05-15-2008, 11:58 AM | #41 (permalink) |
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It's funny how a black chick in a skimpy dress can lead to a race riot!
When it comes down to it, it's very likely this girl didn't get her way, made a scene, and was escorted away. My guess is this story was made into news in order to do exactly what it has done here.... Success for someone I guess.
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05-15-2008, 12:02 PM | #42 (permalink) | |
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I don't understand why we're not allowed to learn from our experiences when it comes to race. That's how your brain works. You take in inputs from what happens to or around you and you generalize it so that you can more quickly and easily adapt to similar situations in the future. While certainly not reflective of the entire planet, I can count the number of violent, loud fights I've seen in public amongst all non-black people on one hand and I couldn't begin to count the number of fights I've seen in public amongst black people.
I know EXACTLY what RG is saying about this situation and I know EXACTLY why he's saying it. That doesn't make either one of us racist. All learning requires some generalization, and this generalization given the facts before us is well within reason and not KKK-inspired craziness. Edit: Ustwo said what I meant to say much more succinctly. Go him. Quote:
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05-15-2008, 12:20 PM | #43 (permalink) | |
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RetroGunslinger said "And knowing how black teenage girls tend to react to those types of situations, I'm guessing she didn't take it sitting down." You read..."black girls are obnoxious" Why? Because you got the exact same Springeresque image that the rest of us did. Of a loud unruly black teen, hand on hip, head bobbing, finger waving, going "oh no you ditnt". Ever seen that? I have. Many times. from an overwhelmingly black source. Oh sure...you see the occasional white girl doing it. But then you just think...she's acting all black. That is where stereotypes come from. You wanna fight 'em great. But ignoring them is tantamount to burying your head in the sand. It's there, and it's there for a reason.
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05-15-2008, 12:27 PM | #45 (permalink) |
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[EDIT - Beat me to it, Punk]
I did write "black girls are obnoxious" somewhere.
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05-15-2008, 12:37 PM | #46 (permalink) |
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Mea cuulpa.
But, my point still stands. Where did the view that "black girls are obnoxious" (be that some, most or all) come from? Observed behavior and conditioning. Yet, we're told to ignore that. We're wrong. What we see...is not so. The fault must belong to ourselves for seeing what we see. And to acknowledge it? Absolutely reprehensible.
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05-15-2008, 01:36 PM | #50 (permalink) | |
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BoR, and other who seem to think that I'm calling for blindness/ignoring the girl's "race," I'll quote myself from earlier in case you didn't see it:
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To me, that's not an issue of political correctness, but I already know that's going to fall on several deaf ears. So be it. These conversations never go anywhere, anyway. (Although Retro, I do appreciate the candor in your follow-up responses.)
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05-15-2008, 01:41 PM | #52 (permalink) | |
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Btw, reading this thread again... and Will, since you responded to my earlier question with this:
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05-15-2008, 03:23 PM | #57 (permalink) |
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A very odd but interesting tangent seems to have taken place. First, I guess I’ll respond to the opening post. To which there isn’t much to say; like clockwork almost every year a story like this makes headlines. Though this is the first that I can remember where the girl was handcuffed, but in any case it doesn’t seem to me to be such a big deal(but maybe the girl feels otherwise).
Now to the more interesting tangent. It is odd that race should make it’s way here, not in the fact that the subject is only superficially related to the case, but in the way which it arose. An offhand comment is commented on, then the first comment is expounded on(poorly in my, and apparently in other people’s opinion), then it’s defended by people who seem to be trying to make an almost totally different point, or perhaps it is that some people saw the glimmer of an internal argument they had been fermenting in their brains and projected it onto this case. The argument as it was made in post #20(and apparently worded incorrectly) seemed from my point of view to summarize to this: From my experience(of some black girls) the majority of (all)black girls are (let’s put it nicely) illogical in tense interpersonal situations. Since this wasn’t what was meant I’ll take it as an honest mistake and leave it at that. The second argument that seemed to spring independently in my view summarizes to this, and since I think I’m paraphrasing couple of people you’ll have to forgive the liberties I take in generalizing it further than anyone actually posted: Given the assumption that viable trends of behavior can be helpful in predicting future behavior. When this trend is observed impartially it can be thought of as generally correct in the absence of other contradicting facts insofar as it does not deprive anyone of any legal rights. In developing the above I’ve sort of grown tired of the point I was trying to make so I’ll just cut to it without much elaboration. The first sentence as worded might as well be a tautology(unfortunately I think I might have learned to much math to be able to spuriously write it as fact),. In any case I included it for posterity and perhaps because it self-servingly makes my point clearer. In itself there appears nothing wrong, logically, with what is in italics above(of course feel free to interject and point out if you think I’ve wrongly worded the argument). However, as I see it, the motivation behind such a line of thinking is best suited for multimillion dollar corporations that deal with consumer trends(or our cave-man ancestors, an evolutionary account as to why this type of thinking might be beneficiary is in my view sophomoric; since I’ve noticed that when one goes down this line of thinking it generally becomes a penchant for wild speculation, and I only skirt the issue in the form of an over-elaborated quip here) and in itself is contrary to the ideals of our laws. Whose spirit(though perhaps not necessarily in practice) do not allow for such overarching judgment. So to me it seems that such a view is practically unnecessary for an individual in this day and age and flies in the face of the politically developed moral fiber of our state. |
05-15-2008, 03:42 PM | #59 (permalink) |
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all ya gotta do is look at her...
did she violate a dress code? criminy...
