Yeah, a friend being whipped is a nasty position, my brother is whipped and his girlfriend is basically satan, everyone sees it, even my folks, but no one says anthing. You try to tell them, and most guys will get defensive, the only idea, as sneaky as it is (could be construed as being manipulative), is get him on a vulnerable night, if they just had a fight, talk to him and try to show him her shittiness as a person, or if you can get him away from her for a weekend, calmly get him to talk about ANYTHING she does that bugs him, and build from that. it may be malicious and conniving, but if you love your buddy, it'll be worth it.
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Words of Wisdom:
If you could really get to know someone and know that they weren't lying to you, then you would know the world was real. Because you could agree on things, you could compare notes. That must be why people get married or make Art. So they'll be able to really know something and not go insane.
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