I voted for ignored.
I like to dress attractively, mostly professional feminine, but I do it for how it makes me feel about myself, and for Grace, not for the attention of men. My goal when in public is usually not to be noticed, which my manner of dress may sometimes conflict with. When I am noticed, however I would like the person who notices me to see that I've put some effort into looking nice. I don't know how to reconcile those two ideas except that I like how I look in heels and a skirt, and I like how it makes me feel to look that way, so that's how I dress. It doesn't give anyone liscense to be rude.
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When the passing man whispers into your ear, "You are so beautiful," then disappears in the crowd.
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That would creep the hell out of me.
Gilda