What is it about 2 girls?! - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Soggybagel · 06-16-2003, 11:29 PM

Seriously...I mean as a regular guy I'm assuming most of you out there suddendly peak interest when 2 females are seeming kissing or something more. What is it about that that seems to make guys go bonkers?

Stiltzkin · 06-16-2003, 11:43 PM

Had an opinion here... but once again people have taken me the wrong way. Rather annoying.

Ashton · 06-17-2003, 12:11 AM

I don't know.... it is strange but, I suppose it's because women are so soft and warm...... for example, when you run your hand across a womens body, isn't the sensation electric? the softness seems to just soak into you and charge you with feelings you can't discribe. I imagine that's what it's like to women that are attracted to women........

All I can say for sure is that when I see two beautiful women together, the one thing I think of the most is what it must feel like to have that electric feeling times two........ that in itself is a reason to love and understand bisexual women to me.....

SecretMethod70 · 06-17-2003, 03:21 AM

I don't know, but just reading about it in this thread is enough to turn most guys on I think

Sparhawk · 06-17-2003, 04:05 AM

I find the idea of two women kissing much more erotic than the 'XXX' that frequents the Titty Board, etc. I think a lot of it has to do with the tenderness they treat each other, which you don't really see in male-female porn...

*grin*

Daval · 06-17-2003, 04:16 AM

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Originally posted by Sparhawk
I find the idea of two women kissing much more erotic than the 'XXX' that frequents the Titty Board, etc. I think a lot of it has to do with the tenderness they treat each other, which you don't really see in male-female porn...

*grin*

I tend to agree with this point.

Meridae'n · 06-17-2003, 04:19 AM

It's never been that big a deal to me. I had a chance once but knocked it back, but i think it had more to do with the asthetic value of the girls in question... and my not being drunk enough

The_Dude · 06-17-2003, 04:20 AM

we're a bunch of horny bastards, that's why.

and btw, if i was a girl, i would be bi

eyeseepeedude · 06-17-2003, 04:29 AM

the only person who 'knows' how to please a woman is another woman, so the fact that both parties are 'fully' enjoying it is a good thing as well...

JadziaDax · 06-17-2003, 04:33 AM

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Originally posted by Stiltzkin
This is my answer and I hope no one will argue over it because it is simply my retarded opinion. It seems to me that gals constantly experience sexual pleasure, mostly because the clitoris is always exposed to the surface of their panties or whatever they're wearing (or if not wearing anything, then the fresh air that their clitoris is exposed to) constantly keeps women sexually aroused.

Uhm....
No.
I think someone needs to look a little more carefully at female anatomy.

Now for something a little more reality based...
What is it about two women together, sexually? Women are softer, gentler, and certainly more erotic (in a stereotypical way) than men. It is always more pleasing to the eye (whether you are male or female) to watch two women in an embrace than two men. It's more aesthetically pleasing than any other combination (other than watching a woman by herself).

JStrider · 06-17-2003, 04:38 AM

at the cafeteria the other day my friends and i were eating and my friend drops his fork and just starts staring at something off behind me... and there were these 2 girls feeding each other... it was pretty arousing...

rogue49 · 06-17-2003, 05:51 AM

Nah, I think it's because men project themselves into the middle of the two ladies.
Just as they can project themselves into a straight porn scene.

Pretending you are in the middle of it is part of the fantasy.

lurkette · 06-17-2003, 05:52 AM

To quote Paul Reiser from Mad About You:

"I like it because it's naked, it's fun... and I agree with both of them."

bender · 06-17-2003, 08:25 AM

you've hit the nail on the head .

lafemmefatale · 06-17-2003, 08:56 AM

As a girl myself i prefer looking at girls go at it than guys...somehow the idea of jabbing anyone with a penis seems kinda violent, while enjoyable...while two girls seem to be more...playing nice with each other...and that's much easier on the eyes........

raeanna74 · 06-17-2003, 09:11 AM

Personally I find the situation with 2 woman as almost sexually relaxing. When with a man the feeling is totally different - more of a sexual tension. I think perhaps that sense comes through. Two women are just relaxed and enjoying themselves.

