! lol Lurkette - You're never too old, lol Rubyee - genius! __________________ all I wanna do is - give the best of me to you

07-21-2004, 07:39 PM	#37 (permalink)
Redgirl Addict Location: Native America	Xapphire that is exactly the argument my husband and I have! I want the alone time with the girl and he doesn't like that idea. Good luck haggling with yours, I'm not getting anywhere with mine! Drop me a line when you figure out the perfect argument. Oh, and count me in for the girly orgy! Doesn't even one of you hot ladies live in Oklahoma?! Helloooo? crickets chirping __________________ Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

07-22-2004, 12:34 AM	#39 (permalink)
lady Addict Location: Vancouver, BC	Straight chicka here... Girls turn me on in porn, but not in real life. Sorry ratbastid __________________ Our doubts are traitors, And make us lose the good we oft might win By fearing to attempt.