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Dilbert1234567 · 07-25-2004, 03:14 PM

So I have this female friend that is being set up with a guy I went to high school with, she has no idea what kind of a fucktard he is. Back in high school he managed to catch a seagull with a fishing hook, string and some bread, not on accident. the hook went through the gulls neck and I’m sure wound up dying due to it (I later saw a dead gull that had a large neck injury, not sure if it was the same one.) he basically yanked it out of the sky several times and it was pretty badly torn up before the hook tore free.

I also worked with him for a bit in a restaurant and he treated me and the other dishwashers like shit because we were 'expendable' (always more high school kids to take our place).

How do i tell her he is a fuck tard and should be taken out and shot, with out seeming like I’m out to get him.

lurkette · 07-25-2004, 03:25 PM

Just tell her - say, I used to go to high school with him and he was an asshole then, so you should go in with your eyes open.. You have no idea if he's changed since then, but at least she's forewarned and can make up her own mind about him.

la petite moi · 07-25-2004, 03:27 PM

Yeah, tell her what she's in for- just a little heads up.

maleficent · 07-25-2004, 03:30 PM

People can change - -just because he was a jackass in high school, doesn't mean he is now...

SixEdxMia · 07-25-2004, 03:38 PM

Um,Tell her what you told us.

whocarz · 07-25-2004, 03:43 PM

I'm impressed that he hooked a sea gull...

Dilbert1234567 · 07-25-2004, 03:46 PM

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Originally posted by maleficent
People can change - -just because he was a jackass in high school, doesn't mean he is now...

i worked with him not more then 8 months ago, i quit because of him.

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Originally posted by whocarz
I'm impressed that he hooked a sea gull...

it had bread on it, the hook went into the gulls throat.

07-25-2004, 03:55 PM

Then I guess you were expendable. Don't say anything, don't get involved. His true nature will shine for itself, trying to tell a women what to do is on the number one list of things not to do.

whocarz · 07-25-2004, 03:57 PM

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Originally posted by Dilbert1234567
it had bread on it, the hook went into the gulls throat.

Oh, ok haha. I was under the impression that he lasso'ed it.

maleficent · 07-25-2004, 04:07 PM

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Originally posted by NotMinus
Don't say anything, don't get involved. His true nature will shine for itself, trying to tell a women what to do is on the number one list of things not to do.

That's true enough.

If you told her, would she honestly listen and believe you?

Dilbert1234567 · 07-25-2004, 04:11 PM

i hope she will listen, ive been right befor with other guys and other women, 3 close freinds who did not listen to me 2 were batterd, one is dead.

i dont see violence in this guy, not twords people that is.

Peetster · 07-25-2004, 04:39 PM

Tell her what you want. She'll either hear you or she won't.

If she hears you, she'll either believe you or she won't.

If she believes you, she'll either act on it or she won't.

If she acts on it, it will either have an effect on how she procedes with this guy or it won't.

That's a lot of rope to push uphill. Chances are it will fail at the first gate, but you have to tell her what you have to say. Then it's up to her. So tell her, then back way off and let her decide.

paddyjoe · 07-25-2004, 06:25 PM

If this guy is as much of a dick as you say he is, it'll probably show through on one of their dates. She'll figure him out.

And if she doesn't, well hey, there's someone for everyone.

Glava · 07-25-2004, 06:52 PM

You should tell her, but be aware that she may dismiss your warnings as manifestation of jealousy.

Dilbert1234567 · 07-25-2004, 08:32 PM

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Originally posted by Glava
You should tell her, but be aware that she may dismiss your warnings as manifestation of jealousy.

that is one of my fears, that she will misinterpret me concern.

Manic_Skafe · 07-25-2004, 08:52 PM

He could be a complete and utter prick but he might just be perfect for her. There are plenty of people that'd paint me as some horrible human being but when it comes to my woman I'm one of the nicest people in the world.

With her he could be a completely different person or he might just exercise some restraint. Only time will tell if they work for each other. Putting yourself into this situation does nothing except uneccesarily complicate the relationship between you and your friend.

