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Thanks for the advice everyone, it really helped. To update you all on the current status of this. The day after she ended it, I just relaxed and got her off my mind and decided that I don't have enough time in life to be sad over something I can't change. I realized that she was acting off of pure emotion and didn't have a stable mind to be making these decisions, but nonetheless, I can't help what I can't change. I told her this the following night and explained that I will be there for her if she ever needs a friend, but not for awhile. I told her that for us to maintain a strong friendship we need to take time apart and completely cut all ties for bit for a our emotions to subside and so we could talk to each other level-headed. So now I'm trying to stay busy, so I won't start thinking about her. The only bad thing is, is that she sits right next to me in my Government class, but I know that I can deal with it, it'll give me all the more reason to pay more attention to the harder parts of the class. The only thing that kills me, or will, is seeing her with other guys. But I suppose only time will ease that fear.
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