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KellyC 10-30-2005 01:48 AM

Ruined Word(s)
 
Have you ever liked a certain word because of its sound, but then someone comes along and use it either excessively, in the wrong context, pronounce it wrong, or just say it in a really annoying way and totally kills the word for you?

I have a few words that other people runined for me, in that in dread to use it and will avoid to use it at all cost (except in this post).

That word is "kudos," I used to really like that word because it sounds cool, there's a certain sophistication--exotic even--to that word. Then my HS principal uses it, wayyyy too much. Every morning she'd go on the intercom and announce something, when she gets to complimenting some one--student, teacher--she'd say "Kudos to _____ for _____" and she just keep on using it over and over and over again, it's almost as if she doesn't have any other words for to replace that word. I don't know when she started using it, but it wasn't until a couple friends of mine talk about it that I realize, yes, it's annoying. Then I'd start paying attention to her speaking on the intercom and specifically listen for that word, and every time she says it, I just wince. This drags on until the end of the year when I finally catch the break of summer.

Thank god she was fired during the summer because of a scandal or else I might've gone crazy.

So folks, any words?

FngKestrel 10-30-2005 01:52 AM

I had one instructor who overused the word, "potentially". It drove me nuts. We would have discussions in class and he would use that word to answer every question. One student in my class picked up the habit unconciously and he and the instructor had the most surreal conversation ever.

A word that doesn't bother me, but I suspect bothers Inigo Montoya would be "inconceivable". :D

dlish 10-30-2005 02:26 AM

my sister in law uses the word actually in nearly every sentence.

sometimes as the first word of the sentence.. "Actually, did you know..."
sometimes as the last word of the sentence... " Did you know that..... actually"
sometimes as the first and last words of a sentence " actually, did you know... actually"
sometimes with a double actually.."did you know actually, actually..."
sometimes with a double actually and an actually starting the next sentence..

ok so you get my drift... it used to get on my nerves like theres no tomorrow.. but after 2 years now, im growing immune to it.

actually, it wouldnt actually be that bad if she actually wasnt an english teacher actually.. really!

Suave 10-30-2005 02:48 AM

Dichotomy. My god, if there was ever a word loved by academics (and a couple of my friends)... last year I think I heard it at least twice a day (coincidence? I think NOT!), which is too often for a word so uncommon.

On a slightly related tangent, I like the word niggardly, but chances are slim to none that I will end up using it in conversation due to the word it resembles.

ChistledStone 10-30-2005 02:58 AM

Either the word "like" (teenaged girls broke it) or totally. I want to use those words without sounding like a 14 year old just hitting puberty.

Blackthorn 10-30-2005 06:24 AM

One of my current client peeps says "Having said that... blah blah blah". It shows up so many times in every conversation that we've started keeping track. The current record is six HST's in a single 1 hour meeting. Annoying....then again it's tough being perfect.

Single words... "like" and "dude" and so help me if you use them both in the same sentence. Having said that... like dude ... you should switch to decafe! Arrrrrgh...:D

Charlatan 10-30-2005 06:33 AM

Eclectic... as in, "I have eclectic taste" or "that film was eclectic"...

over and misused.

Fremen 10-30-2005 06:58 AM

Two words that I hate to hear together at the start of a sentence now are, "I mean".
Or the overuse of "um".

gremlinx8 10-30-2005 07:32 AM

I'd go with plethora. I didn't use to hear it so much, but now I hear it quite a bit. Even my mom uses it.

Gatorade Frost 10-30-2005 07:44 AM

Inconceivable!

politicophile 10-30-2005 08:14 AM

Irregardless - It's not even a real word.

noodle 10-30-2005 08:53 AM

Whenever. I had a friend who used to start every single flipping story with "Okay, so whenever I was going ..." Not like "each time", but that specific time. So obnoxious. And terrorism. My boss actually used it in talking about sexual harrassment at work. My coworkers so do not terrorize me.

Phrases from Hell:
"I think we're going to need to process map this before..."
"Thanks for all you do."
"We know you love your job, that's not in question, but..."
"You're so full of energy."
"I hear what you're saying."
"Keep up the good job."
"You've got a great personality."

I cringe every single time I hear one of those because they're so loaded and most end up being quite negative.

Elphaba 10-30-2005 08:54 AM

I had a professor that couched most of his statements with "arguably or arguable." I still get the "ACK" response whenever I hear the word now.

optik_nerve 10-30-2005 08:55 AM

I know this one chick and she uses the most uncommon words ALL the time. I honestly think she does it to sound more intelligent than what she really is. Having said that, she actually has a book of words that she writes down and uses in conversation. It's like a...plethora dude. It's almost eclectic and I have to give her kudos for doing this...I mean, who can sit there and look up the word smitten and clamidya and use it in everyday conversation. It's inconcievable.

