Cynthetiq

There isn't any harm, I thought I stated that it's fine, but I do not think it the lusture of the relationship. Eventually, those little things, have to have a space in the house, a space for keepsakes etc. It's great when you have a huge house, but when you move from place to place, it's not very practical when you sit there having to decide to toss some small item that isn't really representative of your relationship. Yes it's thoughtful, it helps. Skogafoss likes flowers is torn because they are expensive, and they just die. She finds them to be a waste of money. The same kind of happens for the tchotckes when we more or cleanup. Its nice a little thoughtful toy, but really, we'd rather have the $$.

There are people who have very deep relationships without things, because they can't afford them. But their relationship can be just as passionate than someone who gets candies and flowers on a regular basis.

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