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Originally Posted by SecretMethod70
That said, I think the idea that in order to know he wants you he needs to try out others is misguided at best.
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Emphasis on the "misguided." Man, if I was just starting a separation and my husband wanted to immediately start seeing other women... holy fuck, I think I would be out of there as soon as I could get a judge's gavel to come down on the decision. I would find it extremely difficult to reconcile after the other person made a request like that... and vice versa, if I was asking to go sleep around or date other men in the interim, I would expect my husband to give me the boot immediately as well. Even if the marriage is unhappy, that doesn't mean it deserves to be disrespected at the first sign of "freedom" or whatever.
Sultana, I am so very sorry to hear all this... I have been following your journals and this thread, and I just keep wishing for better news. I am going to keep wishing... but above all, take care of you, alright? We're definitely here for you.
