Phrases that need to be taken behind the barn and shot - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

FuglyStick · 07-18-2010, 12:10 PM

"drinking the Kool Aid"

I want to throttle anyone who uses this phrase. The irony is that it is commonly used by people perpetuating rhetoric, as a retort to people they accuse of embracing rhetoric.

Willravel · 07-18-2010, 01:58 PM

Along with 'drinking the kool aid', 'fanboy' should forever be left out of the public lexicon. It used to mean fanatics, people that were obsessed and defined part of who they were by something. Now it's just an insult like 'noob' thrown around by idiots. It's meaningless.

FuglyStick · 07-18-2010, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Willravel

Along with 'drinking the kool aid', 'fanboy' should forever be left out of the public lexicon. It used to mean fanatics, people that were obsessed and defined part of who they were by something. Now it's just an insult like 'noob' thrown around by idiots. It's meaningless.

I find myself using "fanboy" on occasion, but try to avoid it now, for the same reasons you mention. I haven't drummed it out completely yet, though, and slip up every now and then.

hunnychile · 07-18-2010, 02:29 PM

I think "it's all good" was dead years ago, but some continue to say it. And think they're being

Also "noob", "my bad", "serious bling", "true dat" and use of the "blue or red states."

Can we add over used/fake or just dreck-like people? i.e. Lindsey Lohan, any Kardasian and all the American Idols past & present?

....Oops almost forgot Tori Spelling, Paris Hotel nobody, Levi (the man whore!!) and Kathy Griffith.

Manic_Skafe · 07-18-2010, 02:43 PM

Every time I hear the phrase "no worries" dropped it makes me want to beat the snot out of whomever uttered it. The same goes for "for the simple fact" - if the fact is so fucking simple then why is the phrase always followed by an explanation of it?!

uncle phil · 07-18-2010, 03:07 PM

like, ya know?

preacher · 07-18-2010, 04:00 PM

Not a phrase, but "Butthurt" needs to be cleansed from the internet.

Amen

Baraka_Guru · 07-18-2010, 04:05 PM

Any phrase that uses the word impact as a verb when it doesn't have to do with physical forces.

e.g.

"How does the Internet impact you?"

"I think it greatly impacts all of us."

Ouch. I hope not.

Ourcrazymodern? · 07-18-2010, 04:50 PM

(purist!)

"So...how are the wife & kids?"

Jetée · 07-18-2010, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by roachboy

random, used as an adjective.
to wit: "he/she hooked up with some random guy."

the phrase "he or she was all like..." as a baroque substitute for "he or she said..."

lol. and all it's heartier derivatives. and emoticons. all of them.
the net-slang bot who is responsible for these should roast eternally in a specially designed quandrant of hell.

[Oxford's Top 10 Most Irritating Phrases - TFP Thread]

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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru

Oh, I thought of another one: "impacts."

It's irritating when people use it as a synonym to "affect/effect."

i.e. "It will be interesting to see how it impacts the children...."

Those poor children....

They never saw it coming. Now look at them...they've been crushed to death.

So the lesson is: "impact" when used as something other than literally "striking with force" should be used carefully.

"The program had an impact on the children."
"The impact of the program is evident on the children."

NOT

"The program impacted the children deeply."
"The program is impacting the children on a large scale."
"We will see how the program impacts the children."

Please... I beg of you.

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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru

Any phrase that uses the word impact as a verb when it doesn't have to do with physical forces.

e.g.

"How does the Internet impact you?"

"I think it greatly impacts all of us."

Ouch. I hope not.

Just thought to bring about the complete circle of how much Baraka_Guru hates it when you tell him how something of literal dealings, has "impacted" your life, in the non-literal fashion. Come to remind myself of it, (and along the same means as B_G previously stating almost no-one uses the word 'ironically' in the right context anymore) I'll state that I'll be more likely than not to just excuse myself from any conversation immediately thereafter hearing the off-handed utterance (and usually wrong) of 'literally'. This word's meaning has become so bastardized from so much common overuse that no one, in any normal conditions, can use it, and not be made to look as a fool. That is, though, if anyone, anymore, nowadays, were to care, as well as know inherently, that this word should just vanish for a decades' time, be brought back via its literal definition in the almanac/dictionary/encyclopedias of records, and then I won't have to be the only person in the recognized world seen as crazy for trying to convince all others, in that the way you use literally in your day-to-day phrasings of the mundane, is rarely ever used correctly, and it shifts to the opposite scale of the meaning.

