Jesus Pimp

Why is it that when your friends get girlfriends they no longer have time to hang out with you anymore? It really bothers me. WTF is going on? I have a girlfriend myself but I don't consider myself whipped in the slightest whenever. I'm pretty open to hanging out and doing stuff with my friends. Unfortunately they don't seem to have very much time. Sure we'll get together every blue moon, but it feels like it's not worth being friends with them anymore yet you've been friends with them all your life. Their girlfriends are nice and all but inside I have this resentment towards them. Am I being selfish? Do I have a right to feel this way? What do you think?

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NeverBorn

It happens. Then when they get dumped or otherwise, they pretend like it never happened, or they feel all fucking stupid about it

Memalvada

Are you being selfish? Yup, probably
Do you have a right to feel that way? I think so. It is far worse to lose a friend than to lose a GF, and not many people realise this.

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Ogre840

my friend is not just whipped, he' whooped. I try to be friends with his g/f, but somthing just never clicks, and she trips out on me.

The other day she commanded me to get out of her car while we were on the highway. Pulled over and everything. I didnt. so she turns to my friend, Ryan, and was like "What do YOU have to say about this?!" Well me and my friend ryan have had a talk about him being whipped, so he's trying not to be so much, so he kept his mouth shut, and we went on our merry way.

basically all you can really do is yell at your friends and hope they realize that your right (being whipped before is a great way to be able to say "ive been there" and they seem to listen more.)

and now we are trying to plan a guys night out next weekend, and hopefully hit up the strip club, unless his g/f gets her claws sharpened this week... next time she tries back sassin me, im going off, that should also help :-D

Halx

If he's a friend who can take it.. tease the hell out of him He'll come to his senses in time. Friends dont let friends get pussy whipped.

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JStrider

my friend dan is really pussy whipped... and she doesnt put out... and she wont even go out with him...she just uses people to get what she wants and he sits there and is like shes so great.... i wanna slice her head off with my sword...and put it on stakes outside of the dorm...

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Cursive

yeah ill admit it i used to be whipped like jesus. What me and my friends do is we have a guys night every thursday, No ladies allowed no exceptions. I also try to get my girlfriend to be very comfortable around my friends this way we can all be friends and have fun together.

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rs8001

I've had the same experience. I feel for you. There were plenty of times when it would have been fun to have them around. I can understand how someone might want to spend time with a nice soft female instead of me though. Luckily for me, I get along with almost all of my friends girlfriends and wives so when things became more of a package deal it was still okay.

Get used to it. These same friends are going to start getting married etc.

frozenstellar

Know how it feels mate, i feel for ya.

a close female friend (lesbian) cant be broken away from her girlfriend. because she's 19 and a finished highschool last year, i just about never see her cuz im still at highschool. it sucks dude, but unfortunately if they're so blind toward their friends, there's nothing you can do.

Shadowman

I know how ya feel Jesus Pimp. My BEST mate went out with a girl for almost 2 years, I must have properly gone out with him twice in that whole time, and even then he elft early both times. One day he gets dumped, all of a sudden im the bees knees, and he wants to go out every night. Sorry mate, you had two years to come to your senses and realise your mates are for life, and women come and go (Unless its your wife, and even then...). I told him I'll do something when Im good and ready, he got the message.

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gibber71

Girlfriends come and go.Friends are forever.

Magpie0001

I have no friends, problem solved.

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juanvaldes

You see the trick of it is to Whip them.

cheerios

/me fwaps juanvaldes...

Frowning Budah

Its going to happen. Hopefully everybody involved can negotiate new relationship boundries.
Man that sounded like a load of shit.

cdwonderful

it sounds like, huh? But if you think about it, it is the best way to go. Just keep shoveling that line in the hopes that something beautiful will grow. It will have to be something new, cause your old relationship is gone with the broad.

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Kllr Wolf

I could understand if they had jsut started to date and stuff (a month or so) but if it went on longer than that I would start giving them a world of shit and if that didnt work just not bother to try to plan anything with them.

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Conclamo Ludus

SEE: Whipping Post - by The Allman Brothers Band,

and you'll think he doesn't have it so bad. Being whipped is sometimes part of the whole chase, if it doesn't pass after a while in a relationship, then you've got some problems.

