Or friends, or whatever.
This actually isn't inspired by my other shower-oriented thread in Tilted Life, but rather by a Dear Abby column from earlier this week.
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RELUCTANT WIFE COMES CLEAN ABOUT SHOWERING WITH HUSBAND
DEAR ABBY: My husband has been talking about many married couples who take showers together. In fact, he claims that most couples do. Our relationship in the bedroom has been great so far, and I'd like to keep it there. I don't want a twosome in the bathroom. Am I wrong to enjoy my privacy in the shower? -- SQUEAKY CLEAN IN NORTH CAROLINA
DEAR SQUEAKY CLEAN: Many married couples take showers together, and many don't. Among those who do, some find it arousing; others just enjoy the intimacy and having someone to scrub their backs.
If you feel your time in the shower is sacred alone time, you're entitled to your feelings. If an encounter isn't pleasurable for both parties involved, then it's usually not particularly satisfying for either one.
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Dear Abby - from TBO.com
It made me curious as to how many people enjoy showering with their significant others (or other people in general, like friends), and what their reasons for their enjoyment or dislike of this activity are.
For myself, I enjoy sharing a shower with my hubby. I wish we had a better shower for sharing! When we were on our honeymoon, we had the PERFECT shower--double heads facing each other and plenty of room to move around each other. It was also great because we could customize the temperature of the shower water--I like mine hot hot and he likes his lukewarm. We don't always have sexy time in the shower--in fact, in our shower, that's kind of uncomfortable, and out of respect for our roommates, we generally refrain. I just like the chance to have some time with him in our own little space, and I like having someone to wash my back.
How about you?