"But she only comes when she's on top..."

heh...I have a special place in my heart for that song.

For whatever reason, I can NOT orgasm when I masturbate. I always bring myself right up to the edge and then.....that's it. It's extremely annoying.

With the husband though...whoa. Not every time (and I'm one of those that absolutely loves sex even without finishing), but most of the time. The screaming, thrashing ones seem to happen most if there was oral involved before the actual penetration.

OH....tell me about it....at first my hubby was awful in the oral department....but now...OMFG....he knows how to hit that one spot that just gives me one orgasm after another....a truely talneted man with a golden tongue..(that's what some of our sex partners have told me)

As for the penetration....every single time....all the time


BTW....welcome to the board

You should have them do that...and pass it out to all the other men out there...who have no clue. ;)

A book?...nah...hands on teaching would be soooo much more fun

you girls are all so lucky i think! i think i'm in your boat superbunny. i've had MANY an orgasm through just masturbation--but w/ my boyfriend it's really hard for me. i don't think i've ever had an orgasm through sex. when we do go at it, it lasts for hours and it feels SOOOO good, but always just to the point or he'll hit the spot and then he won't be able to find it afterwards ... it's frustrating because i really really want to be able to orgasm during sex so we can both enjoy it to the fullest (as he does every time b/c i've learned everything that gets HIM off) but i honestly don't know how, so i cant exactly teach HIM .. any quick suggestions besides just watching porn??

There's a great show on the Oxygen channel called the "Sunday Nite Sex Talk" watch it, give her a call. I bet she could help