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merkerguitars

I have a friend that is whipped pretty bad.....it's funny he never hangs around me or my friends and every once in awhile he'll call me or stop by to ask me to do something for him. And I just ignore him. Why should i do favors for friends that don't hang out with me and say they aren't whipped?

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Jizzosh

One of my best friends from highschool is soo whipped she got him to marry her. ...Now my friend is what women refer to as "wow". He's ripped like Jesus, has a bass voice, and looks like Vin Diesel... She however, is fat, fubugly, lazy, and a total f*cking bitch, to everyone.

All of us guys who are friends with this guy have bent over f*cking backwards to try and be nice to her, and she goes and gets their telephone number changed every few months, to prevent us from being able to talk to him. She tells him what to do, what to wear, what to think, where to work, how to spend his money, what time to be home, etc.

Best parts of the story... he was in a band with his best friend (one had a superman tattoo, the other, batman), pretty kick ass for a local gig too. She f*cked that up. broke up the band, their friendship, and caused one of the other band members to almost get a divorce.

Next part... Just a few months ago, a mutual friend got married, and he was the best man. Best men plan the bachelor party. His wife said no strip clubs. WTF?? No strip clubs for a bachelor party?? The guy getting married had never been, and he was getting married for the rest of his life! That's not all, it gets better. We all meet up and hang out for a bit, then go to a local bar and begin the process of getting sh*tfaced. His wife shows up at like 10:30 and it's time for him to go. This is Las Vegas mind you, and she shows up at 10 f*cking 30!!! No stripclub, and she makes him leave his (other) best friend's bachelor party early. (We took care of the bachelor, so no worries about him missing out

Last part... Wedding day for our mutual friend. His wife ends up going (she wasn't wanted there, obviously), and on the happiest day of our mutual friend's wedding (the bride was also a really great long time friend), his wife can only sit there and f*cking scowl maliciously at everyone, including the bride, groom, bride's family, etc. WTMF?? I mean, she f*cking glared at the bride and her father during the father-daughter dance...

Incredible...

There is hope though, because any self-respecting human being can't endure that mistreatment forever, and our friend has said that if things don't change, he'll be through with her.

The most important thing for all of you, (us) is to be there for them and prove:
And don't confuse whipped with committed. My boy is whipped, most of us can be committed without losing ourselves.

Good Luck

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geep

You guys ain't seen nothin' yet! Wait til one of your buddies has kids! A true friend is there no matter what.

denim

I had a good friend once who married a total cunt. I dealt with that for, what, 4 or 5 years? Eventually, she had him so whipped that I just couldn't take it any more, and disassociated from them, after explaining it to him.

They eventually got divorced. While I've looked around for him, I can't find him. Found her. Recently, as in, w/in the last couple of months: she's still a manipulative cunt, which was no particular surprise.

There are limits to all things, unfortunately. I could only stand seeing my friend being abused for so long.

Conclamo Ludus

A roommate of mine has it great. Hot-ass girlfriend, and whipped as hell for him. She stops by and drops of booze, cigarettes, and fast food all the time. Not just for him, for all of his roommates too. She's a waitress at our favorite bar so we go storming in there, drink a trough of whiskey, and she charges us for two drinks a piece. She's obviously terribly unsure about herself, but we're all reaping the benefits, and YES we have tried to get her to stop, because it has gotten ridiculous. I guess it proves its possible for a gal to be whipped just as bad. She's got it worse than any guy I know. Its almost creepy.

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mystmarimatt

Yeah, a friend being whipped is a nasty position, my brother is whipped and his girlfriend is basically satan, everyone sees it, even my folks, but no one says anthing. You try to tell them, and most guys will get defensive, the only idea, as sneaky as it is (could be construed as being manipulative), is get him on a vulnerable night, if they just had a fight, talk to him and try to show him her shittiness as a person, or if you can get him away from her for a weekend, calmly get him to talk about ANYTHING she does that bugs him, and build from that. it may be malicious and conniving, but if you love your buddy, it'll be worth it.

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