Would you marry a pornstar?
 

Would you date:
a) a prostitute
b) a pornstar
c) a stripper?

In Titty Boards men are howling after stars and amateurs. Is it just a show or would you people really date or marry those women?

I would probably date a stripper or pornstar of either gender if I really fell in love. Provided that this person would be intelligent and good conversationalist, ambitious & extroverted, those are the things I usually get attracted to. Looks are not that big factor for me. There's a base level and everybody above it I consider "good looking enough" and look at their other merits. Atleast I could assume a porn actress or actor would be realtively open to suggestions in bed, but would they want to do "work at home? :P

Prostitution would be too much to handle for me. I can live in an open realtionship, but her/him sleeping with people I don't trust and like.. Not good, I'd be jealous and suspicious.

No
No
No

That was simple. I don't like sharing.

Nah porn stars a cool to look at and i feel they're sharing themselves with the world. I wouldnt want a gf that shows her pootang to everyone it would kinda make the sex boring for me..

no no no

No
yes
yes

IMHO Prostitution (in the US anyway) is too dangerous a way to make a living, and is illegal besides so that's out. The others wouldn't bother me at all.

I doubt i could date a prostitute, or any of them really seriously. I have my midn made up that people who generally work in those professions tend to do so for very messed up reasons. Sure it's a nasty stigma they carry around, but if i met someone who was very kind and sweet and not fucked in the head, I could reconsider my answer on a per person basis.

a) no, never been to one and would even think about dating one.

b) hmm, I've been friends with a couple...maybe,
I would have to be in a open relationship mood, right now that's not me.

c) yes, I've dated 2, but the problem is that they are usually drama queens & users

1. No
2. Date? certainly
3. Date? certainly

A more accurate question would be "Would a porn star or stripper date me?", and the answer is "No."

Besides, I'm already married...

a) Not a practicisng pro, but if she was a wonderful person who had been a pro in the past due to 'necessity', bad choices or whatever, then yeah.
b) See above.
c) Yeah, I'd probably date a stripper, providing she was faithful along with all the other great qualities I look for in a girl.

No
No
No

I'd get way too jealous.

This pretty much reflects my thoughts on the subject, although some extensive STD tests would have to be performed in all cases. I'm perfectly healthy and would expect my partner to be as well.

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Maybe (b). Maybe. Depends on how long she's been out of it and what diseases she's still got.


It's a show. To some degree, a lot of these women aren't actually available. They're either married or gay. They do what they do for money, for the thrill, and/or for the feeling of power it gives them.

While there are guys who don't know this, I suspect lots of guys do know it, and simply like the fantasy.

Hell no!
Nah
Hmmm...

Pornstars and whores get poked, strippers don't. So for me it'd be the stripper. She won't have the wokked out pussy as part of the job.

No
no
and yes been there done that, and it wasn't such a big deal.

I have to disqualify myself on this one because I have been happily married to the same woman for most of my life.

But, I have some thoughts about the question.

First, do you mean marry or date? Those could get two different answers, or at least two different perspectives on the issue.

Second, doesn't this question tend to assume that people would choose dates or mates based on appearance or sexual prowess? I noticed that a couple of people have already commented about personalities and common interests. For a long term relationship, aren't these considerations more important?

These are just my musings on the subject.

I don't think I could date a prostitute. Too many possible issues including diseases, emotional problems, sharing, etc., not to mention that it is illegal almost everywhere.

The other two would have to be case by case. If as you said, Suviko, they had all those other qualities I look for in a mate, smart, funny, spiritual, committed, etc., then I would consider it.

My very limited experience tells me that most would not, however.

Couldn't date a prostitute.. and it would simply come down to the person in the other two cases. If she had the qualities I like then her profession isn't much of an issue (except where it could be harmful to both of us, like prostitution).

I'd have to give a big NO to all 3 choices.. her profession could cause major problems and I wouldn't want to deal with it.

no to all..but if this counts for anything, I've been trying to get my wife to act more like a pornstar.:D

no to all of 'em, i'd like to live long and std free

NO
NO
NO

I like not having VD.

no thanks, I try to stay away from people like my sister in-law

Which of the three was she and do you have pics? :D

no to all of them, for the simple reason that a prostitute is just to dangerous, and pornstars and strippers pretty much only care about an easy way to make money, and not the real value of themselves and sex.

Guys on the Titty Boards are merely interested in visual consumption (at least at the moment they make those comments, at least I know I can be that way), and subsequently don't really concern themselves with who's actually on film.

I don't think the kind of people that I'm interested in would end up as prostitutes, porn stars, or strippers. It's possible that if the right girl happened to be of one of those vocations we would work around it, but I know at the very least that I would have major problems with a current prostitute or porn star.

