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mixedmedia · 02-08-2008, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Based on his later postings I think he was talking about tasting his own semen, which is close enough to snowballing to me.

That is what I was referring to and in response to your post, even if you didn't obviously intend it that way in retrospect. I think a male who WANTS to taste his own semen is just a little bit gay or at least open to that sort of thing. Note this is completely different than not minding it as part of sex.

Still I'm more of a closed mouth kiss guy after that, I guess that makes me a prude or sexually immature which I'm ok with, as I can barely handle my sex life as it is

Well, I wasn't approaching it that way at all. Nor did the OP frame it in that way.

Not that I think there is anything necessarily gay about a guy wanting to taste his own semen unless he also showed an interest in having sex with another man.

World's King · 02-08-2008, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

Even if you did... why would it matter? I mean really, WHO CARES?

That's what I'm saying...

It doesn't matter.

Jenna · 02-08-2008, 12:26 PM

I don't care. I kiss my boy after he's gone down on me, and I'll give him a blowjob if we've had sex without "washing" the area beforehand. I don't mind my own taste.

He doesn't mind kissing me if I've given him a blowjob, but only if he hasn't ejaculated. He's not so fond of it after that point.

Tully Mars · 02-08-2008, 12:41 PM

I don't have an issue with it. Any lady kind enough to indulge me and wants a kiss afterward is alright in my book.

Honestly reading some of the replies here I get the feeling there's guys out there who's first thought after blowing his load is "Where's that damn remote and what times dinner."

Kaimi · 02-08-2008, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Tophat665

Only reason Mrs. Hat doesn't get kissed afterwards is if I'm going to be immediately applying myself to herself in other locations, and even then, if she's swallowed, then I'm cool with it. I already have two more kids than I want.

Damn. I must've caught teh Ghey somewhere.

Actually, for such things that might borderline be considered homosexual - snowballing, strap-ons - one must remember two things: 1) Tasting one's own semen is autosexual, not homosexual. It's not queer - it's narcissistic. 2) In order for one to be a male homosexual, one must desire sex with A Man - not a woman - meaning getting ones semen in ones mouth by way of a woman one desires pretty much puts the kibosh on being homosexual.

That said, while I don't know if I would have put it that way, I have to side with Seaver on this. Just because he would prefer not to be applying his mouth after his dick, so long as he's willing to apply it to any and all female errogenous zones before hand, what's the issue? I do understand that it's a deal breaker for some women (particularly those who enjoy being kissed with lips glazed with their own special secret sauce), but that's no reason to run him down. Sex is not about direct reciprocation. It's about giving.

That and if she wanted to have inner ready before blowing me, well, I could get behind that. Not going to insist on it, but it's a nice touch.

Very true, with all the homophobic comments one could compare that much to, well if he masturbates he must be into penis right?

Not to be crude but truly there is little difference. Your own cum freaks you out, ok I can understand that I suppose you prefer not to taste your own flavor. To say it is gay though, that is ridiculous.

I never minded sharing a kiss from a man who has probed with his lips below my waistline, why should the reverse be much different? Oh well, to each his/her own but I would be bothered by a refusal to kiss.

Infinite_Loser · 02-08-2008, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

I mean really, WHO CARES?

So far I count four different people.

Ustwo · 02-08-2008, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaimi

Not to be crude but truly there is little difference. Your own cum freaks you out, ok I can understand that I suppose you prefer not to taste your own flavor. To say it is gay though, that is ridiculous.

I never minded sharing a kiss from a man who has probed with his lips below my waistline, why should the reverse be much different? Oh well, to each his/her own but I would be bothered by a refusal to kiss.

Sorry ladies but if a guy WANTS to taste semen I find that somewhat gay.

Guys who don't MIND it, not gay.

Wanting to gay.

So to make myself clear...

'Baby, I want to taste myself." = gay

Mantus · 02-08-2008, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Sorry ladies but if a guy WANTS to taste semen I find that somewhat gay.

