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Originally Posted by JinnKai
That said, I second the 6months estimate. Three/four weeks is definitely not enough time.
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And the 2 weeks I was separated from my ex, is really not enough time. We divorced 4 months after we got back together.
About the no sleeping together...check your state laws...you need to find out if 'giving in' one night will negate the legal part of separation. I knew someone years ago whose "soon-to-se-ex-husband" tried to use it against her. His lawer called her babysitter (me) to find out if he'd stayed the night, if he was there when I arrived in the morning, had clothes there, etc etc. He was trying to show reconcilliation so the judge would deny divorce. He wasn't getting what he wanted in the divorce, and thought starting back at square one would give him a better chance.