It's all a question of situation.

hmm... retired or still working?

I could see myself dating a stripper if she was a wonderful funny and caring person, but I din't think I could date someone who, in whatever form, had sex for money

I consider sex to be a part of an intimate relationship, and something I'd only want to do within such a relationship, also something I'd only want someone I was in a relationship to do with me.

I don't care too much about past history, so long as the person concerned doesn't have a dose or whatever, but I don't think I could date a still working pornstar or prostitute

I have nothing more to add than what Lebell said.

No to prostitute and porn star.
Stripper as long as the look but not touch rules are in place. I wouldn't want anyone else squeezing the Charmin.

No
No
No

I like many others am just too jealous.

eh oh eh....... hmm first of all, its easy to say something we'll do, then actually doing it.

if i fell in love with her and she loved me, i would marry her. period.

if she is an illegal prostitute she'd have to get out of it. period.

if she works at the Bunny Ranch or such and is mentally okay, i'm okay with it.

Strippers , thats fine. again, mental health and no substance abuse (the ultimate destruction of most strippers)

pornstar, i'd be okay with too with the same crteria. i mean, hell, its not like she loves the dudes fucking her.

the thing is i don't believe in robots or mind control... i can't control anyone and don't want to. if she's a certain way we both have to mold into a relationship.

as far as 'i wonder what she's doing now", well for one thing i'd know, and another i just can't see me caring. her body is a beautiful extention of a much more sacred thing: her mind and soul.

i certainly wouldn't mind her doing modeling.

I say never say never, but most likely it would never happen. In addition to the fact that I don't hang in the same places they do, so we probably wouldn't hook up, the cultural differences would be most likely be insurmountable.

No
No
No

If hell freezes over

When pigs fly (genetic engineering may make this very slightly possible in the distant future)

Yes, but I doubt that I'd find a stripper who is single and the type of girl I gravitate toward.

No farking way on all three....

Not because I'm worried about STDs and such. I'm afraid it's more to do with my fragile 'man ego.' I'd never be able to feel comfortable and let go knowing they've had copious amounts of sex.

Sex should be a very enjoyable thing....and the pressure to 'perform' would be too great for me to enjoy it.

I know....I'm a sad....sad little man....:)

If my dick is involved in any discission making, the answer would be "yes". If my dick is not a factor...NO!

Yes, yes, and yes. Not only are they all sure-fire guns, but on great money as well...

Would i marry one? No, no, and yes.

No for the prostitute and the stripper.

Pornstar, why not. Wouldn't bother me.

A prostitute would just mean too much sharing, and would bring too many risks. As for strippers, well, I know 4, and through them I've met others, and I wouldn't date one. They're just too used to using men. I've always hated the game between men and women, and strippers are experts at it.

As for a pornstar - I guess she has the safest and sanest of the mentioned professions. She actually sleeps with other professionals. If the world knows what her ass looks like? Wouldn't bother me.

Re: Would you marry a pornstar?
 

no
yes
yes

No to prostitutes because of the diseases and lack of safety controls. But let's remove those and say that they are Amsterdam/Bunny Ranch style where there is someone protecting the interest of the ladies. Plain and simple I don't think that I can share my lover like that.

Pornstar/stripper? because that's a level of exhibitionism. There are a number of pornstars/strippers that are monogomous.

NO
NO
NO

I would have trust and jealousy issues with them all!

I am not free and yet I can speculate with this, so. :)

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First, do you mean marry or date? Those could get two different answers, or at least two different perspectives on the issue.

I didn't want people to answer just "nonono" or "noyesyes" but to actually consider the situation(s). You can answer to both. It's a mind game and there's no absolute rules.

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Second, doesn't this question tend to assume that people would choose dates or mates based on appearance or sexual prowess? I noticed that a couple of people have already commented about personalities and common interests. For a long term relationship, aren't these considerations more important?

Did you read my opinion on this?

And no. This wasn't about looks. I was intrested in the social stigma and stereotypes and do people think they can look past it and see a person.

A lot of people seem to know strippers and those do are saying a bit more than average that they could consider dating one. Maybe speculating with this is too abstract if you don't know anybody who's in these "careers" or just reply "no, no, no" without thinkg anything.

XenuHubbard:

Hmm.. That makes sense.

I would have to say no to 'A' the prostitute, the others I Would have no problem dating.

A. No
B. No
C. Maybe

The reason for me is that I am a jelous type. Knowing that she is screwing other people woudl drive me nuts. As for a stripper maybe because I dont know if I could handle haveing many others staring at her naked. But who really knows until the situation arisis.

It would all depend on the woman and who she is rather than what she has done.

