Well, first off, I agree with pigglet that she chose to misrepresent herself at the beginning of your relationship. Which isn't necessarily a horrible thing, especially if you're not expecting the relationship to get serious. But it led directly to the situation you're in now.
But, that said, if you truly love her. Don't let one picture totally dismay you. Like Charlatan said, she may just take bad pictures. Many people look much more attractive in action than they do in pictures. And personality can go a long way in making people look beautiful and desirable.
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