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05-15-2008, 04:21 PM | #60 (permalink) |
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Just as we have in the sexuality forum for shaving and penis size - we totally need a sticky thread for culture and race issues. It's nice to see all the activity but this is getting a little tedious.
And as for the hoochie dress, I can't help but to wonder not only what her parents thought of it but how she ever convinced them to pay for it. The cuffs were a bit too much but she totally could've worn them as an accessory.
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05-15-2008, 06:02 PM | #61 (permalink) | |
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05-15-2008, 06:35 PM | #62 (permalink) |
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Nice dress. If she were my daughter I would beat her for trying to even wear that out of the house.
I think its funny that she signed a waiver stated what can be worn and then showed up in that. Just goes to show you that you can get people to sign anything you want them too. Makes you feel good knowing something so stupid as a signature holds so much power (in the case of credit, and contracts and such) |
05-15-2008, 08:24 PM | #63 (permalink) | |
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05-16-2008, 02:26 PM | #65 (permalink) |
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the land of the free?
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You aren't free to walk about the streets with your dick swinging about... You aren't allow to fuck on the sidewalk... You can't wear what you want in some jobs... so how is "Land of the Free" relevant?
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05-16-2008, 03:18 PM | #68 (permalink) |
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a school kid shouldnt be lead away from a prom in handcuffs cos she turned up in a revealing dress.
I havent seen any evidence that she indecently exposed herself... but even if she DID, even if she committed some other crime of sufficient seriousness to warrant arrest - handcuffs? What kind of police force needs to handcuff a schoolgirl cos she is wearing a sexy dress and gets pissed off that she isnt allowed into her prom? The police involved are lucky that they only suffer mockery... they should be horsewhipped
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05-16-2008, 03:21 PM | #69 (permalink) | |
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05-16-2008, 03:34 PM | #70 (permalink) |
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well, I hope arresting schoolgirls at a school dance makes them feel like big men...
As you say school crime must be a big priority... I guess there are no drug pushers, property crimes, murders, sexual assaults, bank frauds, etc so the police have plenty of time to arrest kids who get angry about not getting ino a dance.
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your statements are so disjointed that I don't understand what you are saying. If the principal was a woman would she be a "big woman"? If anything has taught us anything, teens are volatile and can be problematic. A troubled teen in Iceland recently posted on his blog that he wanted to shoot his schoolmates. A Finnish teen shot 8 classmates before turning the gun on himself. The Scottish boy in Dunblane who shot 16 kids and 1 adult. I don't have to remind you about Columbine where the kids shot up the school not because they couldn't go to a dance, but because they didn't have friends. But hey, you keep making it look like the police have nothing to worry about...
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05-16-2008, 03:50 PM | #72 (permalink) |
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The cuff issue is likely policy. If they felt they had to removed her not using the cuffs wasn't an option I'd guess. The story and the video don't really explain why they felt they had to remove her. My guess is if she left on her own they would have let her, the paper work involved in something like this simply isn't usually worth it.
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I forget what % of the population blacks are to other races in the us, something around 11-15% I think. So when you read a story about 'girl wears something inappropriate and gets led out in cuffs' there should be a only around a 15% chance or less of that girl being black, yet there were so many of us were thinking it. Likewise I can understand why I wouldn't associate bad behavior with someone who 'looks like me' on racial terms, but then I should be more aware of obnoxious asian women or indian, and yet, I am not. If someone says 'serial killer' and thinks 'white male' should I be offended or feel its a racist thing to do? To be fair there have been serial killers of other races, but if I read about a creepy, bodies in the crawl space, doing it for years serial killer, I'm going to be shocked if its NOT a white male doing it.
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Maybe these opinions we form when we see things like this are the closest things we have to instinct. I think we base our feelings on the matter on past experiences, but to a degree it is easier or safer than assuming that everyone is like us. Sometimes we are wrong or our opinions or feelings are not on par with another's. Political correctness and the belief that we should be one big, warm and fuzzy group of people hypersensitive to other's above ourselves make some want to forget we are still emotional creatures.
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There are serious issues to be addressed concerning raising our young, and this thread gets bogged down with race As for the rest of this crapolla... Cynthetiq's signature says it best. I wouldn't take the situation to the place tha blahblah454 suggests, (Originally Posted by blahblah454: "Nice dress. If she were my daughter I would beat her for trying to even wear that out of the house.") but then, I'm rather confident that my daughter wouldn't make that kind of choice. The school authorities were absolutely right in denying her entrance. The dress code was clearly stated. If the girl had simply left the scene civilly, the police would have never been involved. As for those who question the police's handling of the situation: Their job, as I see it, was to defuse things before they got out of hand. If, in their estimation, the young lady was irritated to the point that she may have physically resisted being removed from the scene, then they were correct in using the cuffs as a precautionary restraint, as much to protect her as anyone else.
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