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dirttrackcutie · 12-18-2003, 08:06 AM

im so confused. Last night i took a pregnancy test and it came out possitive. I dont know how to tell my parents at all. i need help!

Averett · 12-18-2003, 08:34 AM

Well, first go to a doctor to take another test to be sure.

Minx · 12-18-2003, 09:24 AM

Good advice Averett. While the home tests are very very accurate it still is always best to have one done by a doctor. Then you will also get the information you will need as far as your (and the babies) health, information on vitamins and eating properly, etc.

As far as telling your parents. Of course it is a nerve-wracking experience but they are your parents. They love you and will want to help you and support you through this. This will not change because of the news you are giving them. (unless, of course, due to religious beliefs, age or other circumstances we aren't away of in your particular situation) All you can do is take a deep breath and spill! After all....they have been through it before!
Best of luck.

sillygirl · 12-18-2003, 12:43 PM

Wow. This was me a few weeks ago, wasn't it? Feel free to PM me hon if you wanna talk....

txlovely · 12-18-2003, 12:51 PM

I concur with Averett and Minx. Take a deep breath, and if you're not comfortable going to your family doctor, go to your local Planned Parenthood and let them help you through this. I don't know how old you are or your circumstances, but no matter what, don't panic and don't get ahead of yourself. Get some confirmation and then go to your parents and tell them as calmly as you can. They love you and want the best for you no matter what I'm sure.

12-18-2003, 08:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
dirttrackcutie Banned Location: Milledgeville,IL	pregnant...help im so confused. Last night i took a pregnancy test and it came out possitive. I dont know how to tell my parents at all. i need help! Last edited by dirttrackcutie; 12-18-2003 at 08:13 AM..

12-18-2003, 08:34 AM	#2 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Well, first go to a doctor to take another test to be sure. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

12-18-2003, 09:24 AM	#3 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	Good advice Averett. While the home tests are very very accurate it still is always best to have one done by a doctor. Then you will also get the information you will need as far as your (and the babies) health, information on vitamins and eating properly, etc. As far as telling your parents. Of course it is a nerve-wracking experience but they are your parents. They love you and will want to help you and support you through this. This will not change because of the news you are giving them. (unless, of course, due to religious beliefs, age or other circumstances we aren't away of in your particular situation) All you can do is take a deep breath and spill! After all....they have been through it before! Best of luck. __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

12-18-2003, 12:43 PM	#4 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	Wow. This was me a few weeks ago, wasn't it? Feel free to PM me hon if you wanna talk.... __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

12-18-2003, 12:51 PM	#5 (permalink)
txlovely Insane Location: ...We have a problem.	I concur with Averett and Minx. Take a deep breath, and if you're not comfortable going to your family doctor, go to your local Planned Parenthood and let them help you through this. I don't know how old you are or your circumstances, but no matter what, don't panic and don't get ahead of yourself. Get some confirmation and then go to your parents and tell them as calmly as you can. They love you and want the best for you no matter what I'm sure. __________________ Cruel words erode self-esteem like the ocean eats away the shore.