I'm also speculating but possibly a man may find it enjoyable because he's able to see "how" or "what" pleases a woman more. I know since hubby saw me with a woman he is more capable at pleasing me. He knows more How to touch and What to do in a gentler way that arouses more slowly but is more intense.

warrrreagl · 06-17-2003, 10:24 AM

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Originally posted by The_Dude
we're a bunch of horny bastards, that's why.

Larry Miller once said that if you ladies knew what we were thinking, you would never stop slapping us.

And two girls together is but a small fragment of what we are thinking.

Shokan · 06-17-2003, 11:09 AM

I don't understand the fascination with lesbians. They are GAY. They do not like you sexually, as a male.

I could not get turned on by someone who I know that there was no way they could be attracted to me. At least with straight porn, my logical fantasies can be obliged.

iamjero · 06-17-2003, 11:15 AM

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Originally posted by eyeseepeedude
the only person who 'knows' how to please a woman is another woman, so the fact that both parties are 'fully' enjoying it is a good thing as well...

Speak for yourself podnuh. I at least like to think I am pretty good at pleasing a lady.

viveleroi0 · 06-17-2003, 11:25 AM

I agree with spearhawk...

it's all the joys of women, with twice the amount. Plus, the chance for another women to be interested in another woman is rare for most. If my g/f was walking with me and I saw a hottie, I couldn't look, right? Well what if she said
"damn I want some of that"
Then I would be like "me too!"

Out of all my honesty, deeeeeeeep down, I think monogomy is a dumb idea. But if in our current society, otherwise is seen as bad and the world would just function right, so it must be.

warrrreagl · 06-17-2003, 12:05 PM

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Originally posted by Shokan
I don't understand the fascination with lesbians. They are GAY. They do not like you sexually, as a male.

I could not get turned on by someone who I know that there was no way they could be attracted to me. At least with straight porn, my logical fantasies can be obliged.

I'm not trying to be confrontational, but what is a logical fantasy? I think the whole concept of a fantasy is something that is likely unobtainable. Or, if you obtain it, it's not a fantasy anymore.

I'll bet most everybody here has a fantasy that would land them straight in jail if they tried to achieve it. Therefore, I don't think of something that is highly likely to happen as a fanstasy.

greytone · 06-17-2003, 12:12 PM

I was going for the Mad About You quote but was beaten to it.

Actually, there is a very practical answer. Men like to look at naked women. Two women together IS TWO NAKED WOMEN and that is better than one. I honestly don't see what is so hard to understand about this.

SiN · 06-17-2003, 12:57 PM

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Originally posted by Shokan
I don't understand the fascination with lesbians. They are GAY. They do not like you sexually, as a male.

I could not get turned on by someone who I know that there was no way they could be attracted to me. At least with straight porn, my logical fantasies can be obliged.

erm...with 'lesbian' porn, i'd say 99% of the chicks are NoT lesbians.
not very imaginative, are you?

Sticky · 06-17-2003, 01:11 PM

<b>greytone</b>, you are absolutely right.

One women good, two women better.

This rule, though, does not hold for any number larger than two.
So I think the Rule is actually

One woman good.
Two women best.
Three women better than good.
four (or more) women too hard to watch - you don't know what is what.

greytone · 06-17-2003, 04:18 PM

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Originally posted by Sticky
four (or more) women too hard to watch - you don't know what is what.

I agree. When you have that many, they are too far from the camera and it can be like trying to figure out one of JadziaDax's "Position of the Day" cartoons.

oblar · 06-17-2003, 04:53 PM

personally.. I dont care much for the whole lesbian, down and dirty thing..

it of course depends on the situation.. Sometimes I really like to watch to girls being tender and kissing each other softly... not out of exhibitionism, but in a caring manner.

a guy and a girl can pull it off too, but too many guys are way too aggressive for this to ever happen.

over 90% of the time I have seen two girls kissing in person it is for sheer exhibitionism. The girls want to make the guys horny and want them, etc, etc... Personally, I find it when they do this to be an incredible turn off.. They care more about what other people see than how they make the person they are kissing feel.