It's their relationship, all they have to do is be right for each other. If he's as bad as you say he is then just let time do the trick.

07-25-2004, 03:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
Dilbert1234567 Devils Cabana Boy Location: Central Coast CA	how to tell her he is a fktard (naughty language)** So I have this female friend that is being set up with a guy I went to high school with, she has no idea what kind of a fucktard he is. Back in high school he managed to catch a seagull with a fishing hook, string and some bread, not on accident. the hook went through the gulls neck and I’m sure wound up dying due to it (I later saw a dead gull that had a large neck injury, not sure if it was the same one.) he basically yanked it out of the sky several times and it was pretty badly torn up before the hook tore free. I also worked with him for a bit in a restaurant and he treated me and the other dishwashers like shit because we were 'expendable' (always more high school kids to take our place). How do i tell her he is a fuck tard and should be taken out and shot, with out seeming like I’m out to get him. __________________ Donate Blood! "Love is not finding the perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." -Sam Keen

07-25-2004, 03:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Just tell her - say, I used to go to high school with him and he was an asshole then, so you should go in with your eyes open.. You have no idea if he's changed since then, but at least she's forewarned and can make up her own mind about him. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

07-25-2004, 03:30 PM	#4 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	People can change - -just because he was a jackass in high school, doesn't mean he is now... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

07-25-2004, 03:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
SixEdxMia <3 Peetster Location: Peetster's house.	Um,Tell her what you told us. __________________ Honey,We're home.

07-25-2004, 03:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
whocarz Jarhead Location: Colorado	I'm impressed that he hooked a sea gull... __________________ If there exists anything mightier than destiny, then it is the courage to face destiny unflinchingly. -Geibel Despise not death, but welcome it, for nature wills it like all else. -Marcus Aurelius Come on, you sons of bitches! Do you want to live forever? -GySgt. Daniel J. "Dan" Daly

07-25-2004, 03:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	Yeah, tell her what she's in for- just a little heads up.

07-25-2004, 03:55 PM	#8 (permalink)
NotMinus Guest	Then I guess you were expendable. Don't say anything, don't get involved. His true nature will shine for itself, trying to tell a women what to do is on the number one list of things not to do.

07-25-2004, 04:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
Dilbert1234567 Devils Cabana Boy Location: Central Coast CA	i hope she will listen, ive been right befor with other guys and other women, 3 close freinds who did not listen to me 2 were batterd, one is dead. i dont see violence in this guy, not twords people that is. __________________ Donate Blood! "Love is not finding the perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." -Sam Keen

07-25-2004, 04:39 PM	#12 (permalink)
Peetster Right Now Location: Home	Tell her what you want. She'll either hear you or she won't. If she hears you, she'll either believe you or she won't. If she believes you, she'll either act on it or she won't. If she acts on it, it will either have an effect on how she procedes with this guy or it won't. That's a lot of rope to push uphill. Chances are it will fail at the first gate, but you have to tell her what you have to say. Then it's up to her. So tell her, then back way off and let her decide.

07-25-2004, 06:25 PM	#13 (permalink)
paddyjoe through charlatans phone Location: Northcoast	If this guy is as much of a dick as you say he is, it'll probably show through on one of their dates. She'll figure him out. And if she doesn't, well hey, there's someone for everyone.

07-25-2004, 06:52 PM	#14 (permalink)
Glava Betitled	You should tell her, but be aware that she may dismiss your warnings as manifestation of jealousy.

07-25-2004, 08:52 PM	#16 (permalink)
Manic_Skafe More Than You Expect Location: Queens	He could be a complete and utter prick but he might just be perfect for her. There are plenty of people that'd paint me as some horrible human being but when it comes to my woman I'm one of the nicest people in the world. With her he could be a completely different person or he might just exercise some restraint. Only time will tell if they work for each other. Putting yourself into this situation does nothing except uneccesarily complicate the relationship between you and your friend. It's their relationship, all they have to do is be right for each other. If he's as bad as you say he is then just let time do the trick. __________________ "Porn is a zoo of exotic animals that becomes boring upon ownership." -Nersesian