Can't speak for GalaxyGirl, but when I put on my collar for Jaid, I am publicly/openly showing my submission to him, but I'm the one who puts it on, not him saying put on your collar. He tells me when to take it off, but the first step is mine.
I'm "collared" to him because he is the only one I will ever put that collar on for. We've discussed him handing me over to another with the collar on, but we haven't talked it through enough to even look for that right other person to be allowed to handle me. I'd like a female dom I think.
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