Double D

Okay, big confession. In general, I do not find penises attractive. I am completely puzzled why guys think showing them off, turns me on.

There are many other body parts on a man that I would prefer to see - eyes, great smile, shoulders, butt, musclely thighs....but his penis? Er, no.

I haven't had a sexual trauma or the like that would *cause* me to feel this way. Aesthetically, I just don't find most penises appealing.

Just for clarification, I *love* my partner's penis, because I love him. And there have been a couple of penises, in fact one that is on prominent display at TFP, that I think are attractive- smooth, strong-looking, but the vast majority make me want to look away.

Ladies, how 'bout you - do you find penises attractive? Why or why not?

*Nikki*

Yeah I am of the same way of thinking.

Don't get me wrong, I like looking at a nice cock. Most of the time though, it doesn't turn me on.

That is unless it is attached to my partner. Maybe it is just something about "strange" cocks that turns me off then.

I think that men's bodies are utilitarian for the most part.

~springrain

i'm in agreement with everyone so far...

while i love Willow's... it's because it's HIS... not because it's particularly beautiful or a big turn-on... we joke about it actually... because he'll use it to "wave" at me from the shower sometimes... i usually squeal and make some sort of "eeewwww" reference... *soft laugh*... he takes it all in fun, and doesn't seem to really care one way or another if i find it attractive or not...

i'd like to second what DoubleD said about some penises...
there are times when a very hard penis looks so smooth and strong... very "manly"... and there is something in that, that i find erotic and attractive...

but on the whole... i tend to look away...

Xeen

Hmmm.. attractive? No. Erotic? On their own - no. I do find them erotic imagining what they might be doing to me though - I guess I just have an overactive imagination

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SiN

yeah, i'm in love with my bf's cock...looking at it, kissing it, sucking it...i love it all

but i've no interest in seeing any others, just largely i believe because i've no interest in other men.

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Atropos4

I love alpha phi's hmmmmmm
other's?

actually I look at most porn penises and think wtf? keyword *most*
some of them just don't do it for me. If they look similar to my hunny's then yeah I like the looks of em but if not, I look away.

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sierra2774

I don't really find them attractive either....I think they can be but I have seen some that are just not nice.....I think being attracted to the penis comes with being attracted to your partner.

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awanderingsoul

The erect ones are definately more attractive than the flacid ones. But I would have to agree with most everyone else in that penises (penii?? What's the proper plural of penis?) in general are not attractive.

annie1

i agree with most of these comments listed thus far... my guy has a yummy one, others dont do a thing for me

warmingup2prose

i'm gonna have to disagree...i am one of the few girls i know who likes them, though. i think they're beautiful, in their own way--not just because of what they can do. *wink* i've seen some particularly gorgeous ones...mmm!

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Amethyst

When I first started having sex the penis total grossed me out I never even looked at my first partners penis. My husbands I love and I find it very attractive. I have seen a few that are attractive but for the most part no they are not. There are so many other parts on a man that are more attractive.

Theresa

If my b/f is stretching or if I see him adjusting it I get all turned on because I get the picture in my head of it all hard and ready to go.
I don't know if it's because it's a turn on that I find it attractive, or if it's a turn on because I find it attractive . . . either way I am attracted to his penis and I guess that makes it attractive whether it's an aesthetic attraction or not.

Funny how most of us girls are attracted only to our man's penis or those that look like his . . . Does this change every time we get a knew man? Are you guys just saying this because your b/f might read your post? They all kind of look the same to me when hard though - even when uncircumsized.

You'd never hear one of our guys saying he wasn't attracted to another girls tits or twat on the tittie board just because it didn't look like ours. I think that if we said anything like "he has a good looking penis" our guys would freak out a whole lot more than we would if they said anything like "she has good looking breasts".

I think guys are really sensitive about their "penii".

Double D

I've been with the same man for 11 years or so, but I never thought penises were attractive (except for a very few).

I have the freedom to express what I feel because my SO does not belong to Tilted, and if he did, he wouldn't read Ladies Forum (he's a good mid-western boy- thinks it would be inappropriate.)

True enough. Men and Women really are very different in the their expression/view of sexuality. I prefer the less sterotypical- thinking man, but that's another thread.

Thanks everyone, for your posts!

anti fishstick

i don't know any girl that's attracted to the penis, alone. i find them quite repulsive. but of course, i love my bf's.

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motdakasha

warmingup2prose, it looks like it's just you and me singing this chorus.
i love to look at various penes even if i don't know the guy and even if his doesn't look like the guy i'm dating, if i'm dating. they all have their own character. they're all fun to look at.
for me, if it's porn, i actually prefer not to see the person because then i can imagine whomever i want is the owner of that cock.
when i date a guy, i enjoy his penis in all situations, flaccid or erect. i also sort of play a little mental game and try to imagine what he would look like naked when he's doing totally random things like sitting at a computer or exercising or whatnot. makes me giggle.




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Pandabear

attracive in the sense of handsome...no Sexy yes....erotic yes.....agree with the fact that some are just ugly and don't do it for me. Unless you are total lesbian, who doesn't like the looks of a big bulge and a nice hard arousal.

Apache

I wouldn't say that it's that attractive but when im in the mood I want nothing more than my hubbys penis right then and there. It's all Im concentrated on at the time but i wouldn't set and look at it all day or photos of ones either!

Angellus

I think they are one of the ugliest things on this planet.

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SiN

Wow.

and you couldn't have said that a bit..nicer?

erg.

i gotta just walk away from this one before i...yeah.

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Double D

Remember, guys are reading here and we don't want to crush their self-esteem . And we dont' like it when they say unkind things about our naughty bits, so let's be kind, if we critisize.