FngKestrel 10-30-2005 09:37 AM

All those damn catch phrases at work, never liked them:
"Touch base..."
"Going forward..."
"Action items..."
"Bandwidth..."

AquaFox 10-30-2005 09:50 AM

Syllabus --- why can't people just say schedule or course outine?



terrorist--- to over applied lately... they even refer to great wild west criminals terrorists... since when was billy the kid a terrorist? ... and i've even heard newscasters calling kids terrorists when they do stupid stuff like pull fire alarms and less serious pranks

skier 10-30-2005 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by optik_nerve
I know this one chick and she uses the most uncommon words ALL the time. I honestly think she does it to sound more intelligent than what she really is. Having said that, she actually has a book of words that she writes down and uses in conversation. It's like a...plethora dude. It's almost eclectic and I have to give her kudos for doing this...I mean, who can sit there and look up the word smitten and clamidya and use it in everyday conversation. It's inconcievable.


I hear what you're saying. Actually, this is arguably the most, like, annoying paragraph in this thread. I expect to see some dichotomous replies in response to it. I can't say I find any words particularly annoying. I have a friend that has a word of the day calendar and finds a way to put the word in our conversation, but it's more funny than aggravating.

Marvelous Marv 10-30-2005 10:43 AM

"At this point in time" instead of "at this time."

"You know" ad infinitum.

For those in the medical professions, "contraindicated."

777 10-30-2005 04:00 PM

It sounds cool and nearly causes you to abandon hope, and give in to the villians after hearing it. But after just about every villian at some point now says, "Resistance is futile.", it loses it's edge.

feelgood 10-30-2005 05:01 PM

"Dude, I'm trippin out"
"Whoa dude, im stoned"
"Dude..."
"Dude!"
"Dudeeeeeeeee"
"Dude, did you see that?"
"Dude! that's sick!"

You get the drift

tec-9-7 10-30-2005 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by politicophile
Irregardless - It's not even a real word.

w3rd! 1. The message you have entered is too short. Please lengthen your message to at least 10 characters.

5757 10-30-2005 06:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by feelgood
"Dude, I'm trippin out"
"Whoa dude, im stoned"
"Dude..."
"Dude!"
"Dudeeeeeeeee"
"Dude, did you see that?"
"Dude! that's sick!"

You get the drift

Ouch...........that almost sounds like me :|

Yeah, so the word that I can't stand anymore is...............................
essence.

In essence
In essence
In essence
In essence
In essence!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!


Also for+sure= Like, for sure! OMG. Kill me please if I have to hear that one more time. (My sister is 16)

sadistikdreams 10-30-2005 06:54 PM

Blatant.

When people are all like, "god what a blatent lie", "it's so blatantly obvious", "he blatantly did whatever".

Come on, get a new word, man.

fresnelly 10-30-2005 08:00 PM

Comedian David Cross does a good bit about the misuse of the word "Literally"; especially by sportscasters.

For example:

"Oh Man! He literally tore the quarterback's head off with that tackle!"

No, he <i>metaphorically</i> tore his head off you @*&$%&!

cellophanedeity 10-30-2005 08:02 PM

"unique"

Ugh... I hate people who say that they are "unique" or that anything is "unique." It's overused, and most of the time it's not true!

aKula 10-30-2005 08:41 PM

"Going forward". It puts me in a state of mind where I don't even really listen to or attempt to comprehend the rest of the sentence.

MSD 10-30-2005 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by politicophile
Irregardless - It's not even a real word.

http://www.askoxford.com/results/?vi...r=score%2Cname

Informal != not real


I try to vary my vocabulary usage so I don't get into the habit of using one word too much. I have my catch phrases, but those are reserved for use at proper times only.

Overall, misuse and abuse has destroyed the word "literally," and I frequently hear it used in place of "practically," "nearly," or "essentially."

little_tippler 10-31-2005 04:43 AM

anyway..........
and basically.........

I hear them a lot.

maleficent 10-31-2005 04:48 AM

empowered... 5 cent pop psychology word used by anyone who took a psych 101 course.

Love - most over freakin' used word in the world...

Leto 10-31-2005 06:06 AM

I have a word and a phrase:

The word is 'absolutely' when used as a agreement. Such as: Q: 'would you like to come to the movie with us?' A: ' Absolutely'


The phrase is 'in essence'. I was in a meeting once, when a guy used this phrase 13 times within 10 mins. We took score. It was pathetic.


edit:

oops, dudes! Basically I just scrolled back, and saw the phrase 'in essence' logged above. In essence, I absolutely did not perform a unique search of this forum, whick I am empowered to do, blatantly creating double entries irregardless of the toolset available to me...

Redlemon 10-31-2005 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dlishsguy
my sister in law uses the word actually in nearly every sentence.

