World's King

Here it gose, cats and kittens.

I went on a very nice date with a very nice female a few nights ago.

Now, everything was going to plan and dinner was great… about $100 down and I’m feeling good about myself. I refuse to valet my car so we had to walk a few blocks back to the car… it was pouring rain like the end of the world was just a few minutes away. She loves the rain. I get this crazy romantic, “chick flick” idea to spin her around and kiss her, for the first time, in the middle of the street… in the pouring rain. She pulls back and says… “NO.”

I take it in stride and keep on walking to the car. When we get the car I turn and ask why I couldn’t kiss her. She looks at me with a straight face and says, “I don’t kiss on the first date.” My reaction was… “What the fuck? Is this 1953?”

We get back to her place and she gives me some dry clothes to wear while mine dry. We lay down on the couch arm in arm for about two hours talking and laughing… very nice and cozy. When my clothes were dry at about 2am we decided to take her dog for a walk in the park down the street. When we got back her X-boyfriend was sitting on the front porch to her apartment drunk as the day is long… and has the balls to front me. It was quickly difused. I went inside and let them talk… I was trying to be a gentleman. When she came back inside we talked for a little while and I she decided it was time for bed and that I should go home… but it started raining again and because I ride a scooter she took me home. I’m a little pissed about the X thing so I’m being kind of quiet on the ride home. We get to my house and I say that after putting up with all that shit I deserved a kiss now… she still fells differently.

So the next day I catch a ride to her house to get the scooter… it starts raining again. We stay in and watch movies in each other’s arm all day long… AND STILL NO FUCKING KISSING. After the last movies ends and the rain has stopped she crawls up on my lap with her ass nicely planted on my crotch and starts rubbing back and forth... kissing my neck. She leans in and kisses me. She has very nicely shaped lips… very kissable.

Now my question is, after all that pointless story… Anyone else run into the “No kissing on the first date” thing? I mean fucking on the first date shouldn’t happen but after wearing a pair of her Adidas running pants and having my hand half way in her pants, shouldn’t I be allowed to kiss the girl? Or am I just a whore?

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phredgreen

i think you're a juicy slice of man-whore, but that's besides the point.

some people have different comfort levels, and yes, some people still have archaic rules they set for themselves as far as dating goes. i learned this back in high school when i was dating mormon girls. now i'm sure this bird may be a far cry from such innocent young things (not really, you just need the right stimuli and they forget all about it, but anyways...), but it seems like you two have gotten past this point, so there isn't much else to worry about. maybe her mother made her cross her heart and promise that she'd never do so, maybe she thinks kissing is something special and should be held off until you know for sure the connections' there, maybe she just had a massive cold sore hidden under makeup and didn't wanna give it to you. whatever her reasons, i'm sure they are valid in her own mind. and as long as you smile and nod, in keeping with her silly notions, all will be fine.

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sadistikdreams

Poor Worlds King. Some people's standards are really ridiculous.

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tikki

If she is worth the wait, deal with it. Doesn't seem like its that big of a deal really. I'd be happy knowing that she doesnt swap spit with every single guy she takes out.

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mrquackers

Important part of this story is you did get one. If she's uncomfortable with it, it just makes you anticipate it more.

Sounds like it definitely worked out for the best.

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Averett

Some people are just uncomfortable with things like this on first dates. Course, it's a bit strange that she let your hand down her pants and no kiss... And to refuse a kiss in the rain like that....

Okay, who are these girls who get dates like this, and ruin a perfectly good "movie" romance moment? I would have totally kissed you.

/bitter rant.... sniff.

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ratbastid

Oh, man, you got <i>played</i>.

She knew exactly what you wanted and strung you along just long enough to test your mettle before giving up the goods. When you showed up and stayed the second time, you sealed the deal. It was a test, you passed, you got the prize. Game over, play again! Fun!

World's King

This is just the first in what will be a long line of threads about this girl. She's hot as hell but has some weird things about her that I'm gonna need some outside help with. Problems with her parents and other things that can screw up a relationship. Damn women.

Thanks for listening.

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james t kirk

So i guess sex on the first date is out then eh?

Averett

Unless she's Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman"

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Exodus

I would have to agree with this one. If she's worth it as a person, then dont sweat it.

dannoxxxx

yeah...its a funny thing. She sleeps with you the first time out and you can feel great. but then after you wonder if she does this with everyone. Then if she doesnt show to much affection you wonder why. But then when it does happen and you realize it is because she doesnt just fuck everybody she meets.....that is an even better feeling. I think.

hobo

I would wait if I really liked the girl. It is better to wait than to push her away by pressuring her.

NotMinus

If it was me, when she went to kiss me on my lap, I would have pushed her off and said no and then took the initative later to kiss he. Its a power thing in a situation like this, if she didn't have this control feeling she would have just gone with it natuarly when you first attempted. I guess I don't feel that anyone that feels the need to play games and control the situation is worth stick around with.

World's King

You know the "Power" thing came mind right from the start... it's what happens when you have two very strong-headed people together.

But.

After talking to her more and finding out more of her past I understand the no kissing. It's like y'all have said. We like each other and don't want to fuck it all to hell by jumping the gun.

Good things come to those who wait... I hate waiting. But I don't have a choice if I wanna to this right... from the start.

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hu-man

It's a bit strange to have hands down your pants, but not to kiss, but some people just have silly little rules. Don't worry until they tell you 'no spanking with utensils until the 7th date' or 'no ritual slaughtering of chickens until you meet my parents' - if one of those comes, back away slowly.