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txgirl · 08-15-2003, 08:20 PM

Ok...Now how would you gals handle this? I recently moved to the west coast after a bad marriage, met this guy on line prior to the move, met him here...it clicked big time, we had it going on for a couple of weeks then he disappears. Yeah I know...but reappears stating he was in an accident blah blah blah..does theonline story...nurse and all, it's a long story but then I talk to a woman, claiming to be a nurse, and he passed away. Me going omg, thought this is pretty extreme..
Then some people pointed stuff ou, with the little red flags, and said give it time ...he'll pop up again, he isn't gone...so here I am waiting...and here he is on another site and I've been thinking of stomping all over him.
It was a nasty thing for him to do, and NO I'm not obsessed with him by FAR!!! Just want to give the guy what he deserves because he'll do it again to someone else!

sexymama · 08-15-2003, 08:46 PM

I can't stand it when people screw with other people's heads! This guy desreves to be called on it!

I would personally send a response to him on the other site proclaiming my glee at seeing he has risen from the dead! Hopefully other woman will see it and catch on!

Good luck.

txgirl · 08-15-2003, 08:52 PM

oh I was going to mess with him a little first...but that's where i was heading..thanks

lafemmefatale · 08-15-2003, 10:24 PM

what a jerk. go to the computer forum and find yourself a couple ppl who know how to hack or otherwise make that jerk's computer awkward to use. Or you can get yourself another 'identity' by singning up another account, get 'close' with him again, find his main email, or better yet, all his emails.......sign it up on all the pr0n sites you can manage. Works better if yu can get his work/home email. People like that make the internet a worse place to be.

txgirl · 08-15-2003, 10:29 PM

I know his email already and have pics of him all over..the dumbass posted the same pics he gave me before...the thing is...you don't want to date me..don't..no big deal but this..NOT!
There are so many details I haven't posted..way too long!

cheerios · 08-15-2003, 10:41 PM

oye, his I dont' wanna date you line was "sorry, i;m dead?!?!" what a dick!

don't hack him, really, it's not worth it. just rise above it, and go on with life, glad you found what a loser he was!

txgirl · 08-15-2003, 10:44 PM

true enough...

JadziaDax · 08-16-2003, 02:38 AM

I agree with Cheers on this one... Be the better person.

It does remind me of the beginning of the movie Singles where Linda (Kyra Sedgwick) meets this great looking blonde when she's having car trouble. He says he's a student from Spain and that his Visa will be expiring in a couple of weeks, so they make the most of it. She falls for him... He leaves and calls her to say he's on his way back to Spain. Then, I believe it's that very same night, Linda goes to the local club with her friend, and sees this guy hitting on another woman.

Some men (not all) are shit. Unfortunately, we have to sort through the shit to find the good ones. I feel so fortunate to have found one of them. But I went through a lot of shit to get to this point. I know the emotions you are feeling for what this guy did to you. I've been there myself. But, like I mentioned earlier (and so did Cheers), just let it go. Be above this.

txgirl · 08-16-2003, 05:50 AM

i know i'm bigger and so much better...but sometimes..you know..you just want to kick some ass....sorry...but oh so true...

JadziaDax · 08-16-2003, 06:54 AM

in that case, txgirl... I'll hold him down... you start swinging

sexymama · 08-16-2003, 08:06 AM

I agree that it is better to rise above this jerk and be the better person. At the same time, there are other innocent woman out there falling for his line. Somehow drawing attention to him may save a few potential victims. Say something for them!

Double D · 08-16-2003, 09:10 AM

Yes, there may be other innocent women falling for him, but it's not up to you to protect them all. You can't. No matter what you do, he's an ass, he'll always be an ass, and he will keep doing what he does, 'cause he gets off on it.
The best thing you can do is stop thinking about him, and go forward with your life. The sooner you forget about this loser, the sooner you will be ready to find the right man. He's out there, just gotta keep your eyes open and don't ignore red flags, ever (they are your friend).

txgirl · 08-16-2003, 03:30 PM

very true and i wasn't looking for him...I dropped it until i saw him and I went...you...anyhow...I know...I know...6 of one half a dozen of the other...but I know I'm so much better than that! WAY better!