LordEden · 07-18-2010, 06:16 PM

The use of "Kosher" in any way that isn't related to food.

"She found the documents, so everything is kosher."

FelixP · 07-18-2010, 06:22 PM

hella.

Willravel · 07-18-2010, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by FelixP

hella.

I'd stay away from Northern California for say another 5 years. We're almost done with it.

Wordcobbler · 07-18-2010, 06:34 PM

I would go for phrases like "you make your own reality" or "your reality isn't my reality". Isn't it always the same one with a trillion different interpretations?

Ratman · 07-18-2010, 06:41 PM

Actually, I despise the word "actually" at the beginning of a sentence. And the fucking use of "fuck" and its fucking derivatives instead of the fucking word that actually fucking conveys the fucking meaning of what the fuck fucking people fucking really want to fucking say. Fuck me, and fuck that!

dlish · 07-18-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by LordEden

The use of "Kosher" in any way that isn't related to food.

"She found the documents, so everything is kosher."

you could always replace it with 'halal' if you like

manic - 'no worries' is extremely popular in australian culture. i suggest you dont come down under if that phrase irks you!

filtherton · 07-18-2010, 07:28 PM

The phrase "thrown under the bus" ought to be thrown under the bus. That and "that's what she said," because what she really said is "I will not let you have intercourse with me until you demonstrate the sense of humor of someone older than junior high school."

dlish · 07-18-2010, 07:30 PM

"i have a headache"

no man wants to hear those dreaded words..EVER

Plan9 · 07-18-2010, 07:38 PM

"Very truly I tell you" is used far too many times in the Bible.

LordEden · 07-18-2010, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by dlish

you could always replace it with 'halal' if you like

Like a "Halal-back girl"?

*rimshot*

Plan9 · 07-18-2010, 07:41 PM

I can't stand people that repeatedly say "gnarly." What is this? 1991?

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Originally Posted by dlish

"i have a headache"

no man wants to hear those dreaded words..EVER

Hey, it's better than "don't worry, we're just friends." And I fell for that one.

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This thread is straight dope retarded though, yo. How are we supposed to communicate without hot-hot fad slang? Turn into our boy Host?

Martian · 07-18-2010, 08:10 PM

Maybe it's not completely in-line with the spirit of the thread, but I want to bitch anyway:

I am constantly seeing people type 'defiantly' when they mean 'definitely.' The jury's out on whether this really irks me or not. If I'm in a suboptimal mood it might annoy me to see such language decay, but when I'm more mirthful it amuses me to picture whatever activity is described in the thread/post/email/blog as taking on a distinctly rebellious tone.

"I defiantly ate something that didn't agree with me."

"I will defiantly be there."

And so forth.

Quotes not attributed to protect the grammatically challenged.

FelixP · 07-18-2010, 09:31 PM

I hate it when people say "You're so lucky" when referring to a concious choice, like "you're so lucky you don't smoke." or "you're so lucky you're not fat." No, bullshit, luck has nothing to do with it. I choose not to smoke, and I choose to exercise.

Xerxys · 07-18-2010, 10:01 PM

^^ I feel the same way about "thank god" ... WTF? What does your god have to do with this?

levite · 07-18-2010, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by LordEden

The use of "Kosher" in any way that isn't related to food.

"She found the documents, so everything is kosher."

OMG, so much....

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Originally Posted by Willravel

I'd stay away from Northern California for say another 5 years. We're almost done with it.

No way. It's hella on the move. I say it and I live in LA....

Craven Morehead · 07-19-2010, 06:32 AM

back in the day - what fucking day?

24/7 - overused

snowy · 07-19-2010, 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by dlish

"i have a headache"

no man wants to hear those dreaded words..EVER

In my house, "I have a headache" are magic words. Orgasm cures headaches, y'know.

Plan9 · 07-19-2010, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by LordEden

Like a "Halal-back girl"?

*rimshot*

You're a frickin' comedian. That's my boy!

