and at the end of the day, after you've repressed all these judgments, you're still left with them...only you're not really dealing with it. you're ignoring it. i see no reason to throw them away. i say keep them, and appreciate them for what they are. just superficial judgments. nothing more, nothing less. but they are what they are. i don't think you can "move past" something you don't accept and incorporate.
ie. you might date a girl who's butt ugly, but love her because she's sweet and a great cook or something. but she's still ugly.
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