sexymama · 08-16-2003, 03:38 PM

Yes, it is time for txgirl to move on -- there is no arguing that! But to not call him on his manipulation is like not turning in a rapist. There is no reason to allow other woman to be manipulated just because the guy is an ass and will continue to be an ass! Don't dwell on it -- but please do what you can do to protect other human beings.

txgirl · 08-16-2003, 05:13 PM

well that's what I'm doing and by far dwelling on it..but it was soo uncalled for...he'll get what's coming to him one day. Either from me or someone...I'm a stronger person, but someone else may not be...

Peutetre · 08-17-2003, 09:20 AM

I really think you should try to just get over it... this has happened to a friend of mine before.. it's mean but really how well did you know him? It's not worth upsetting yourself over some guy that thinks he can hurt people because he has the protection of the internet.

txgirl · 08-21-2003, 12:15 PM

Well..here is the end of the story..I lured him, hooked him very easily...then met him last night...with a BIG friend and he didn't notice me walk in...he was waiting for my ficticious friend, I walked up to him, put my hand on his shoulder, as his head was turning and me saying, NOW that you've risen from the dead, (pouring wine in lap) don't ever fuck with me again..and I quietly walked out with my body guard following me! END OF STORY!
thanks for your opinions...

Averett · 08-21-2003, 12:20 PM

Bravo! Nicely done

Karma will kick him in the ass some day though, dont worry.

sexymama · 08-22-2003, 07:34 AM

You are a hero for all woman! Good work!

rosie21 · 09-06-2003, 06:00 PM

txgirl · 09-06-2003, 09:30 PM

Well, ya know...I feel that I am such a bigger/better person, not for dealing with it, but in the WAY I dealt with it and I'm so done...
But for some f....reason this guy keeps on popping into my life and THAT's what I hate..but don't got there...because I don't!

08-15-2003, 08:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	on line date=major story Ok...Now how would you gals handle this? I recently moved to the west coast after a bad marriage, met this guy on line prior to the move, met him here...it clicked big time, we had it going on for a couple of weeks then he disappears. Yeah I know...but reappears stating he was in an accident blah blah blah..does theonline story...nurse and all, it's a long story but then I talk to a woman, claiming to be a nurse, and he passed away. Me going omg, thought this is pretty extreme.. Then some people pointed stuff ou, with the little red flags, and said give it time ...he'll pop up again, he isn't gone...so here I am waiting...and here he is on another site and I've been thinking of stomping all over him. It was a nasty thing for him to do, and NO I'm not obsessed with him by FAR!!! Just want to give the guy what he deserves because he'll do it again to someone else!

08-15-2003, 08:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I can't stand it when people screw with other people's heads! This guy desreves to be called on it! I would personally send a response to him on the other site proclaiming my glee at seeing he has risen from the dead! Hopefully other woman will see it and catch on! Good luck. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

08-15-2003, 10:24 PM	#4 (permalink)
lafemmefatale Insane Location: Vancouver	what a jerk. go to the computer forum and find yourself a couple ppl who know how to hack or otherwise make that jerk's computer awkward to use. Or you can get yourself another 'identity' by singning up another account, get 'close' with him again, find his main email, or better yet, all his emails.......sign it up on all the pr0n sites you can manage. Works better if yu can get his work/home email. People like that make the internet a worse place to be. __________________ -poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another-

08-16-2003, 08:06 AM	#11 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I agree that it is better to rise above this jerk and be the better person. At the same time, there are other innocent woman out there falling for his line. Somehow drawing attention to him may save a few potential victims. Say something for them! __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

08-16-2003, 03:38 PM	#14 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	Yes, it is time for txgirl to move on -- there is no arguing that! But to not call him on his manipulation is like not turning in a rapist. There is no reason to allow other woman to be manipulated just because the guy is an ass and will continue to be an ass! Don't dwell on it -- but please do what you can do to protect other human beings. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

08-15-2003, 08:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	oh I was going to mess with him a little first...but that's where i was heading..thanks

08-15-2003, 10:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	I know his email already and have pics of him all over..the dumbass posted the same pics he gave me before...the thing is...you don't want to date me..don't..no big deal but this..NOT! There are so many details I haven't posted..way too long!