I'm prone to doing that; I realized it about a half-year ago, so I'm trying to make an effort to stop. So, thanks for reminding me to listen to myself again.

5757 10-31-2005 08:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leto
I have a word and a phrase:

The word is 'absolutely' when used as a agreement. Such as: Q: 'would you like to come to the movie with us?' A: ' Absolutely'


The phrase is 'in essence'. I was in a meeting once, when a guy used this phrase 13 times within 10 mins. We took score. It was pathetic.


edit:

oops, dudes! Basically I just scrolled back, and saw the phrase 'in essence' logged above. In essence, I absolutely did not perform a unique search of this forum, whick I am empowered to do, blatantly creating double entries irregardless of the toolset available to me...

Actually dude, its uh, okay to actually repeat what someone else says in a thread. Just as long as it is actually your opinion. You actually can have the same opinion as somebody else actually. In essence it's all good. Be yourself. Don't do a search to make sure you aren't repeating somebody else's actual opinion. Your's is still unique and lovely. Anyway, that's basically it dude. Got it? Absolutely fantastic! Kudos to you!! :lol: :|

stevie667 10-31-2005 08:58 AM

I destroy the meanings of words all the time, in fact i destroyed the meaning of my own name for a few days a couple of years back. That was annnoying i can tell you.

Gets even more annoying when someone else does it for you.

Kadath 10-31-2005 09:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSelfDestruct

NO. It was added because they had to cave to the fact that millions of fools were using it. Think about the word. Ir- = not. Regardless = without regard to. Therefore, "irregardless", if such a word was acceptable, would be with regard to. It does not. It "means" (and by that I mean does not mean) the same as regardless. This kind of stupidity that has inflammable and flammable meaning the same thing. Hopefully one day the English language will be a complete impediment to communication.

I've been using "dreadful" too much lately, but my least favorite word right now is "Google." as in "Just Google it!," as delivered by my tech-deficient father, who thinks he's discovered the Holy Grail and needs to tell every about it.

guthmund 10-31-2005 11:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fremen
Two words that I hate to hear together at the start of a sentence now are, "I mean".
Or the overuse of "um".

Geez, that's me... :|

Fantastic. That's my word. My new boss uses the word 'fantastic' to describe everything. The amazing thing is, it sounds the same everytime. Like she's genuinely thrilled with what you've done.

"I've got that new reference list for you."
"Oh, fantastic!"

"I've finished shelving the new arrivals."
"Oh, fantastic!"

"Well, if you must know, I had a sandwhich for lunch."
"Oh, fantastic!"

Coppertop 10-31-2005 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cellophanedeity
"unique"

Ugh... I hate people who say that they are "unique" or that anything is "unique." It's overused, and most of the time it's not true!

For me it is "very unique." Yeah, that really chaps my hide.

Lately my girlfriend has taken to saying "ironic" or one of its iterations, seldom properly. Experience, however, has taught me to hold my tongue.

leftyderek 10-31-2005 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by guthmund
Geez, that's me... :|

Fantastic. That's my word. My new boss uses the word 'fantastic' to describe everything. The amazing thing is, it sounds the same everytime. Like she's genuinely thrilled with what you've done.

"I've got that new reference list for you."
"Oh, fantastic!"

"I've finished shelving the new arrivals."
"Oh, fantastic!"

"Well, if you must know, I had a sandwhich for lunch."
"Oh, fantastic!"

It is similar for me, just like the word 'awesome'.
I hate it when I tell someone something random or of low importance, they reply 'oh that's AWESOME!'

And another thing I can't stand is, people say 'how's it going?' to me and walk away when I was about to reply- why ask if you don't even care? why can't they just say 'hi' or 'oi' etc.?

Willravel 10-31-2005 04:26 PM

ever since the chumba wumba episode of family guy, everyone around me has been saying "nice" too often.

5757 10-31-2005 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by guthmund
"Well, if you must know, I had a sandwhich for lunch."
"Oh, fantastic!"

:lol: Niiice. I love when people make me laugh out loud on here. Fanastic!

hambone 10-31-2005 05:07 PM

If you have ever worked in tech support, you should hate the word 'basically'

If you have worked in tech support and DON'T hate that word....you are probably the guy/girl who uses it way too much.

If everything was soooo 'basic' they wouldn't be calling the tech support line anyway

:thumbsup:

KellyC 10-31-2005 07:17 PM

The people who deliberately use those ruined words to annoy others, you guys are mean.

The following words annoy the hell out of me when used in this sequence and in variations similar in nature, "like, you knowww, whatever."

trickyy 10-31-2005 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FngKestrel
All those damn catch phrases at work, never liked them:
"Touch base..."
"Going forward..."
"Action items..."
"Bandwidth..."

work lingo is great because no one dares laugh at the people using it. there was a column in the Onion quite a while ago entirely written in this format.
here's the story i recalled: http://www.theonion.com/content/node/33222
here's a similar story for the heck of it: http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28292

FatFreeGoodness 11-02-2005 12:30 PM

Discrimination. Once, we all wished to develop discrimination. I still have a dictionary that claims the word means : “1. The ability to notice quality: the ability to appreciate good quality or taste. 2. Awareness of subtle differentiation: the ability to notice subtle differences.”
Now it pretty much means unfair treatment because of prejudice.

