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Why did you move out of YOUR house? She's the one that's fucking around on you and treating your marriage like a middle school relationship, you need to pack up her shit on the doorstep and change the locks. If that feels harsh then tell yourself that the only reason you didn't throw all of it out the window and light it on fire in the front yard is that you still care for her a little bit. I can guarantee you that's what she would be doing if your situation was reversed. You're still letting her walk all over you and it's not going to stop until you act like you've got a pair and put up some boundaries.
Get pissed off. You deserve it. Let her know EXACTLY what you're thinking. Get in her face and yell a little. Don't do anything stupid or touch her, but I bet what she's looking for in other people is some manliness... bad-boy factor or what-have-you. If there's any chance whatsoever of you staying together in the long run, it's going to happen as a result of you standing up for yourself and being a whole person. You have feelings. She stomped all over them. Don't just put your tail between your legs and slink off. Go take charge of your house and your life. Let your WIFE know that she can either come crawling back to you as the most apologetic woman the world has ever known or she can take a long fucking walk off of a short pier.
I'm not the kind of person to get angry, but what she is doing to you is NOT ACCEPTABLE.
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