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Originally Posted by snowy

In my house, "I have a headache" are magic words. Orgasm cures headaches, y'know.

Great. Now tell all your female friends so they stop it with the opposite, 'kay? I have yet to cure an Excedrin moment with a righteous crotch pommeling.

FuglyStick · 07-19-2010, 10:41 AM

I'm getting a jump on this one early--"refudiate" is not a word. Except in the Tea Party Dictionary. Then everything goes, as long as Sarah said it.

BadNick · 07-19-2010, 11:08 AM

"crash and burn"

I hate that phrase...maybe because of a personal annoying memory, but I hate it anyway and it should be banned for everybody since I hate it!

FoolThemAll · 07-19-2010, 12:07 PM

Huh? No "It is what it is" yet?

Slackers.

snowy · 07-19-2010, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Plan9

Great. Now tell all your female friends so they stop it with the opposite, 'kay? I have yet to cure an Excedrin moment with a righteous crotch pommeling.

FWIW, the human sexuality instructor at my university hammers the orgasm-cures-headaches point home in her course, which over 600 people take every term. I can only hope it starts spreading from there.

Leto · 07-19-2010, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Willravel

Along with 'drinking the kool aid', 'fanboy' should forever be left out of the public lexicon. It used to mean fanatics, people that were obsessed and defined part of who they were by something. Now it's just an insult like 'noob' thrown around by idiots. It's meaningless.

Not sure what the use of fanboy can be. Maybe like instead of saying " he is a real fanatic" about something, you can say "he's a fanboy" about it? Maybe it connotes a more trivial fanaticism?

"drink the koolaide, on the other hand, I really like. Can't hear enough of it. At the end of the day it illustrates nicely how businesses often get taken in by the highly priced consulting firms and their methodologies. Something I deal with daily.

A word that litterally drives my mad when dealing with said consultants though, is the new (ish) trend that has been to take a perfectly decent verb and convert it into a noun. For example, during a project management meeting I am now hearing the phrase:

"The Ask is for blah blah blah..."

Instead of using the word request people are now taking the work ask and changing it into a noun. Now it is the ask.

Keep your ears open, you will hear it and cringe.

FuglyStick · 07-19-2010, 12:35 PM

I'm going to disagree, Leto. "Drinking the Kool Aid" has become a knee-jerk response to anything and anyone that does not jive with the user's point of view. It's easy, empty, unfounded and lazy, a means of disregarding an opposing position out-of-hand without addressing that position. It's a tool of the ignorant and uninformed, and says more about the user's unsustainable position than those it is directed at.

ring · 07-19-2010, 12:47 PM

The ability to adapt to change is paramount to survival.
If we all keep on fussing about life's little fluxes,

We're all going to to live fast die young and go to hell in a hand-basket,
if we don't lighten up.

Lindy · 07-19-2010, 12:53 PM

No problem.
Basically.
It is what it is.

Lindy

Plan9 · 07-19-2010, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by FoolThemAll

Huh? No "It is what it is" yet? Slackers.

Hahaha... c'mon, now... this one never gets old.

ring · 07-19-2010, 01:04 PM

None of these phrases will get your undies in a bundle, if you live and let live.

Punk.of.Ages · 07-19-2010, 01:16 PM

Once again, the TFP is bringing my own douche baggery to light...

I use almost all of these phrases that annoy you folks often in my day to day life.

Including "hella'"...

...but that one even annoys me every time it comes out of my mouth.

yournamehere · 07-19-2010, 01:21 PM

"At the end of the day . . . "
Is that the only time you actually think about anything?

And I hate the use of "random" as an adjective for half the nouns in the English language.

07-18-2010, 12:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
FuglyStick WHEEEE! Whee! Whee! WHEEEE! Location: Southern Illinois	Phrases that need to be taken behind the barn and shot "drinking the Kool Aid" I want to throttle anyone who uses this phrase. The irony is that it is commonly used by people perpetuating rhetoric, as a retort to people they accuse of embracing rhetoric. __________________ AZIZ! LIGHT!