Blaise 11-02-2005 02:10 PM

"basically"
"to be honest"
"at the end of the day"
"when all's said and done"
"taking that on board"

Well, when they're being over-used by the sort of person who feels the need to cram at least two or three of them into every sentence (generally work-related), regardless of whether they add anything or not. Used properly, I don't mind them, but it seems they're just thrown into sentences to make them sound better and it's not just me who has noticed it, I've seen a few people complaining about them.

hrandani 11-02-2005 04:11 PM

I had a philosophy teacher who over-used the word 'clearly' while making up and summarizing wide swathes of bullshit.

Everytime I hear that word I still see red.

FatFreeGoodness 11-03-2005 02:46 PM

"I had a philosophy teacher who over-used the word 'clearly' while making up and summarizing wide swathes of bullshit."

May I assume that, being a philosophy teacher, this was pretty much all the time?

skier 11-04-2005 06:04 PM

Just got a new one.

Whenever one of my friends is in a group with girls, he'll find an excuse to say "new direction" for example, "Let's take this conversation in a new direction." or "I'd like to move that thought into a new direction."

All I ever hear is "nude erection" and I'm pretty sure he does it on purpose. It's driving me batty.

ronan 11-07-2005 05:03 PM

"golden"

golden things are classic, or really good... until someone starts to copy everything you say, and everything becomes golden...

Lasereth 11-07-2005 05:15 PM

These words aren't really words that I liked beforehand, but they're definitely words that have been used in my field so often that they are just annoying now. I'll cover all of them in one sentence:

"In theory, the most value-added viable enterprise solution would be to outsource."

AHHHH!!!!!!! I really hate my field sometimes (CIS). You could have said, "The best choice is to get someone else to do it." Nope. Gotta have the value-added viable enterprise solutions with the outsourcing, else it doesn't sound technical enough.

-Lasereth

katie_ann1031 11-07-2005 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fresnelly
Comedian David Cross does a good bit about the misuse of the word "Literally"; especially by sportscasters.

For example:

"Oh Man! He literally tore the quarterback's head off with that tackle!"

No, he <i>metaphorically</i> tore his head off you @*&$%&!

That was the one I was going to point out. Very few people know how to use this word. I remember watching a documentary one time on the making of some film and the director or producer was being interviewed and he must have used "literally" about 20 different times in a five minute interview. Not once did he use the word right. But I don't want to complain too much, I am sure I use words wrong all the time. Until recently I used the word iregardless instead of regardless, so I am just as guilty.

ngdawg 11-08-2005 11:07 AM

I can't use 'literally' much since MadTV has that 'literally' couple...it's funny and at the same time literally annoying :lol:
'thinking outside the box' just wrong from t-x
'basically' which I do tend to use, it's a habit I'm trying to break
'same difference' another habit I broke. Either it's the same or it's different

krwlz 11-08-2005 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 5757
Also for+sure= Like, for sure! OMG. Kill me please if I have to hear that one more time. (My sister is 16)

"Like Oh My God! Like totally!
I do not talk funny...
I’m sure
Whatsa matter with the way I talk?
I am a val, I know
But I live like in a really good part of encino so it’s okay
Uh-huh...
So like, I don’t know
I’m like freaking out totally
Oh my god!"

Sorry, Happened to be listening to Valley Girl by Zappa when I read that...

I don't know that there are any words that annoy me at this point, but I do have a tendency to pick up certain phrases and overuse them for a time... Trying to break that habit. My most recent one is "fair enough". As in whenever I don't really agree, but dont really care to disagree with someones statement it gets the "fair enough..."

optik_nerve 11-08-2005 06:57 PM

Ooh, I thought of another. I hate when people say "I ain't gonna lie". As in "Blah blah blah is cool, I ain't gonna lie," or "Blah blah blah sucks, I ain't gonna lie."

Don't fucking lie, just tell the truth in the first place.

KellyC 11-09-2005 06:42 PM

P.....C.....

I see this term being used way too many times in TFP, and they killed it!!

getwonk'd 11-09-2005 09:01 PM

Dude-That is one word I can't stand. My kids say it all the time. I did find a way to curb the usage around me though, I told them if I hear it again, they will have to write a one page report on the real meaning of the word. I haven't heard it since!

The other thing that really bugs me is when I say something and I get "Are you serious?" or "hang on" as a response. I wouldn't have said it if I weren't serious and hang on to what?


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