First off how can you claim to love someone you have never even really met?
Look, yes loving someone means loving them regardless. Regardless of what happens to them included. HOWEVER, you fell in love with the girl in the picture. Yes maybe her personality is the same, but you fall in love with someone physically as well. Anyone who says otherwise is flat out lying.
Yes, while phrases like the following make me feel really good:
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If Pan was disfigured tomorrow, I would still love him. He would still be Pan.
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It's faulty in this case. She fell in love with Pan physically as well as mentally, and she knows every aspect about him. You didn't even know what she looked like, how can you actually love her? If it were me I'd be upset she deliberately misrepresented herself from day one. If it were me I'd send her a picture of Brad Pitt in a swimsuit and tell her about my recent trip to the beach (ok maybe not, but I'd be tempted).
And finally, sign me up for the old-school side. You can't have a relationship beyond close friends with anyone you've never actually met.