Guys who don't MIND it, not gay.

Wanting to gay.

So to make myself clear...

'Baby, I want to taste myself." = gay

True! Next thing you know he might be asking you to lick his ass

World's King · 02-08-2008, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Sorry ladies but if a guy WANTS to taste semen I find that somewhat gay.

Guys who don't MIND it, not gay.

Wanting to gay.

So to make myself clear...

'Baby, I want to taste myself." = gay

No

"Baby, I want to taste that guy over there cause I'm sexually attracted him." = Gay

Seaver · 02-08-2008, 02:46 PM

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Honestly reading some of the replies here I get the feeling there's guys out there who's first thought after blowing his load is "Where's that damn remote and what times dinner."

So could I turn the table and say that any girl who does not like anal is a total prude and needs to spread 'em more? How about a girl who is afraid of being tied up, can we go around calling her a sissy?

No, it's just something that not all guys like. It has nothing to do with how they treat their girl nor does it has nothing to do with homophobia.

I don't like tasting my own cum. If she would just drink a cup of water afterwards, absolutely I'll kiss her all night long.

If a girl did not like quickies I wouldn't let people degrade her for that, nor should anyone else. I would simply find ways that worked with her preferences, why can't a guy ask the same?

Toaster126 · 02-08-2008, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Seaver

So could I turn the table and say that any girl who does not like anal is a total prude and needs to spread 'em more? How about a girl who is afraid of being tied up, can we go around calling her a sissy?

No, it's just something that not all guys like. It has nothing to do with how they treat their girl nor does it has nothing to do with homophobia.

I don't like tasting my own cum. If she would just drink a cup of water afterwards, absolutely I'll kiss her all night long.

If a girl did not like quickies I wouldn't let people degrade her for that, nor should anyone else. I would simply find ways that worked with her preferences, why can't a guy ask the same?

QFT. Doesn't have to necessarily have anything to do with sexual orientation. I equate tasting my own cum with eating my own boogers. It's also mucus, and I don't do that either.

Tophat665 · 02-08-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaimi

Very true, with all the homophobic comments one could compare that much to, well if he masturbates he must be into penis right? Not to be crude but truly there is little difference. Your own cum freaks you out, ok I can understand that I suppose you prefer not to taste your own flavor. To say it is gay though, that is ridiculous.

Next time I use <Sarcasm></Sarcasm> tags since using the 1337 moron spelling convention didn't get it across.

No I am not worried about my sexuality in any way, shape or form, nor am I threatened by gay men.

My own cum does not, in fact, freak me out. Not particularly tasty, mind you, wouldn't want to put it in a cocktail or anything, but for bonding with Mrs. Hat a bit of shared experience now and then is a wunnerful thing.

With that said, I do understand right where Seaver was coming from, and while I don't share his opinion, I do find trashing him for it to be kind of silly.

And wouldn't you like dinner on the table after an orgasm? Seriously. If while your legs were still trembling your fellow went down stairs and took a couple things out of the oven and fridge and had dinner waiting for you when you staggered downstairs? You'd be silly to turn it down, so as long as it was brought up, even in jest, I'd like to register my approval for any blowjob followed by a nice, home cooked dinner. You have a problem with that?

/ Sorry I confused you.

abaya · 02-08-2008, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by World's King

That's what I'm saying...

It doesn't matter.

Right, I wasn't saying it to you... more to the other people who seem to care so very much about what fluids go where and what kind of deep-seated meanings that MUST have.

Ustwo · 02-08-2008, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by abaya

Right, I wasn't saying it to you... more to the other people who seem to care so very much about what fluids go where and what kind of deep-seated meanings that MUST have.

