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Old 02-27-2004, 05:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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The Social Security Adminsitration as of today (2/27) is no longer accepting ANY (same sex or man/woman) marriage certificates issued in San Francisco as proof to change your name.

They say they'll accept other forms of proof that you want to change your name.....

They're saying that because it's tied up in the courts, that's the policy they have to take currently. So, essentially they're saying that all marriages in San Francisco are in limbo until a judge decides the legality....what other items can you use to prove you need your name changed? Judges orders, yes, but that's expensive.

Am I the only person that thinks this is absurd?

(and does this belong in Tilted Politics?)
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Old 02-27-2004, 05:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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What ever happened to seperation of church and state? The only roll the state should play in marriage, is changing the name legally if so desired.
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Old 02-27-2004, 05:39 PM   #3 (permalink)
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The law in California specifically forbids same sex marriages. Therefore any documents claiming that these are legally binding marriages are currently fraudulent, and it would be irresponsible of the Social Security Administration to knowingly accept fraudulent documents.
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Old 03-01-2004, 05:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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the problem is they're not just suspending the licenses of gay couples- they're suspending ALL of them. So, even hetero couples that tied the knot here in the city can't get their names changed....that's the absurd part.

While I have my own opinions about gay marriage, I'll let the courts muck about with that.
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Old 03-01-2004, 05:25 PM   #5 (permalink)
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What ever happened to seperation of church and state? The only roll the state should play in marriage, is changing the name legally if so desired.
having been married by a notary public, and not religious proctor, then if only CHURCHES make marriages, then where would I have gone?

I definitely didn't want to get married in a church and my wife who is jewish didn't want ANY kind of religious symbolism in our wedding.
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Old 03-01-2004, 06:09 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Did she change her last name to yours?
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Old 03-01-2004, 07:55 PM   #7 (permalink)
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she's opted to keep her last name for the time being, she did not realize that when she was signing the marriage certificate, it was a simple check box to get the ball rolling.

She still would have had to submit to the SSI and other groups in order to get her name changed.

If we have children she will take my name for ease of schooling since the children will carry my last name.

IMHO there has been only little issue with us having different last names, which we've navigated quite easily from hospital issues (staying with your spouse vs. girl/boyfriend not allowed) to travel related issues (different names on hotel rooms can be challenging for different arrival times)
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Old 03-01-2004, 08:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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cj2112,

the problem is they're not just suspending the licenses of gay couples- they're suspending ALL of them. So, even hetero couples that tied the knot here in the city can't get their names changed....that's the absurd part.

While I have my own opinions about gay marriage, I'll let the courts muck about with that.
Could their refusal to accept the licenses be related to the fact that they can't know for sure by the names on the licenses whether the "marriage" was hetero or not? If the issue is that they can't or won't accept a homosexual union, I can understand the reality that they just wouldn't have the manpower to investigate every application to determine the sex of the couple. Of course, if the sex of each is in the document, this has no bearing.
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Old 03-01-2004, 08:22 PM   #9 (permalink)
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cj2112,

the problem is they're not just suspending the licenses of gay couples- they're suspending ALL of them. So, even hetero couples that tied the knot here in the city can't get their names changed....that's the absurd part.

While I have my own opinions about gay marriage, I'll let the courts muck about with that.


forgive me, i must've missed that in your original post, and yes that part is absurd.
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Old 03-02-2004, 01:02 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Obviously people are forgetting the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment.
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Old 03-02-2004, 06:55 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Obviously people are forgetting the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment.
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.


I don't see how they are denying equal protection of laws.
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