Sultana

Well, he had a counseling appointment last night, and I asked him to bring up the "dating other people" topic. Apparantly his counselor and I agree on this topic; it would not be good for our situation. So he's not going to, he seems fine with that, and I trust him.

Initially I was very concerned that just him wanting to start dating others already is a symptom of the end for everything before the separation even got off the ground. But especially after reading through the "how would you feel if you thought your ex had incestuous feelings" thread, I'm just gonna let it go, continue to trust him, and be grateful for his honesty in telling me how he feels. For a long time I felt that he wasn't honest with himself, so how could he be honest with me?...so now, it looks like he's being honest with himself and the things that he's thinking about, and that's good, however this ends. Seriously.

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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -

Matt Groening

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