Yea I mean how can I think its a bit gay to want/desire/get turned on by the taste your own semen as part of a sex act. How narrow minded of me

abaya · 02-08-2008, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Yea I mean how can I think its a bit gay to want/desire/get turned on by the taste your own semen as part of a sex act. How narrow minded of me

I just don't get it, Ustwo. How is wanting to taste yourself somehow related to wanting to sexually be with another person of the same gender? That's like saying because you like to touch your own penis, then you MUST want to touch other men's penises, which makes you gay. I mean... the jump in logic is just completely beyond me.

To me, as a man, you're clearly gay (or at least bisexual) if you are sexually attracted to other men. That is the single qualification.

Tully Mars · 02-08-2008, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Seaver

So could I turn the table and say that any girl who does not like anal is a total prude and needs to spread 'em more? How about a girl who is afraid of being tied up, can we go around calling her a sissy?

No, it's just something that not all guys like. It has nothing to do with how they treat their girl nor does it has nothing to do with homophobia.

I don't like tasting my own cum. If she would just drink a cup of water afterwards, absolutely I'll kiss her all night long.

If a girl did not like quickies I wouldn't let people degrade her for that, nor should anyone else. I would simply find ways that worked with her preferences, why can't a guy ask the same?

Maybe I misread the intent of this statement:

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Originally Posted by Seaver

Yep, absolutely selfish. I never go down on a woman, at all. It's all about me. I also expect her to have dinner ready before she starts blowing me too.

Amazing.

Sorry.

secretgem · 02-08-2008, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by JCOLA

Ladies, does it turn you on to share a kiss with your partner after you have gone down on him? do you like for him to taste his own?

Nothing turns me on more then a kiss ... PERIOD!

m0rpheus · 02-08-2008, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Yea I mean how can I think its a bit gay to want/desire/get turned on by the taste your own semen as part of a sex act. How narrow minded of me

So just out of curiosity do you consider masturbation a bit gay? I mean you are a guy playing with a penis.

As to the OP, I have. Not a huge fan of the flavor but as long as she has either spit or swallowed and I'm not getting a mouthful I'm okay with it.
We usually do keep some water beside the bed so she can have a quick rinse but if it's a spur of the moment thing I have no problem with it either.

snowy · 02-08-2008, 10:48 PM

My man is comfortable with kissing me after I go down on him.

I wouldn't go down on him if he wasn't.

Simple as that.

settie · 02-09-2008, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages

I always kiss afterward. Simply to show that I don't mind. The way I see it: If I'm not willing to even kiss her after she's had my sperm in her mouth, then why in the hell should she be willing to let me put it in in there in the first place?

It's just semen. Unless you don't trust the cleanliness of your own jizz, I just don't see the big deal of it all.

Mister, I like the way you think, and I like you...

The way I see it, if you're getting some, and worried you'll taste yourself on your partners lips or in their mouth, you have to loosen up, and enjoy the sex/foreplay while you got it.

Seaver · 02-09-2008, 06:19 AM

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Maybe I misread the intent of this statement:

Yeah, that was sarcasm based on frustration caused by a lot of the comments on this thread.

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As to the OP, I have. Not a huge fan of the flavor but as long as she has either spit or swallowed and I'm not getting a mouthful I'm okay with it.
We usually do keep some water beside the bed so she can have a quick rinse but if it's a spur of the moment thing I have no problem with it either.

Exactly. I pretty much ensure she has a glass of water, though as we all can figure if she starts it I'm not going to stop her from doing it.

One girl gave me a surprise mouthful, I really didn't like it. Every other girl has swallowed/spit and I'm completely game. It's not like I send her to go brush her teeth, and gargle with bleach before I'll kiss her again. I just don't want the mouthful.

Tully Mars · 02-09-2008, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Seaver

Yeah, that was sarcasm based on frustration caused by a lot of the comments on this thread.

Again, my bad. I should read through things better and skim less.

My Apologies.

