Repulsive "Wifely Expectations" pact
 

HERE IS A NEW LINKY FROM NBC news on this story for those who think this is fake
Here is another source for the story from NBC

http://www.nbc4.tv/family/6812175/detail.html


http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...contract1.html

Here is the link to the contract this horrific man made his wife live by and the contract below.
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive...contract1.html

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I don't know what to say... except that i'm truly sickened.
The emotional abuse and other abuses that this woman suffered i cannot imagine. :(

sweetpea

I shouldnt make light of this....I really really shouldnt, because I know that this must have been awful for a woman that wasnt willingly living a "submissive" lifestyle. It makes me sick to read it knowing that this wasnt a "consentual" thing.

but....I think I will rewrite this and make it effective for Dave hehehehe

Is this for real?

The good news: His owner in prison was provided the same documentation, and the general population was informed of his child-porn charges...

This shows what happens when sickos run loose over the vulnerable.

I love the fonts for the headers.

So the guy was nuts, BFD, at least he didn't kill anyone. I'm far less shocked and horrified by this than a guy who kills his wife.

I saw this on TSG. I should have popped some popcorn, this was truly entertainment. This guy is a mega sicko. The "GBD" was like "DKP" in Molten Core runs in World of Warcraft. I couldn't believe it.

I would have laughed and thrown it in his face, then walked out on my 3" heels into the real light of day. That's sick.

well duh ;) granted, of course it's worse to have killed someone. But that does not take away from how awful this situation was.

I was not asking you to compare this to killing his wife...

sweetpea

Shani... that's funny. I have no problem with people who are willingly in such situations ;)

sweetpea

It's so awful that it's hard to take seriously. I can't tell you what I would have seriously considered doing to this man, lest you be forced to testify against me. :)

Perv's sicko pact

they were married for 9 years.. and had 2 children... at what point did the contact come into play?

It take 2 to Tango and all.

I'm guessing my wife would be OK with the first paragraph. After that it's hard to tell if she'd be laughing at me or leaving me, probably both.

Obviously there's no boilerplate for this kind of thing, so Mr. Frey obviously spent a lot of time and energy writing this. It's actually a much better document than what I originally expected, from a legal standpoint. There aren't any obvious errors beyond the fact that no sane person should ever expect it to be honored like a legal contract.

I wonder if he'll be the bitch for the Aryan Brotherhood or Latin Kings in the joint.... Either way, I'm hoping that he'll think fondly of the paragraph about lubrication when he's sentenced to pound-him-in-the-ass prison. Good luck, Mr. Frey.

Well, i see where you are coming from with that logic...

However, in domestic violence situations, and i am openly making the assumption that this marriage was a clear cut DV situation, as it falls into that criteria... where the self-esteem of the abused individual, (in this case his wife) becomes so distored, they feel they are so worthless, they often fear leaving the relationship.
Depression often accompanies these types of situation, so those might have been reasons she stayed for the duration of the 9 years?

sweetpea

Good question Mal, that information was not given. :confused:

sweetpea

It says she "never signed" the contract. I'm guessing she never had to participate in it. That's good.

I would feel sorry for this woman and I do in a way, but she stayed and put up with it. There is always a way out. Maybe she had no family and/or friends to help her. Maybe she is a glutton for punishment. I don't know but that contract seems like too much of a hassle. That guy has major insecurities and a skewed vision of relationships. Now myself, I shave everyday, I own heels, and I sleep naked. Most of the things come naturally in a relationship without forcing it through a contract.

I'm with Fredweena on this one except I would put out a cigarette on his contract too as I stepped on it with my heels and walked out in my thigh highs and mini skirt. :p

Although that's easier said than done when you are tangled up in an abusive relationship. This is why you should *really* get to know the person before committing.

^^ So true.

sweetpea

This guy should have his sentence given to him by the judge in a similar format.

I seriously hope the wife gets some counseling. While she didn't sign the contract, the fact that she put up with a man this fucked up shows she has some serious issues of her own to sort out.

Are you certain this is for real? I can't seem to find it anywhere else that doesn't have a link back to The Smoking Gun.

I know there are some nuts out there like this. What I can't believe is that the woman stuck with him for any time at all. Though I know some do/would.

I am REALLY hoping that they never had any kids. That's why I went searching, to see if I could learn more about the situation. I cannot imagine the trauma of living with a father like this. I hope the wife gets 100% of the property at least AND most of all I hope that she finds a guy who has a lot more respect for women.

