02-20-2006, 02:11 PM | #1 (permalink) | |
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Repulsive "Wifely Expectations" pact
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Here is another source for the story from NBC http://www.nbc4.tv/family/6812175/detail.html http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...contract1.html Here is the link to the contract this horrific man made his wife live by and the contract below. http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...contract1.html ------------------------------------------------------------ I don't know what to say... except that i'm truly sickened. The emotional abuse and other abuses that this woman suffered i cannot imagine. sweetpea
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02-20-2006, 02:28 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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I shouldnt make light of this....I really really shouldnt, because I know that this must have been awful for a woman that wasnt willingly living a "submissive" lifestyle. It makes me sick to read it knowing that this wasnt a "consentual" thing.
but....I think I will rewrite this and make it effective for Dave hehehehe
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02-20-2006, 02:35 PM | #3 (permalink) |
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Is this for real?
The good news: His owner in prison was provided the same documentation, and the general population was informed of his child-porn charges... This shows what happens when sickos run loose over the vulnerable.
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02-20-2006, 02:43 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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I love the fonts for the headers.
So the guy was nuts, BFD, at least he didn't kill anyone. I'm far less shocked and horrified by this than a guy who kills his wife.
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02-20-2006, 02:45 PM | #5 (permalink) |
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I saw this on TSG. I should have popped some popcorn, this was truly entertainment. This guy is a mega sicko. The "GBD" was like "DKP" in Molten Core runs in World of Warcraft. I couldn't believe it.
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02-20-2006, 02:45 PM | #6 (permalink) | |
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I would have laughed and thrown it in his face, then walked out on my 3" heels into the real light of day. That's sick.
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02-20-2006, 02:45 PM | #7 (permalink) | |
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I was not asking you to compare this to killing his wife... sweetpea
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02-20-2006, 02:47 PM | #8 (permalink) | |
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Shani... that's funny. I have no problem with people who are willingly in such situations sweetpea
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02-20-2006, 02:51 PM | #9 (permalink) |
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It's so awful that it's hard to take seriously. I can't tell you what I would have seriously considered doing to this man, lest you be forced to testify against me.
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02-20-2006, 02:51 PM | #10 (permalink) | |
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Perv's sicko pact
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they were married for 9 years.. and had 2 children... at what point did the contact come into play?
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02-20-2006, 03:02 PM | #12 (permalink) |
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Obviously there's no boilerplate for this kind of thing, so Mr. Frey obviously spent a lot of time and energy writing this. It's actually a much better document than what I originally expected, from a legal standpoint. There aren't any obvious errors beyond the fact that no sane person should ever expect it to be honored like a legal contract.
I wonder if he'll be the bitch for the Aryan Brotherhood or Latin Kings in the joint.... Either way, I'm hoping that he'll think fondly of the paragraph about lubrication when he's sentenced to pound-him-in-the-ass prison. Good luck, Mr. Frey.
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02-20-2006, 03:04 PM | #13 (permalink) | |
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However, in domestic violence situations, and i am openly making the assumption that this marriage was a clear cut DV situation, as it falls into that criteria... where the self-esteem of the abused individual, (in this case his wife) becomes so distored, they feel they are so worthless, they often fear leaving the relationship. Depression often accompanies these types of situation, so those might have been reasons she stayed for the duration of the 9 years? sweetpea
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02-20-2006, 03:05 PM | #14 (permalink) | |
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sweetpea
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02-20-2006, 03:10 PM | #16 (permalink) |
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I would feel sorry for this woman and I do in a way, but she stayed and put up with it. There is always a way out. Maybe she had no family and/or friends to help her. Maybe she is a glutton for punishment. I don't know but that contract seems like too much of a hassle. That guy has major insecurities and a skewed vision of relationships. Now myself, I shave everyday, I own heels, and I sleep naked. Most of the things come naturally in a relationship without forcing it through a contract.
I'm with Fredweena on this one except I would put out a cigarette on his contract too as I stepped on it with my heels and walked out in my thigh highs and mini skirt. Although that's easier said than done when you are tangled up in an abusive relationship. This is why you should *really* get to know the person before committing.