I can honestly say, whenever I have witnessed two girls kissing, my eyes usually stray to another girl in the room.

Fly · 06-17-2003, 08:59 PM

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Originally posted by Shokan
I don't understand the fascination with lesbians. They are GAY. They do not like you sexually, as a male.

who cares.....i just wanna watch.

guthmund · 06-17-2003, 10:04 PM

Like Jadzia said women are so much more pleasing to the eye than a man. They're soft in all the right places, smooth in all the rest and curved where they should be. Women just look like they were meant to be naked.

Men just look awkward naked. Because it's awkward trying to look cool and sexy with an errection.

Vincentt · 06-17-2003, 10:30 PM

I have to say its because I just want to see naked women, and two are better then one.

livingitup101 · 06-18-2003, 07:21 AM

I think it's just a case of men wanting (or in this case, interested) in what they don't have.

I heard some comedian say something like, 'If women wore hats all the time, men would just want a chance to see their head.'

WhoaitsZ · 06-18-2003, 08:25 AM

to be downright frank and honest: for me there is no form or way to arouse me quicker than two women kissing. it's beauty creating beauty. its just a turn on.

Shokan · 06-18-2003, 09:33 AM

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Originally posted by warrrreagl
I'm not trying to be confrontational, but what is a logical fantasy? I think the whole concept of a fantasy is something that is likely unobtainable. Or, if you obtain it, it's not a fantasy anymore.

I'll bet most everybody here has a fantasy that would land them straight in jail if they tried to achieve it. Therefore, I don't think of something that is highly likely to happen as a fanstasy.

What I meant by logical fantasy was frinstance, me watching straight porn, a male having great sex with a female. I can pretend that that male is myself, or put myself in his shoes, pretending that Im fucking her or whatever.

With lesbian porn, I can't think of any situation where I could place myself in the scene, other than being a voyeur, which doesn't appeal to me. I'd rather have physical contact with the person, then not. I realize porn, in a sense, is voyeurism. But its meant to do exactly what I watch it for. To fantasize about the scene being shown, and to fantasize to whatever extent you wish. I just cant place myself in a real life situation where that would give me pleasure.

ratbastid · 06-18-2003, 03:12 PM

If you check out a lot of "straight" lesbian porn--lesbian porn for the straight male audience--there's a lot of penis replacement going on. Frequently there's a sense they're waiting for a man to come along and relieve them of their sexual frustrations. Women in movies for men don't have orgasms with other women, if they ever do at all. They're clearly playing to every man's (ahem) fantasy of being with two women at once.

I can't really say how this might be different from porn made for a lesbian audience, but my hunch is that it would be different.

THE MAC GOD · 06-18-2003, 03:51 PM

well... we all like a hot woman... it trips our trigger so to speak... so when there are TWO hot women, it REALLY trips our trigger...

meepa · 06-18-2003, 04:00 PM

In the timeless words of the bubblemint gum philosophes in the end of the 20th century...

Double double your refreshment, double your, double your... fun.

Or something like that... You get the point. It rings true here most of all.

HamiC · 06-18-2003, 04:29 PM

My two cents....

There are essentially three possible human pairings.....M-F, M-M, and F-F. When I look at (view) each, there are various turn-ons and turn-offs.

>> M-F
Turn-ons: "Hey.....I could do that!"
Turn-offs: "Why aren't I doing that?" "Could I really do that?"

>> M-M
Turn-ons: "Hey.....as long as it works for you two. Go for it!"
Turn-offs: "I'm not feeling very secure. Yuck!"

>> F-F
Turn-ons: "I'd go for either one." "I'd go for both!" "Oh.....I get it....I was wondering how to do that. Cool."
Turn-offs: "I wish they would let me in."