Shani - your situation does not result from a lack of respect but from an abundance of it, I believe. This guy was the opposite of anyone in your kind of relationship.

Funny how it's sick just because you don't understand it. In a D/s relationship, many of the above would be pretty common.

He wanted a submissive... his mistake, which was very wrong was applying his ideals to a person who didn't agree.

(and no, i wouldn't treat a woman like that- just being informative.)

Here is another link about it. http://www.nbc4.tv/family/6812175/detail.html

Sometimes I wonder what can go on in people's heads when they are in situations like this...........both his head and her head. :o

Well, yeah. But most dom/sub relationships are consentual. What makes this man fucked up is he sought to dominate regardless of the wants of the the sub. Also, this needs to be placed in context. The man allegedly was involved in child pornography and kidnapped his own wife. Coupled with the contract he sought, this makes for a fucked up man.

The difference between a dom and a fucked up man like this is the whole consentual thing. Ergo, this man is fucked up.

An organized wacko, isn't that an oxymoron? I smell hoax.

Sadly, there are two daughters... and this problem seemed to come to a head when the mother had the audacity to take the girls to church... Oh the horror...

I'm surprised there was nothing about weight in there. I've heard of people getting pre-nups with weight restrictions, sex acts, and some other interesting things.

I found a few of those requests ok, most were a little dominate and weird though.

I'm sure a lot of women would have a problem if the man they married was a doctor but decided teaching high school was better. They would have to change their lifestyle and when she tells people what he does for a living, it doesn't sound as good.

That brings up the question: Are we expected to change to fit who our partners ideal mate would be? Or should they love you even if you stopped bathing for weeks, started yelling and nagging, and didn't want to have sex?

Most people would break up with someone if their personality changed, I would think.

I'm very curious about the husband's family background. How was he raised? What was his Parent's marriage like? Does have any siblings?

Also, what on earth were the circumstances of their courtship?

Alas, questions that we won't have answered.

heeheehee...

thats pretty screwy...


would make a great april fools joke for someone tho

LOL

That is the funniest/scariest thing I have ever read. It boggles the mind that there are people out there who actually think of something like that. That dude is a serious wackjob.

Sounds like something one of those psycho freakshow Mormons would do. Some of them are really out there.

Oh that is the worst part of this. Now, unless they manage to imprison this guy, the mother will have to deal with him, fight him for custody, or fear him kidnapping her daughters. I cannot imagine the fear in the girls and mother's hearts if this guy is truely released on bail. He's nuts and unpredicable. What makes it seem worse is that he doesn't beleive he did anything wrong.

I can't really imagine getting a better relationship out of a contract like that. Prenups are bad enough for relationships.

Fake!

Supposing it is legit, did anyone else notice the amount of obvious grammatical errors? There is absolutely no way that I would be pushed around by such a dumb fuck.

/me looks around for Rod Serling, 'cause if he isn't in that guy's world he must be in mine.

I'm hoping it's a hoax but if it isn't, wow.

I'll take a guess. His Dad is a controlling perfectionist. He's the type of Dad that wants his son to win every sporting event and gets violent with the ref/other Dads at the game. His Dad has what seems to be a perfect marriage to his wife, who does everything he wants. The son was probably psychologically if not physically abused. Other siblings don't matter too much, unless they are bragging about being in a great relationship, and he has to compete with them.

I have no idea about the dating process, but I bet she was attracted to him, and it's probably like every other abusive relationship out there.

Here's a video of Frey going to court on Friday (click the Most Popular tab and then look for the Man Accused of Kidnapping Wife video).

http://www.ketv.com/video/index.html

Hoax? I don't think so.

nope. Not fake, unfortunately. I know the photographer who worked the story. Met him at a seminar years ago. I didn't believe it either so I called him up and he confirmed.

Thanks for the link. Wow.

The contract had me laughing out loud initially but now I can't help but wonder at the guy's backstory. Upbringing, occupation, falls onto head, you name it.

I'd just have to say I'm speechless!!!

ummm...
excuse me, not a fake ... this guy is in jail right now.

Here is another source for the story from NBC

http://www.nbc4.tv/family/6812175/detail.html

just google his name... there are many stories on this.

sweetpea

Sad, just sad. I mean, it sounds great if you wanna be a sub. But damn, poor woman.