07-18-2010, 02:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	I think "it's all good" was dead years ago, but some continue to say it. And think they're being Also "noob", "my bad", "serious bling", "true dat" and use of the "blue or red states." Can we add over used/fake or just dreck-like people? i.e. Lindsey Lohan, any Kardasian and all the American Idols past & present? ....Oops almost forgot Tori Spelling, Paris Hotel nobody, Levi (the man whore!!) and Kathy Griffith. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB Last edited by hunnychile; 07-18-2010 at 02:32 PM..

07-18-2010, 02:43 PM	#5 (permalink)
Manic_Skafe More Than You Expect Location: Queens	Every time I hear the phrase "no worries" dropped it makes me want to beat the snot out of whomever uttered it. The same goes for "for the simple fact" - if the fact is so fucking simple then why is the phrase always followed by an explanation of it?! __________________ "Porn is a zoo of exotic animals that becomes boring upon ownership." -Nersesian

07-18-2010, 03:07 PM	#6 (permalink)
uncle phil comfortably numb... Super Moderator Location: upstate	like, ya know? __________________ "We were wrong, terribly wrong. (We) should not have tried to fight a guerrilla war with conventional military tactics against a foe willing to absorb enormous casualties...in a country lacking the fundamental political stability necessary to conduct effective military and pacification operations. It could not be done and it was not done." - Robert S. McNamara ----------------------------------------- "We will take our napalm and flame throwers out of the land that scarcely knows the use of matches... We will leave you your small joys and smaller troubles." - Eugene McCarthy in "Vietnam Message" ----------------------------------------- never wrestle with a pig. you both get dirty; the pig likes it.

07-18-2010, 04:05 PM	#8 (permalink)
Baraka_Guru warrior bodhisattva Super Moderator Location: East-central Canada	Any phrase that uses the word impact as a verb when it doesn't have to do with physical forces. e.g. "How does the Internet impact you?" "I think it greatly impacts all of us." Ouch. I hope not. __________________ Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing? —Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön Humankind cannot bear very much reality. —From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot

07-18-2010, 01:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	Along with 'drinking the kool aid', 'fanboy' should forever be left out of the public lexicon. It used to mean fanatics, people that were obsessed and defined part of who they were by something. Now it's just an insult like 'noob' thrown around by idiots. It's meaningless.

07-18-2010, 04:00 PM	#7 (permalink)
preacher Banned Location: I am atom	Not a phrase, but "Butthurt" needs to be cleansed from the internet. Amen

07-18-2010, 04:50 PM	#9 (permalink)
Ourcrazymodern? still, wondering. Location: South Minneapolis, somewhere near the gorgeous gorge	(purist!) "So...how are the wife & kids?" __________________ BE JUST AND FEAR NOT

07-18-2010, 06:22 PM	#12 (permalink)
FelixP Insane Location: I'm up they see me I'm down.	hella. __________________ Free will lies not in the ability to craft your own fate, but in not knowing what your fate is. --Me "I have just returned from visting the Marines at the front, and there is not a finer fighting organization in the world." --Douglas MacArthur

07-18-2010, 06:34 PM	#14 (permalink)
Wordcobbler Upright	I would go for phrases like "you make your own reality" or "your reality isn't my reality". Isn't it always the same one with a trillion different interpretations?

07-18-2010, 06:41 PM	#15 (permalink)
Ratman Addict Location: Somewhere... Across the sea...	Actually, I despise the word "actually" at the beginning of a sentence. And the fucking use of "fuck" and its fucking derivatives instead of the fucking word that actually fucking conveys the fucking meaning of what the fuck fucking people fucking really want to fucking say. Fuck me, and fuck that! __________________ The difference between theory and reality is that in theory there is no difference. "God made man, but he used the monkey to do it." DEVO

07-18-2010, 07:28 PM	#17 (permalink)
filtherton Junkie Location: In the land of ice and snow.	The phrase "thrown under the bus" ought to be thrown under the bus. That and "that's what she said," because what she really said is "I will not let you have intercourse with me until you demonstrate the sense of humor of someone older than junior high school."

07-18-2010, 07:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
dlish Currently sour but formerly Dlishs Super Moderator Location: Australia/UAE	"i have a headache" no man wants to hear those dreaded words..EVER __________________ An injustice anywhere, is an injustice everywhere I always sign my facebook comments with ()()===========(}. Does that make me gay? - Filthy

07-18-2010, 07:38 PM	#19 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	"Very truly I tell you" is used far too many times in the Bible. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."

