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redrover · 07-01-2003, 07:21 PM

one night this week, (my g/f who i have been dating for a while now) and i agreed to get out of town for the night and get a hotel......i want to do something romantic like candles and a dinner.....can anyone throw in any suggestions?

thanks

clockworkgreen · 07-01-2003, 08:01 PM

I know this has been covered before....

I think you've got the right idea already...

stickyrice · 07-01-2003, 11:29 PM

You can try the classic "set up the room in advance with roses" thing.

tfin · 07-01-2003, 11:47 PM

I can one-up you on that. Set up the room all pimp like, candles roses and such. Go and get her a sexy outfit that she would like. Get the whole 9 yards, dress, sexy langere, shoes, everything, leave no detail spared. Lay everything out in the bed. Now leave a path of rose pettals from the door to the bed. Leave a not to get dressed and come to the lounge. The does require staying at a fairly decent hotel that has a nice lounge. Blindfold her so she has absolutly no clue where you are going. Take her to the door. Open the door for her and tell her when the door closes she can take off the blind fold and look down (to the afore mentioned note).

I did this. She liked it. I have a ton of other ones that I did. I had seven years of experience in doing htat kind of stuff.

dci · 07-02-2003, 01:02 AM

lucky gal

that sounds like a ton of effort..good for you.

Slims · 07-02-2003, 01:16 AM

Make her bring really nice clothes. Go to the hotel, change into a suit and tie, and then take her out to a nice dinner and a play (like Les Mis) and then go back to the hotel for....champagne and strawberries.

Just make sure that it doesn't 'feel' like you are going to the hotel to fuck, even if you both know that's part of the plan.

human · 07-02-2003, 05:44 AM

Greg700 has two critically important points. One, as ZZ says, every girl is crazy for a sharped dressed man. If you don't have a good suit, rent a tux for the evening. The second, is on a night like this, it usually isn't about fucking. This kind of a night, it's gotta be something out of one of those pulp romance novels. The high points you are looking forward to should be the dinner, the play, dragging the rose over her, etc.

You know her, so use every bit of that knowledge, if she has a favourite flower, make sure some of them are on the bedside table. Or brought up if you order room service for breakfast. Her favourite romantic music? Burn a custom cd and bring a small stereo and put it in the room so all you have to do is press play. (bonus points if you can get it to turn on when you enter the room and thus don't have to take your eyes/concentration off her at all)

The devil's in the details, each thing that is seen to be specifically customized for her and her alone makes it that much better. And yes, it is a lot of work, but it definatly pays off.

07-01-2003, 07:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
redrover Upright	suggestions for a romantic evening one night this week, (my g/f who i have been dating for a while now) and i agreed to get out of town for the night and get a hotel......i want to do something romantic like candles and a dinner.....can anyone throw in any suggestions? thanks

07-01-2003, 11:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
stickyrice Crazy	You can try the classic "set up the room in advance with roses" thing. __________________ Can't think of anything to say....

07-01-2003, 11:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
tfin Insane Location: At the Casino	I can one-up you on that. Set up the room all pimp like, candles roses and such. Go and get her a sexy outfit that she would like. Get the whole 9 yards, dress, sexy langere, shoes, everything, leave no detail spared. Lay everything out in the bed. Now leave a path of rose pettals from the door to the bed. Leave a not to get dressed and come to the lounge. The does require staying at a fairly decent hotel that has a nice lounge. Blindfold her so she has absolutly no clue where you are going. Take her to the door. Open the door for her and tell her when the door closes she can take off the blind fold and look down (to the afore mentioned note). I did this. She liked it. I have a ton of other ones that I did. I had seven years of experience in doing htat kind of stuff. __________________ Did I mention that I can't spell or type? Oh yeah, check out my car www.cardomain.com/member_pages/view_page.pl?page_id=275916

07-02-2003, 01:16 AM	#6 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Make her bring really nice clothes. Go to the hotel, change into a suit and tie, and then take her out to a nice dinner and a play (like Les Mis) and then go back to the hotel for....champagne and strawberries. Just make sure that it doesn't 'feel' like you are going to the hotel to fuck, even if you both know that's part of the plan. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

07-01-2003, 08:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
clockworkgreen Psycho Location: DC	I know this has been covered before.... I think you've got the right idea already...

07-02-2003, 01:02 AM	#5 (permalink)
dci Upright	lucky gal that sounds like a ton of effort..good for you.

07-02-2003, 05:44 AM	#7 (permalink)
human Tilted Location: Ottawa, ON, Canada	Greg700 has two critically important points. One, as ZZ says, every girl is crazy for a sharped dressed man. If you don't have a good suit, rent a tux for the evening. The second, is on a night like this, it usually isn't about fucking. This kind of a night, it's gotta be something out of one of those pulp romance novels. The high points you are looking forward to should be the dinner, the play, dragging the rose over her, etc. You know her, so use every bit of that knowledge, if she has a favourite flower, make sure some of them are on the bedside table. Or brought up if you order room service for breakfast. Her favourite romantic music? Burn a custom cd and bring a small stereo and put it in the room so all you have to do is press play. (bonus points if you can get it to turn on when you enter the room and thus don't have to take your eyes/concentration off her at all) The devil's in the details, each thing that is seen to be specifically customized for her and her alone makes it that much better. And yes, it is a lot of work, but it definatly pays off.