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03-29-2004, 09:41 AM
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soaring
Location: near the water
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Is it true?
Someone once told me, or else i read it somewhere, i can't quite remember... that everywoman has three men in her life that fit this category.
1. the man she IS fucking 2. the man she WANTS to be fucking 3. the man she SHOULD be fucking I know at some point in time, this was all the same guy... i just can't quite figure out myself when things started to change and separate. Hmm. Well good things we're split now... he's just taken on one of those personas  Do you ladies have the men that fit into these categories, or do they all fall under the same man... (I guess woman too if that is your situation *shrugs*)Maybe i should've put this under tilted Sexuality... but i wanted ladies perspective on it first
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03-29-2004, 11:34 AM
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I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
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Well my situation doesn't exactly fit.
1. the man she IS fucking - Hubby AND any other guy that we're involved with when we swing. 2. the man she WANTS to be fucking - Hubby and the other men that we swing with. 3. the man she SHOULD be fucking - Hubby especially. He also approves and encourages me to be involved with the other men that we swing with. Don't quite know where I would fit in this little picture. At least hubby's in all 3. Doesn't matter to me if the other men are in the picture at all. When I fantacise it usually involves a completely imaginary man so I don't feel like I could list the man of my imagination as under - Who I WANT to fuck. It's just for my imagination's sake.
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03-29-2004, 06:18 PM
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Location: on the back, bitch
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After thinking it over for a couple minutes, I realize all three are different....I don't subscribe to the notion that there is only one potential soul-mate for a person or that you can only love one at a time. In many cases, the IS is the Should-be as it fits the situation at hand. And, unfortunately, the Want is sometimes unavailable to us. When all three come together, though, the results can be fantastic-so cherish that time-you never know how long it may last.
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03-29-2004, 09:58 PM
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Femme Fatale
Location: Elysium
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In my case it falls under the same guy. I don't envy the ladies who's in that particular situation because it sounds really complicated!
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03-30-2004, 10:56 AM
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soaring
Location: near the water
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it could? i dunno, men have a different mindset putting them in an easier place to just simply thought of as purely fucks.... or i could be horribly wrong... hmm, now you've got me thinking
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03-30-2004, 01:48 PM
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Location: belgium
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Re: Is it true?
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I can agree on a sort of distinction between the man you are fucking, and the man you want to be fucking... But who the hell is the man I should be fucking???  And who sais i should be fucking that man...I don't really believe in "the one", and i hope the man i should be fucking is the man i am fucking... who is also --luckily for him and me-- the man i want to be fucking  |
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03-30-2004, 05:31 PM
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Location: Euphoria
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 well that tickled my funny bone! I would have to agree! 
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03-31-2004, 03:41 PM
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Psycho
Location: Canada
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i fuck the boy i mainly want to fuck, but there are other boys on my list, and many more girls on my list that i also want to fuck. and i guess if i should be fucking anyone it would be that i should be fucking more people. i would like to challenge the idea that women shouldn't fuck around like mad and shouldn't have like a ton of sexual partners, but i got hooked on this one guy pretty young. oh well. so i should be fucking more people, but not necessarily anyone in particular i guess.
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