08-15-2003, 10:41 PM	#6 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	oye, his I dont' wanna date you line was "sorry, i;m dead?!?!" what a dick! don't hack him, really, it's not worth it. just rise above it, and go on with life, glad you found what a loser he was!

08-15-2003, 10:44 PM	#7 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	true enough...

08-16-2003, 02:38 AM	#8 (permalink)
JadziaDax Loser Location: who the fuck cares?	I agree with Cheers on this one... Be the better person. It does remind me of the beginning of the movie Singles where Linda (Kyra Sedgwick) meets this great looking blonde when she's having car trouble. He says he's a student from Spain and that his Visa will be expiring in a couple of weeks, so they make the most of it. She falls for him... He leaves and calls her to say he's on his way back to Spain. Then, I believe it's that very same night, Linda goes to the local club with her friend, and sees this guy hitting on another woman. Some men (not all) are shit. Unfortunately, we have to sort through the shit to find the good ones. I feel so fortunate to have found one of them. But I went through a lot of shit to get to this point. I know the emotions you are feeling for what this guy did to you. I've been there myself. But, like I mentioned earlier (and so did Cheers), just let it go. Be above this.

08-16-2003, 05:50 AM	#9 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	i know i'm bigger and so much better...but sometimes..you know..you just want to kick some ass....sorry...but oh so true...

08-16-2003, 06:54 AM	#10 (permalink)
JadziaDax Loser Location: who the fuck cares?	in that case, txgirl... I'll hold him down... you start swinging

08-16-2003, 09:10 AM	#12 (permalink)
Double D Junkie Location: Chicagoland	Yes, there may be other innocent women falling for him, but it's not up to you to protect them all. You can't. No matter what you do, he's an ass, he'll always be an ass, and he will keep doing what he does, 'cause he gets off on it. The best thing you can do is stop thinking about him, and go forward with your life. The sooner you forget about this loser, the sooner you will be ready to find the right man. He's out there, just gotta keep your eyes open and don't ignore red flags, ever (they are your friend).

08-16-2003, 03:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	very true and i wasn't looking for him...I dropped it until i saw him and I went...you...anyhow...I know...I know...6 of one half a dozen of the other...but I know I'm so much better than that! WAY better!

08-16-2003, 05:13 PM	#15 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	well that's what I'm doing and by far dwelling on it..but it was soo uncalled for...he'll get what's coming to him one day. Either from me or someone...I'm a stronger person, but someone else may not be...

09-06-2003, 06:00 PM	#20 (permalink)
rosie21 Tilted	.. Last edited by rosie21; 05-21-2007 at 01:12 PM..

08-17-2003, 09:20 AM	#16 (permalink)
Peutetre Tilted	I really think you should try to just get over it... this has happened to a friend of mine before.. it's mean but really how well did you know him? It's not worth upsetting yourself over some guy that thinks he can hurt people because he has the protection of the internet.

08-21-2003, 12:15 PM	#17 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	Well..here is the end of the story..I lured him, hooked him very easily...then met him last night...with a BIG friend and he didn't notice me walk in...he was waiting for my ficticious friend, I walked up to him, put my hand on his shoulder, as his head was turning and me saying, NOW that you've risen from the dead, (pouring wine in lap) don't ever fuck with me again..and I quietly walked out with my body guard following me! END OF STORY! thanks for your opinions...

08-21-2003, 12:20 PM	#18 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Bravo! Nicely done Karma will kick him in the ass some day though, dont worry. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

08-22-2003, 07:34 AM	#19 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	You are a hero for all woman! Good work! __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

09-06-2003, 09:30 PM	#21 (permalink)
txgirl so many men...so little time. Location: Bellingham	Well, ya know...I feel that I am such a bigger/better person, not for dealing with it, but in the WAY I dealt with it and I'm so done... But for some f....reason this guy keeps on popping into my life and THAT's what I hate..but don't got there...because I don't!