The real question is would you marry a woman who continued to be a pornstar, stripper or prostitute.

I don't think that I would have a problem as long as I knew that it was just business to them.

no
yes
yes
a pornstar would be kinda cool, and kinda freaking weird at the same time, when you know that she is just faking it on tape but then you start to think that if you wernt 9 inches then how could you impress her?:(

Yes to all; I figure, once you get past the used part, it's all new territory.
Seriously, I accept people as they are; the past has no bearing on the present, besides, I'm always up for new directions.

Re: Would you marry a pornstar?
 

a) Fuck no. I'd rather kill myself.
b) Never in a million years.
c) No, but if a chic was hot enough I might bang her once or twice. :D

No
No
No

My wife would be way too pissed if I married someone else, let alone one of those types of people.

suviko,

Since you responded so nicely to my comments and shamed me for not answering the questions, I feel obligated to speculate.

First of all, I am not going to say an automatic "NO" to any of them. Any relationship, whether dating or marriage, is based on mutual attraction, mutual interests, and trust.

I would have some problems with "sharing" someone I care about, but the question then becomes one of how important the relationship is to me. If the relationship is important enough to commit myself to that person, we will find a way to work it out.

The issue of STDs and the potential of problem "fans" is another level of concern. Assuming that our relationship is based on the criteria I outlined, then we can work out those issues out too.

To me the question goes beyond the moral dilemma that those professions cause. The question is whether you are willing to see the person instead of the profession. I think that I am open-minded enough to do that.

But this is all speculation. I am not likely to meet anyone who is in any of these professions and I know that my wife is not willing to share me. :)

I I loved them maybe but they would have to retire. Too risky otherwise.

Not a chance in hell. I'm very jealous and would personally injury anyone that touch my spouse or significant other in that way. I know this because I've done this.

yes.
yes.
yes.

as long as its fun.

No
No
Maybe

There's no way I could date someone knowing that they regularly have sex with other people.

lol, ditto.

Depends on the person and what I know about them. I guess the main opstacle would be the fact that I believe that most of them would be "damaged goods." Sex is an intimate thing between 2 people and the first 2 have downgraded it to a business. How could you be intimate with someone during sex when she's mentally thinking "moan now, shudder, flip over onto belly, etc.?" It'd would take the joy outta the act. The stripper doesn't have this problem literally, but I'm more of a "spirit of the law" rather than "letter of the law" (which is very odd in today's society). While she doesn't actually have sex, she is enticing it. Overall, I'm leaning towards a "no." In general, I don't believe these 3 would be good mothers/wives (the whole point of marriage to me. Marriage is NOT about having a free harlot or servant, which a lot of guys forget). However, again, it all comes down to the actual person.

Prudish me....... ;)

i dont see how any of the 3 situations above to become a possilitiy in my life.
I mean comon, what s the probably that u ll actually become friend with a striper/protetute/porn star

No
No
and she is only stripping for me right?

yes
yes
yes
to all, if I was in love with them

no, no, no.

Simple enough.

Pornstars, depends on the girl I guess. As for strippers, hell yes.

abosolutely not
I'm far to jealous a man :D

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pornstar and stripped I could handle - after all she's coming home to me regardless of how she makes money.

as for prostitute, I'd be worried sick that some psycho would hurt her or worse. Only way I could live with that is if I was there as a bodyguard, but that'd open the whole can of worms of me having to deal with seeing her fuck other guys

a) That's a big HELL NO! (reasons are obvious)
b) I wouldn't mind fucking a pornstar, but date or marry . . . NO!
c) Another no, but not nearly as big a no as the other two.

The biggest reasons for me not dating a stipper or a pornstar would be jealousy, (like some others said). I just wouldn't be able to handle it.

If we both truly loved one another, and they were no longer in their chosen "profession", then yes - possibly excluding a prostitute. Too much "unknown" for me on that one...

a) she would have to let me run a tab.
b) well... I like to watch
c) I don't think I have enough one dollar bills

No prostitutes.
No porn stars.
Have dated strippers before and it was no fun at all. Just stress. So no to that also. However, as Sixate said, I'd of course bang a pornstar or stripper, as long as they left me alone after that.

hooker, No

Pornstar, no

Stripper, maybe if shes hot or im drunk

No.

It's been way way too used.

No to the first two, most definitely. The third would be an extremely tough choice...I'd have to be so completely head-over-heels in love that it just not phase me that she is a stripper. And if not that, then I'd simply have to find a job to support both of us so she wouldn't need to do it anymore...and if she chose to continue...well...let's just say I'd have a hard time with it.

