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*Raises her hand*
Here as well. I find it the ultimate in a satisfying relationship. Many people are misled to believe that the Dom would be a selfish and critical partner reacting only to his needs. In truth it is a relationship that is so incredibly bonded by trust it is almost a magical experience. Sure, it is not right for some. Unfortunately, it is considered taboo and most people have it all wrong. I can say that I have been in the most typical vanilla-type relationships. I found them unsatisfying, and they strayed elsewhere in some cases. In a D/s relationship nothing really happens without a clear consent. If straying is done it would be in a manner that would be completely unhidden, not to mention agreed upon. Everything done in fact is agreed upon, I have filled out contracts of such in the past.
In any case, I assure you that it is not all about being left black and blue, it is completely different from domestic assault(to those who see it as only a S&M type thing) It is enlightening, finding your limits and your significant others limits as well. Incredibly freeing and arousing to me personally. I don't know if I could ever fall back into the norm again.
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