Thank you, sweetheart. :)

Been There
 

My first serious boyfriend broke my heart...he cheated on me. However, I got over him in time and I'm now in a great relationship with a guy I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. :icare:

I think all people go through break-ups, but not everyone in the world has been or will be in love. Life just isn't that rosy. I don't know the circumstances of this break-up but if you loved him and he loved you, and it was a little deeper than "I kinda like you", then you should have feelings for him. Imagine if it was you on the other side. September wasn't so long ago you know? That's an open wound. I think that if there was any friendship between you and mutual respect, the decent thing to do is be there for him, yet making it clear you must now lead separate lives. I think when you break up with someone, the cruelest thing you can do is turn your back on them in an instant, after all you've been through. I know because I've been there. That said, good luck with making him see that there's more to life than what you had.

edit - just realsied this thread started a year ago...duh. Wonder what's happening now?

I've been in love many times now, and I've had my heart broken a few times. I've found it is best to cut off all contact until both parties are healed, and then a friendship might bloom with time again.