07-18-2010, 08:10 PM	#22 (permalink)
Martian Young Crumudgeon Location: Canada	Maybe it's not completely in-line with the spirit of the thread, but I want to bitch anyway: I am constantly seeing people type 'defiantly' when they mean 'definitely.' The jury's out on whether this really irks me or not. If I'm in a suboptimal mood it might annoy me to see such language decay, but when I'm more mirthful it amuses me to picture whatever activity is described in the thread/post/email/blog as taking on a distinctly rebellious tone. "I defiantly ate something that didn't agree with me." "I will defiantly be there." And so forth. Quotes not attributed to protect the grammatically challenged. __________________ I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said - Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

07-18-2010, 09:31 PM	#23 (permalink)
FelixP Insane Location: I'm up they see me I'm down.	I hate it when people say "You're so lucky" when referring to a concious choice, like "you're so lucky you don't smoke." or "you're so lucky you're not fat." No, bullshit, luck has nothing to do with it. I choose not to smoke, and I choose to exercise. __________________ Free will lies not in the ability to craft your own fate, but in not knowing what your fate is. --Me "I have just returned from visting the Marines at the front, and there is not a finer fighting organization in the world." --Douglas MacArthur

07-18-2010, 10:01 PM	#24 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	^^ I feel the same way about "thank god" ... WTF? What does your god have to do with this?

07-19-2010, 06:32 AM	#26 (permalink)
Craven Morehead Custom User Title	back in the day - what fucking day? 24/7 - overused

07-19-2010, 10:41 AM	#29 (permalink)
FuglyStick WHEEEE! Whee! Whee! WHEEEE! Location: Southern Illinois	I'm getting a jump on this one early--"refudiate" is not a word. Except in the Tea Party Dictionary. Then everything goes, as long as Sarah said it. __________________ AZIZ! LIGHT!

07-19-2010, 11:08 AM	#30 (permalink)
BadNick Riding the Ocean Spray Location: S.E. PA in U Sofa	"crash and burn" I hate that phrase...maybe because of a personal annoying memory, but I hate it anyway and it should be banned for everybody since I hate it!

07-19-2010, 12:07 PM	#31 (permalink)
FoolThemAll Walking is Still Honest Location: Seattle, WA	Huh? No "It is what it is" yet? Slackers. __________________ I wonder if we're stuck in Rome.

07-19-2010, 12:35 PM	#34 (permalink)
FuglyStick WHEEEE! Whee! Whee! WHEEEE! Location: Southern Illinois	I'm going to disagree, Leto. "Drinking the Kool Aid" has become a knee-jerk response to anything and anyone that does not jive with the user's point of view. It's easy, empty, unfounded and lazy, a means of disregarding an opposing position out-of-hand without addressing that position. It's a tool of the ignorant and uninformed, and says more about the user's unsustainable position than those it is directed at. __________________ AZIZ! LIGHT!

07-19-2010, 12:47 PM	#35 (permalink)
ring ░ Location: ❤	The ability to adapt to change is paramount to survival. If we all keep on fussing about life's little fluxes, We're all going to to live fast die young and go to hell in a hand-basket, if we don't lighten up.

07-19-2010, 12:53 PM	#36 (permalink)
Lindy Junkie	No problem. Basically. It is what it is. Lindy

07-19-2010, 01:04 PM	#38 (permalink)
ring ░ Location: ❤	None of these phrases will get your undies in a bundle, if you live and let live.

07-19-2010, 01:16 PM	#39 (permalink)
Punk.of.Ages Forming Location: ....a state of pure inebriation.	Once again, the TFP is bringing my own douche baggery to light... I use almost all of these phrases that annoy you folks often in my day to day life. Including "hella'"... ...but that one even annoys me every time it comes out of my mouth. __________________ "The fact is that censorship always defeats its own purpose, for it creates, in the end, the kind of society that is incapable of exercising real discretion..." - Henry Steel Commager "Punk rock music is great music played by really bad, drunk musicians." -Fat Mike

07-19-2010, 01:21 PM	#40 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	"At the end of the day . . . " Is that the only time you actually think about anything? And I hate the use of "random" as an adjective for half the nouns in the English language. __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.