Would you date:
a) a prostitute: Hell no

b) a pornstar: No thanks

c) a stripper: No thanks

no yes yes

My old Networking/Marketing teacher had a good analogy. A family guy looks at a woman like he looks at a car. Sure the sports car would be nice to drive around town and show off, but it doesn't really fit his needs.

As to the questions, I wouldn't on any of them. I got my own private porn star.

I'd have to say no to all three.

I would Boink dem but I wouldn't marry dem

ho into housewifes and so on and so forth

NO
NO
NO

The answer after some experience with it (stripper/prostitute anyway) is no, no and no.

I have dated strippers and some were just messed up mentally. Some were in okay shape mentally, but there is just something about the way it affects their outlook on men that makes it too difficult.

I dated a prostitute twice. I actually used prostitutes while in grad school at college. I was buried in a labloratory with no real chance at a relationship for a few months due to my work load. I met one girl through a service that really didn't belong there. She was doing it for extra money but just didn't have the mentality. We liked each other, but she wouldn't date a customer (good idea). She only lasted about 2 weeks before she gave it up. We ran into each other a few weeks after that at a club, and we ended up going out a few times. There is just something about sleeping with someone for money and then trying to date them that just doesn't work, and we went our separate ways.

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I'd be the same. I'm a jealous guy. Both of us togethre with someone we've chose is OK. People being able to buy access to my partner? Not OK.

nope
nope
nope

they sell sex, it would be weird

No. If you have sex with a porn star... You fuck every other porn star, including guys.... ewww..

No
No
No

no, yes, yes for a date

no, no, yes to marry

b and c are nice if they're really sexy :D

but only for dating


I need someone w/ a real mind to marry :p

A stripper, if that.

No, no and no.

No
No
No

When i fall in love none of the 3 is important to me i quess ... if i would marry her at least the prostitute has to stop working :)

nonono
First off, I'm the jealous type. Also, I'd be too scared of STDs. My girlfriend was boggled by the fact that I'm so turned on by porn stars but I would never want to be with one.

Would you date:
a) a prostitute
b) a pornstar
c) a stripper?


a) Yes
b) Yes
C) No

Now let me qualify my answers.

I would date a pro if she was high dollar (like $1000 and up per hour) and showed a clean AIDS test. Reason being is the price tag keep away a lot of scum, and someone who is hot enought to get 1K an
hour might be worth dying to fuck anyway. ;)

I think porn stars are just pros that only do it on video...I see zero difference. Most of the industry is much more heavly regulated for disease than your average person, and a disease can spell curtains for their careers. So yes to B

I would not date a stripper because of the leeching nature of the dancing industry. Excuse my pervertedness but if you're not gonna deliver don't put a price tag on it. I think most strippers hate their jobs and their customers. I just don't like what strippers stand for in the sex industry and I wouldn't date one for that reason.

Date: Yes. Marry: Depends on if they were still in the buisness, and how I felt about them personally.

Nope
Depends on the person
Nu-uh

No way, the sex trade is just DIRTY... think about how many other people that person has probably been with and where all those people have been... little less attractive now? I think so, again, blah.

A) Nope
B) If she has had sex on film: no way, If it is just posing nude solo or witth other women I would have no problem with it. (I'm strictly monogamous(spelling?))
C) No fu**ing way, I've heard some strippers talk 'work' and that has to be among the biggest turnoffs I have ever encounterd..

No way. Perhaps a one night stand, but I would have too many jealousy issues. I am comfortable with myself and am a confident person, but something about other men groping on my GF or wife is a complete turnoff.

I'd have to say no to all three. I don't like having to think about the fact that pther guys are looking at my girlfriend. I'd go crazy.

Would you date:
a) a prostitute
b) a pornstar
c) a stripper?


Well this is my beleif and my own opinion. I would date a Pornstar and a Stripper *WITH EXCEPTIONS* these being....

- Dating Pornstar Exceptions -
Is Not Currently Still involved in Acting Or Would Quit For Me
Her Rap Sheet (Movies Acted In List) is short.
Has No illnesses or STD's
Has a Brain * Most Pornstars get their brains fucked out *
^^ i saw that on some movie off Kaaza ^^
Doesnt involve work with pleasure <---Retarded statement?

- Dating Stripper Exceptions -
Would Quit If Our Future Were To Expand Past Dating
Is Not into Prostitution while she gives lap dances
Has No illnesses or STD's
Has a name thats not her dancing name!

- Dating Prostitutes Exceptions -
None
( i wouldnt date a prostitue )


If I Would Date a Lady I Would Surely Ask Her To Marry Me When The Time Is Right

Tomala! CUBA Mi Jentes Viviran!

I would be worried if I never caught someone looking at my gf if you know what I mean. As long as they're discreet about it it's an outside appreciation of someone you're lucky enough to sleep with at night.