On balance, I gotta say there is a strong argument for why certain guys like to watch F-F.

awanderingsoul · 06-19-2003, 01:14 AM

As a woman, I just have to say that I prefer watching two women to watching two men (generally spreaking, assuming all are relatively attractive). No offense guys, but women are beautiful.

myMHz · 06-19-2003, 03:30 AM

I just like to picture myself between them. That way when I fall asleep they have each other to talk to.

striderkevin · 08-05-2003, 01:37 PM

Guys are pervs, that's it.

JumpinJesus · 08-05-2003, 01:56 PM

You mean there are films where two women kiss and have sex?? When did they start doing that???

06-16-2003, 11:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
Soggybagel Psycho Location: Lovely City #1	What is it about 2 girls?! Seriously...I mean as a regular guy I'm assuming most of you out there suddendly peak interest when 2 females are seeming kissing or something more. What is it about that that seems to make guys go bonkers?

06-16-2003, 11:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
Stiltzkin Junkie	Had an opinion here... but once again people have taken me the wrong way. Rather annoying. __________________ The most important thing in this world is love. Last edited by Stiltzkin; 06-17-2003 at 06:25 PM..

06-17-2003, 03:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
SecretMethod70 Human Administrator Location: Chicago	I don't know, but just reading about it in this thread is enough to turn most guys on I think __________________ Le temps détruit tout "Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling

06-17-2003, 04:05 AM	#5 (permalink)
Sparhawk Dubya Location: VA	I find the idea of two women kissing much more erotic than the 'XXX' that frequents the Titty Board, etc. I think a lot of it has to do with the tenderness they treat each other, which you don't really see in male-female porn... grin __________________ "In Iraq, no doubt about it, it's tough. It's hard work. It's incredibly hard. It's - and it's hard work. I understand how hard it is. I get the casualty reports every day. I see on the TV screens how hard it is. But it's necessary work. We're making progress. It is hard work."

06-17-2003, 04:19 AM	#7 (permalink)
Meridae'n Loose Cunt Location: North Bondi RSL	It's never been that big a deal to me. I had a chance once but knocked it back, but i think it had more to do with the asthetic value of the girls in question... and my not being drunk enough __________________ What's easier to believe: that a guy was born without sex in the manner of several Greek demigods and grew up to be able to transmute liquids and alter his body density yet couldn't escape government execution, or that three freemasons in a vehicle made with aluminum foil in an era before digital technology escaped our atmosphere, landing on the moon, broadcasted from there, and then flew back without burning up?

06-17-2003, 12:11 AM	#3 (permalink)
Ashton PORNHOUND Location: California	I don't know.... it is strange but, I suppose it's because women are so soft and warm...... for example, when you run your hand across a womens body, isn't the sensation electric? the softness seems to just soak into you and charge you with feelings you can't discribe. I imagine that's what it's like to women that are attracted to women........ All I can say for sure is that when I see two beautiful women together, the one thing I think of the most is what it must feel like to have that electric feeling times two........ that in itself is a reason to love and understand bisexual women to me.....

06-17-2003, 04:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
The_Dude The GrandDaddy of them all! Location: Austin, TX	we're a bunch of horny bastards, that's why. and btw, if i was a girl, i would be bi __________________ "Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." - Darrel K Royal

06-17-2003, 04:29 AM	#9 (permalink)
eyeseepeedude Sir Location: Colorado Springs, CO	the only person who 'knows' how to please a woman is another woman, so the fact that both parties are 'fully' enjoying it is a good thing as well... __________________ If you like what you see, donate to the TFP

06-17-2003, 04:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	at the cafeteria the other day my friends and i were eating and my friend drops his fork and just starts staring at something off behind me... and there were these 2 girls feeding each other... it was pretty arousing... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

06-17-2003, 05:51 AM	#12 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	Nah, I think it's because men project themselves into the middle of the two ladies. Just as they can project themselves into a straight porn scene. Pretending you are in the middle of it is part of the fantasy.

