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Originally Posted by Lady Sage
You either love her or you dont. If Pan was disfigured tomorrow, I would still love him. He would still be Pan.
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I see what you're saying, and don't doubt it, but I don't think that it applies well to the OP. You're in a committed relationship that includes marriage, if I recall correctly. The OP is talking about someone he has never even met in person. Why would he be expected to love her (or not) at this point? He may lust for her, he may find her intriguing, but I don't see how he can love her.
Another version of the above: Let's say Pan was horribly disfigured before you ever met him. Are you totally sure that you would end up falling in love with him?
And BTW I am not comparing gaining weight during pregnancy to disfigurement. Odds are we're talking MILF in just another year or two......