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02-20-2006, 03:14 PM | #17 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 03:14 PM | #18 (permalink) |
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This guy should have his sentence given to him by the judge in a similar format.
I seriously hope the wife gets some counseling. While she didn't sign the contract, the fact that she put up with a man this fucked up shows she has some serious issues of her own to sort out.
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02-20-2006, 03:17 PM | #19 (permalink) |
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Are you certain this is for real? I can't seem to find it anywhere else that doesn't have a link back to The Smoking Gun.
I know there are some nuts out there like this. What I can't believe is that the woman stuck with him for any time at all. Though I know some do/would. I am REALLY hoping that they never had any kids. That's why I went searching, to see if I could learn more about the situation. I cannot imagine the trauma of living with a father like this. I hope the wife gets 100% of the property at least AND most of all I hope that she finds a guy who has a lot more respect for women. Shani - your situation does not result from a lack of respect but from an abundance of it, I believe. This guy was the opposite of anyone in your kind of relationship.
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02-20-2006, 03:26 PM | #20 (permalink) |
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Funny how it's sick just because you don't understand it. In a D/s relationship, many of the above would be pretty common.
He wanted a submissive... his mistake, which was very wrong was applying his ideals to a person who didn't agree. (and no, i wouldn't treat a woman like that- just being informative.) |
02-20-2006, 03:29 PM | #21 (permalink) | |
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Sometimes I wonder what can go on in people's heads when they are in situations like this...........both his head and her head.
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02-20-2006, 03:38 PM | #22 (permalink) | |
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The difference between a dom and a fucked up man like this is the whole consentual thing. Ergo, this man is fucked up.
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02-20-2006, 03:41 PM | #24 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 04:02 PM | #25 (permalink) |
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I'm surprised there was nothing about weight in there. I've heard of people getting pre-nups with weight restrictions, sex acts, and some other interesting things.
I found a few of those requests ok, most were a little dominate and weird though. I'm sure a lot of women would have a problem if the man they married was a doctor but decided teaching high school was better. They would have to change their lifestyle and when she tells people what he does for a living, it doesn't sound as good. That brings up the question: Are we expected to change to fit who our partners ideal mate would be? Or should they love you even if you stopped bathing for weeks, started yelling and nagging, and didn't want to have sex? Most people would break up with someone if their personality changed, I would think. |
02-20-2006, 04:17 PM | #26 (permalink) |
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I'm very curious about the husband's family background. How was he raised? What was his Parent's marriage like? Does have any siblings?
Also, what on earth were the circumstances of their courtship? Alas, questions that we won't have answered.
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02-20-2006, 04:36 PM | #27 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 04:53 PM | #29 (permalink) |
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LOL
That is the funniest/scariest thing I have ever read. It boggles the mind that there are people out there who actually think of something like that. That dude is a serious wackjob. Sounds like something one of those psycho freakshow Mormons would do. Some of them are really out there.
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02-20-2006, 06:29 PM | #30 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 06:44 PM | #31 (permalink) |
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I can't really imagine getting a better relationship out of a contract like that. Prenups are bad enough for relationships.
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02-20-2006, 07:21 PM | #33 (permalink) |
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/me looks around for Rod Serling, 'cause if he isn't in that guy's world he must be in mine.
I'm hoping it's a hoax but if it isn't, wow.
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02-20-2006, 08:04 PM | #34 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 08:16 PM | #35 (permalink) | |
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http://www.ketv.com/video/index.html Hoax? I don't think so.
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02-20-2006, 08:25 PM | #36 (permalink) | |
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02-20-2006, 08:43 PM | #37 (permalink) | |
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The contract had me laughing out loud initially but now I can't help but wonder at the guy's backstory. Upbringing, occupation, falls onto head, you name it.
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02-20-2006, 11:40 PM | #39 (permalink) | |
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excuse me, not a fake ... this guy is in jail right now. Here is another source for the story from NBC http://www.nbc4.tv/family/6812175/detail.html just google his name... there are many stories on this. sweetpea
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