06-17-2003, 05:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	To quote Paul Reiser from Mad About You: "I like it because it's naked, it's fun... and I agree with both of them." __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

06-17-2003, 08:25 AM	#14 (permalink)
bender Addict Location: around the corner	you've hit the nail on the head . Last edited by bender; 10-21-2003 at 01:52 PM..

06-17-2003, 08:56 AM	#15 (permalink)
lafemmefatale Insane Location: Vancouver	As a girl myself i prefer looking at girls go at it than guys...somehow the idea of jabbing anyone with a penis seems kinda violent, while enjoyable...while two girls seem to be more...playing nice with each other...and that's much easier on the eyes........ __________________ -poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another-

06-17-2003, 09:11 AM	#16 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Personally I find the situation with 2 woman as almost sexually relaxing. When with a man the feeling is totally different - more of a sexual tension. I think perhaps that sense comes through. Two women are just relaxed and enjoying themselves. I'm also speculating but possibly a man may find it enjoyable because he's able to see "how" or "what" pleases a woman more. I know since hubby saw me with a woman he is more capable at pleasing me. He knows more How to touch and What to do in a gentler way that arouses more slowly but is more intense. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

06-17-2003, 11:09 AM	#18 (permalink)
Shokan Addict Location: Canada	I don't understand the fascination with lesbians. They are GAY. They do not like you sexually, as a male. I could not get turned on by someone who I know that there was no way they could be attracted to me. At least with straight porn, my logical fantasies can be obliged. __________________ Legalize it.

06-17-2003, 11:25 AM	#20 (permalink)
viveleroi0 Psycho Location: Oregon	I agree with spearhawk... it's all the joys of women, with twice the amount. Plus, the chance for another women to be interested in another woman is rare for most. If my g/f was walking with me and I saw a hottie, I couldn't look, right? Well what if she said "damn I want some of that" Then I would be like "me too!" Out of all my honesty, deeeeeeeep down, I think monogomy is a dumb idea. But if in our current society, otherwise is seen as bad and the world would just function right, so it must be. __________________ "It's not that I don't understand, it's that I don't care" - Homer Simpson

06-17-2003, 12:12 PM	#22 (permalink)
greytone Junkie	I was going for the Mad About You quote but was beaten to it. Actually, there is a very practical answer. Men like to look at naked women. Two women together IS TWO NAKED WOMEN and that is better than one. I honestly don't see what is so hard to understand about this. __________________ I was there to see beautiful naked women. So was everybody else. It's a common failing. Robert A Heinlein in "They Do It With Mirrors"

06-17-2003, 01:11 PM	#24 (permalink)
Sticky	<b>greytone</b>, you are absolutely right. One women good, two women better. This rule, though, does not hold for any number larger than two. So I think the Rule is actually One woman good. Two women best. Three women better than good. four (or more) women too hard to watch - you don't know what is what. __________________ Sticky The Stickman

06-17-2003, 04:53 PM	#26 (permalink)
oblar Über-Rookie Location: No longer, D.C	personally.. I dont care much for the whole lesbian, down and dirty thing.. it of course depends on the situation.. Sometimes I really like to watch to girls being tender and kissing each other softly... not out of exhibitionism, but in a caring manner. a guy and a girl can pull it off too, but too many guys are way too aggressive for this to ever happen. over 90% of the time I have seen two girls kissing in person it is for sheer exhibitionism. The girls want to make the guys horny and want them, etc, etc... Personally, I find it when they do this to be an incredible turn off.. They care more about what other people see than how they make the person they are kissing feel. I can honestly say, whenever I have witnessed two girls kissing, my eyes usually stray to another girl in the room. __________________ "All that we can do is just survive. .All that we can do to help ourselves is stay alive." - Rush

06-17-2003, 10:04 PM	#28 (permalink)
guthmund big damn hero	Like Jadzia said women are so much more pleasing to the eye than a man. They're soft in all the right places, smooth in all the rest and curved where they should be. Women just look like they were meant to be naked. Men just look awkward naked. Because it's awkward trying to look cool and sexy with an errection. __________________ No signature. None. Seriously.