Shaindra · 02-09-2008, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Yea I mean how can I think its a bit gay to want/desire/get turned on by the taste your own semen as part of a sex act. How narrow minded of me

And yet, I get turned on by the taste of my own fluids as part of the sex act...and I'm not gay. Why is that different?

Aladdin Sane · 02-09-2008, 03:45 PM

I'll do whatever she wants or whatever will turn her on, period. And I find it deliciously erotic that some girls are turned on by the taste of their own pussy.

Mephex · 02-12-2008, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Seaver

One girl gave me a surprise mouthful, I really didn't like it.

I had this smug look thinking "I couldn't care less, doesn't bother me a bit".

I just threw up in my mouth a little.

I mean, wow, this makes me look bad but damn, that's sick. haha

Plan9 · 02-12-2008, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

Yep, to me its not a sexual thing just a ick thing.

And to think the human mouth is one of the dirtiest orifice we have.

madp · 02-12-2008, 08:24 PM

Not a big fan of tasting my own junk. . .

Charlatan · 02-12-2008, 09:54 PM

As long as it isn't a snowball, I really don't care.

Prince · 03-03-2008, 02:02 PM

I don't kiss my wife very eagerly after she's gone down on me. She knows that, and doesn't push it.

It's psychological, purely, but I haven't analyzed it to a point where I could go guessing as to where it stems from.

elsesomebody · 03-04-2008, 12:55 PM

From a male perspective I used to be grossed out by this, but I quickly got over that. On the flip side, my wife WILL NOT put my cock in her mouth after its been in her. I ask why its ok for my mouth to be down there but not hers, although I realize its slightly different being inside then outside. I'm curious what other women/men think about the flipside of kissing cock or mouth after cunnilingus.

02-08-2008, 12:41 PM	#44 (permalink)
Tully Mars Living in a Warmer Insanity Super Moderator Location: Yucatan, Mexico	I don't have an issue with it. Any lady kind enough to indulge me and wants a kiss afterward is alright in my book. Honestly reading some of the replies here I get the feeling there's guys out there who's first thought after blowing his load is "Where's that damn remote and what times dinner." __________________ I used to drink to drown my sorrows, but the damned things have learned how to swim- Frida Kahlo Vice President Starkizzer Fan Club

02-08-2008, 10:48 PM	#59 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	My man is comfortable with kissing me after I go down on him. I wouldn't go down on him if he wasn't. Simple as that. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

02-09-2008, 03:45 PM	#64 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	I'll do whatever she wants or whatever will turn her on, period. And I find it deliciously erotic that some girls are turned on by the taste of their own pussy. __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

02-12-2008, 08:24 PM	#67 (permalink)
madp Insane Location: New Orleans/Chicago	Not a big fan of tasting my own junk. . . __________________ why are you wearing that stupid man suit?

02-12-2008, 09:54 PM	#68 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	As long as it isn't a snowball, I really don't care. __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

02-08-2008, 12:26 PM	#43 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	I don't care. I kiss my boy after he's gone down on me, and I'll give him a blowjob if we've had sex without "washing" the area beforehand. I don't mind my own taste. He doesn't mind kissing me if I've given him a blowjob, but only if he hasn't ejaculated. He's not so fond of it after that point.

03-03-2008, 02:02 PM	#69 (permalink)
Prince /nɑndəsˈkrɪpt/ Location: LV-426	I don't kiss my wife very eagerly after she's gone down on me. She knows that, and doesn't push it. It's psychological, purely, but I haven't analyzed it to a point where I could go guessing as to where it stems from. __________________ Who is John Galt?

03-04-2008, 12:55 PM	#70 (permalink)
elsesomebody Tilted Location: North Carolina	From a male perspective I used to be grossed out by this, but I quickly got over that. On the flip side, my wife WILL NOT put my cock in her mouth after its been in her. I ask why its ok for my mouth to be down there but not hers, although I realize its slightly different being inside then outside. I'm curious what other women/men think about the flipside of kissing cock or mouth after cunnilingus.