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thelifeandtimes,
Reading what you've posted so far, it seems that you've handled this as maturely as anyone could have expected to. You've said some things you now wish you didn't say, but you have to allow for the fact that she's been pretty much stringing you along since she told you she wanted to end it.
Since I'm only replying to what you've shared with us, I have to admit that my take may not be entirely informed, but I get the impression that she's attempting to manipulate you to see just how much control she can exert over you emotionally.
She initiated the breakup, but didn't get the response she was hoping for. I don't think she's doing this intentionally or maliciously, but she is being manipulative nonetheless.
You're handling it pretty well from what you've shared with us. Stay strong and realize that there are many many women out there who won't treat you this way.
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"I can normally tell how intelligent a man is by how stupid he thinks I am" - Cormac McCarthy, All The Pretty Horses
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