06-17-2003, 10:30 PM	#29 (permalink)
Vincentt Addict Location: Tokyo, Japan	I have to say its because I just want to see naked women, and two are better then one. __________________ .

06-18-2003, 07:21 AM	#30 (permalink)
livingitup101 Crazy	I think it's just a case of men wanting (or in this case, interested) in what they don't have. I heard some comedian say something like, 'If women wore hats all the time, men would just want a chance to see their head.'

06-18-2003, 08:25 AM	#31 (permalink)
WhoaitsZ Crazy Location: right behind you...	to be downright frank and honest: for me there is no form or way to arouse me quicker than two women kissing. it's beauty creating beauty. its just a turn on.

06-18-2003, 03:12 PM	#33 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	If you check out a lot of "straight" lesbian porn--lesbian porn for the straight male audience--there's a lot of penis replacement going on. Frequently there's a sense they're waiting for a man to come along and relieve them of their sexual frustrations. Women in movies for men don't have orgasms with other women, if they ever do at all. They're clearly playing to every man's (ahem) fantasy of being with two women at once. I can't really say how this might be different from porn made for a lesbian audience, but my hunch is that it would be different.

06-18-2003, 03:51 PM	#34 (permalink)
THE MAC GOD Insane Location: In front of my keyboard.	well... we all like a hot woman... it trips our trigger so to speak... so when there are TWO hot women, it REALLY trips our trigger... __________________ Why continue fighting? Is it for Love? Illusions. All as artificial as the Matrix itself, although only a human mind could invent something as insipid as Love.

06-18-2003, 04:00 PM	#35 (permalink)
meepa Insane	In the timeless words of the bubblemint gum philosophes in the end of the 20th century... Double double your refreshment, double your, double your... fun. Or something like that... You get the point. It rings true here most of all.

06-18-2003, 04:29 PM	#36 (permalink)
HamiC Insane Location: USA	My two cents.... There are essentially three possible human pairings.....M-F, M-M, and F-F. When I look at (view) each, there are various turn-ons and turn-offs. >> M-F Turn-ons: "Hey.....I could do that!" Turn-offs: "Why aren't I doing that?" "Could I really do that?" >> M-M Turn-ons: "Hey.....as long as it works for you two. Go for it!" Turn-offs: "I'm not feeling very secure. Yuck!" >> F-F Turn-ons: "I'd go for either one." "I'd go for both!" "Oh.....I get it....I was wondering how to do that. Cool." Turn-offs: "I wish they would let me in." On balance, I gotta say there is a strong argument for why certain guys like to watch F-F.

06-19-2003, 01:14 AM	#37 (permalink)
awanderingsoul Crazy	As a woman, I just have to say that I prefer watching two women to watching two men (generally spreaking, assuming all are relatively attractive). No offense guys, but women are beautiful.

06-19-2003, 03:30 AM	#38 (permalink)
myMHz Insane Location: Arizona	I just like to picture myself between them. That way when I fall asleep they have each other to talk to. __________________ "The radio business is a cruel and shallow money trench, a long plastic hallway where thieves and pimps run free, and good men die like dogs. There's also a negative side."

08-05-2003, 01:37 PM	#39 (permalink)
striderkevin Crazy Location: Can't tell you, then I'd have to kill you.	Guys are pervs, that's it. __________________ "A false life is equal to death. Be your true self" -Strider Hiryu

08-05-2003, 01:56 PM	#40 (permalink)
JumpinJesus Junkie Location: Chicago	You mean there are films where two women kiss and have sex?? When did they start doing that??? __________________ "I can normally tell how intelligent a man is by how stupid he thinks I am" - Cormac McCarthy, All The Pretty Horses