I'm totally in on this one... I'm 5'8", and one of the guys I'm dating is 5'9"... I enjoy wearing heels, and it doesn't bother him when I'm taller than him, but it bothers me. It's a power thing. I want to feel safe and secure with the man I'm with, and feel that he could protect me. If I'm taller or weigh more than him, I don't feel like he could protect me as much as I could protect him, and I don't want to be that vulnerable. Also, for the weight thing, I want to be able to wear his jeans and have them be big on me... I feel fat if his clothes are smaller than mine.