SiN

thank you DoubleD for your elaboration/explanation.

that's kinda basically what i meant, but i was just a bit speechless.

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Pandabear

Well, you think penis' are ugly...i think vaginas/female anatomy is ugly. Keep the legs closed and it is OK ....guess that is why I LOVE men. Don't get me wrong I have seen some weird looking penis' but ya gotta love em'

LittleOralAnnie

I find penises, or penii as stated above are just one more beautiful thing to love on a man. Men are sexy in every way, from their heads to their toes and everything in between.

I can't say all penii are beautiful though because I'm sure there are some out there that are just as unattractive as a females nether regions. All the ones I've seen and played with so far have been smooth, hard, and delicious to touch, ride and look at. Mmm!

beckybb

Like many others, I have my own parameters:
It usually depends on the men they are attached to. I like them just fine, but I'm not going to spend an hour on the Internet looking at men's penises and doing myself. Like a lot of you, it's the action of the penis that's more desireable than the penis itself.
My husband is very average in that department -- not that I get to see or use it very often anymore. Ugh.
As for the look, I don't want them to have big thick blue veins, lots of excess hair or dark in any color. I hope that doesn't sound prejudiced, but I just don't like them black, brown or even darker skin shades. That just turns me off.
I prefer them pick, smooth, trimmed or shaved most of the way and thick. I don't mind if they are small and I'd rather not have them long and thin, but I prefer them thick either way.
Also, there's something about a semi-hard penis that sort of gets my attention. I like them hard, yes, but when they are sort of almost hard and kind of floppy and bouncy, I have to admit that sort of turns me on.
I do, however, own a toy that is lifelike, very thick with a large head, and maybe it's because of the fun I have in using it, but just looking at it gets me going.
(He he - pardon me while I giggle like a school girl).
There's my two cents.

mydragonfido

I am married and there is nothing fascinationg about another guys cock!!! My husbands is great I love to lick, suck, etc. But women are not as visual as men!! We like to have a connection with the cock we are looking at!!!

StormBerlin

My boyfriend has a very nice looking penis. I've seen some bad ones too. Perfecty symmetrical, all that good stuff. Yes, he is blessed.

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angela146

I love the way you said "...imagining what they might be doing to me..." That sums it up for me.

A soft one does little for me. A hard one, especially on it's way over to go inside me, *that* sends a thrill through my whole body.

If I'm on my knees facing a hard one it's even more intense. It has a way of "insisting" on attention. The anticipation, when it's about three inches away and I feel his hand gently on the back of my head, that is a major rush.

siryn

I never found cocks attractive until I met my now bf. It's perfect in everyway imaginable. If I see it, I want to kiss it, lick it, suck it. He complains that I demand to give him oral too much. You're right though...flaccid = not so hot.
I find that a disgusting looking penis is a recquirement for porn. blech. Maybe I'm weird, but I find even somewhat large ones to be...scary. I think that's because I associate them with my first bf, whose was huge...and I'm so small...

rosie21

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Ladyhawke

I love looking at a cock....if it's done in a tastiful way...But just flashing it to me to try and turn me on...will only get it kicked

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shannon

i find them attractive in their own way.
hard i mostly just get thinking about what they can do hard.
soft, i think they're cute. i like to wobble my bf's around. i'm kinda simple from time to time.
i think vaginas and penises are more comparable as far as attraction, as mentioned before. sure, most guys like breasts that don't look like their gf's. but i also like the look of breast so i don't think it's a fair comparison. breasts are more smooth and soft and by media's standards anyways are more normal and more associated with what people would see as attractive. while penises are more so wrinkly and funny and not what we would generally associate with attractiveness. you gotta love them for what they are.

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sexymama

I love a man's body -- including his penis! However, I much prefer the real thing over porn and the whole thing over just the penis. I especially enjoy a penis that is attached to a great set of balls and that is excited by me -- yummy.

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wannabenakid247

Im a lesbian but i still think that some penises are attractive but they have to be quite big and thick and straight. Not all knobly and bent and blotchy (like a dogs) . Floppy ones look gross! I supose its down to the person your with and how you feel about them (unless its just a fuck!)

gummby

I agree with the whole the partners is the best but it brought a funny story to mind.

I have a pretty good relationship with the mother-in-law and we talk about her son a great deal. well, don't ask me how but we got on the subject of circumcisions. and...omg...she actually asked me if my husband's (her son's) penis ended up looking ok, because his father (whom she divorsed when the hubby was like a year and a half) had kind of a funny looking one. Well after about 10 min. of giggling I told her that it was actually the most attractive one I've ever seen.

How are you suposed to react in a situation like that.

Double D

I'd say pretty much the way you did.

(And were you saying your life was boring in the intro thread? If this is boring, I wanna see when it gets good!)

Ladyhawke

amen sister

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gummby

My life is prettty boring...i just have some really interesting conversations.

Shyla Loral

My hubby's cock is gorgeous, mmm....drool. Heh. I wouldn't particularly fancy looking at anyone else's cock, though. My sweetie feels insecure about his, but believe me, he has no reason to. Mmmm.....cock.

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ariekitten

well, while i think penises are FUN to look at, i do not find them attractive. like, they don't turn me on if i were just looking at a penis all by itself. but if it's on a hot man, well hell yah. i love JS', it's the perfect length and size around and everything. i think other parts are more attractive, like a kissable mouth with luscious lips, and gorgeous eyes....a great muscly chest and strong arms. JS has all of that, but ultimately i think the biggest turn on is his brains. that's what lured me in to begin with.

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