"Unfortunately, I feel like if you're done, you're done."
Maybe separation should be just that, a separation, no dating, no nothing except the counseling....if you both find you miss one another, then something is still there, worth trying to save, maybe, or maybe it is just "done".
Don't concede to do things he wants out of feelings of guilt, which sort of sounds like what's happening with the counsellor issue, I mean she is supposed to be objective regardless of counseling you individually. Its her job.
As for the sex thing, that will just further cloud and extend a relationship that perhaps shouldn't be extended and maybe just make things worse.
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Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson
Last edited by hagatha; 05-12-2007 at 06:39 AM..
Reason: clarity of thought
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