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Originally Posted by ngdawg
While it's important to consider someone else's feelings, you have to have some amount of selfishness too. You will hold it against her if you don't go. You don't know if this opportunity will ever come around again and, like Chiyachan said, there will come a time you will regret iti if you acquiesce to her . Been there, done that, didn't get the tshirt.
Two weeks is nothing in a lifetime. And being apart is not a bad thing-it gives each of you the chance to be yourselves and do a little self-exploration. If she has people she hasn't seen in a while, she should reconnect during this time.
Go.
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Yeah. You're not attached at the hip, and you shouldn't give in to emotional blackmail. It is what it is- you and your friend are going to vacation for 2 weeks, you haven't seen each other in a while, and this is something you've wanted to do for some time. It's not like he said "hey lets go get some whores together". You're just going away for a measly 2 weeks. If she can't live without you for a whole 2 weeks, that's a real codependency problem.